Anyone realize the major fallacy behind calling it "Invisible Game"?
It's MAGICAL sales copy. But it means two completely different things to guys who have an understanding of what's actually entailed by it, versus newbs reading about "invisible game" on some sales page for some hokey pickup product.
Does Alex use that name? I think I remember him using that phrase. Not sure what it's supposed to mean but I understand how it can be misinterpreted.
Invisible game gives the impression that you can hide your real intentions and thus don't have to be vulnerable (read: real regardless of the potential outcome/polarization) to get the girl. The antithesis of being real/authentic/congruent.
The way to develop an attractive way of being is becoming unattached to the outcome of you being real. When a girl can feel that you genuinely have let go of the outcome it conveys that you're both bold and not needy too. It makes her trust you more because your honest self expression is guided by your truth Vs trying to get her to perceive you a certain way.
Empathy statements are also important too as an aside.
I always thought it is as if you were some random observer you would think it's her bf and not a guy 'practicing pickup'.
Yes it's basically "picking up" without looking like you're picking up. It's ALSO being a super attractive guy without actively trying to engage any one particular girl. The traits and behaviors of a "super attractive guy" are very learnable and that's what the idea's getting at. HOWEVER the fallacy of it, the trick that draws newbies in.. is the idea they think they can be super stealthy and shy/timid and pull a girl back to their batcave without doing much or drawing attention to themselves. That's why it's such genius sales copy. Lol!
Yes it's basically "picking up" without looking like you're picking up. It's ALSO being a super attractive guy without actively trying to engage any one particular girl. The traits and behaviors of a "super attractive guy" are very learnable and that's what the idea's getting at. HOWEVER the fallacy of it, the trick that draws newbies in.. is the idea they think they can be super stealthy and shy/timid and pull a girl back to their batcave without doing much or drawing attention to themselves. That's why it's such genius sales copy. Lol!
Damnnnn! Bang on....
Pussies always want to solve their problems without doing real work...
Yes it's basically "picking up" without looking like you're picking up. It's ALSO being a super attractive guy without actively trying to engage any one particular girl. The traits and behaviors of a "super attractive guy" are very learnable and that's what the idea's getting at. HOWEVER the fallacy of it, the trick that draws newbies in.. is the idea they think they can be super stealthy and shy/timid and pull a girl back to their batcave without doing much or drawing attention to themselves. That's why it's such genius sales copy. Lol!
Funny, i never even thought about it that way before
i must be advanced