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A quick  daygame convo with a cute hipster girl doing some promo work for her store.  Got her number and qualified her on having unique fashion and good taste in movies and TV.  

But I think I fucked up massively near the end.  I somehow in the moment got the feeling she didn't get the joke about the serial killer... and then I backtracked and made myself look like a complete chump.  Also I didn't go for the meetup smoothly near the end.  

Me: Her name- my name 

Me - 1 min later: Meet at uni and queen 

Me - 5 mins later: Oops that was meant for my friend haha 

Girl - 21 mins later: It was nice meeting you 

Me - 9 mins later: Same, you have an unique vibe about you. 

Me - 22 hrs 15 mins later: What kind of trouble are you getting into today :p 

Girl - 7 mins later: I am just at the store working 

Girl: Watching queen street go by 

Me - 25 mins later: Nice I'm about to grab some jerk chicken. So delish 

Me - 2 mins later: People watchings always fun, I love playing the "hipster or homeless" guessing game haha 

Girl - 3 mins later: Haha yeah thats a good one 

Me - 1 hr 41 mins later: Damnit jerk chicken was closed so I had to cook a chicken breast. So chilly today I feel like ice cream but the sun disapproves 

Girl - 18 mins later: Yummm soon enough tho. 

Me - 12 mins later: Yep you should join me. Only if ya promise me your not a serial killer haha 

Girl - 2 mins later: I am sorry not this evening 

Girl: And no I am not a serial killer 

Me - 3 mins later: Ah no I was thinking later in the week I'm at my parents today. 

Me - 2 mins later: And of course not I was joking bout that boo :) 

Girl: Lol

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I think you're fine... but

I think you're fine... but these feel so impersonal, they're still missing that spark. You see how I start crafting/creating a bit of a backstory on us two together..? I'm manufacturing a shared story together.try that. What's this girls context?

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Manwhore wrote:I think

Manwhore wrote:
I think you're fine... but these feel so impersonal, they're still missing that spark. You see how I start crafting/creating a bit of a backstory on us two together..? I'm manufacturing a shared story together.try that. What's this girls context?

Hmm, so this girl was promoting her vintage clothing store and I came up and commented on her checkered skirt.  I remember talking about us watching Deliverance together and getting her number that way.

I think I get the gist of what you're saying though, craft a backstory, get some emotional momentum going, and invite her based on that backstory.   Like what Pottedflowers does with the whole "Batman and Robin" thing.  

I'll shoot her a reengagement text tomorrow when I wake up and see how it turns out.   

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Yes.. *facepalm* like what

Yes.. *facepalm* like what Potted does with the whole "Batman and Robin" thing. But it's even better to make it personal to your guys' backstory. 

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You could be like.. so we

You could be like.. so we should go pick out something from your vintage shop to watch Deliverance in. Maybe go pick some cotton first

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Oh dude I thought Deliverance

Oh dude I thought Deliverance was about the civil war. Whoops 

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I sent her a reengagement

I think I get the gist of it.  Whatever we talked about in the first interaction, make a backstory out of it.  I'll make sure I do that from now on, and even in the interaction itself i"ll set up a roleplay to make it easier when I text the girl.  Looks like this girl might not go through tho.  all good.  Thanks a lot, that's a major thing I needed to implement into my text game.

I sent her a reengagement text like 6 hours ago no reply.  I'll give it one final try by using Bateman's line with "Don't just ignore me.. Say something, loser ;)".

Me 6 hours ago: Damn so cold today did ya punch old man winter in the balls or something.

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^ That's a good one lol 

^ That's a good one lol 

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