Artist Chick

Okay sent, what you said like at 11 pm, no response, more bs continue down thread or change topics

Going to send this later

Wait!  Do you have any artisic references, any drawings of naked people in the art museum, can't have just anybody drawing me naked

:)

calibrate by sending a ;p right after because it is like two days after we talked about this

btw MW:

sites been extremly glitchy when trying to post from my phone, basically impossible to type anything out

What's wrong with posting on the forum while on your phone?

ALL of these girls you text about they all invariably start sending you texts like this. You seriously put off "chasing" vibes way too much. 

I'm not having issues posting from my phone

Didn't see these responses until just now..

Do you mean I must be giving off "chasing vibes" in my texting or in person?

I mean I feel like no matter how my first interaction goes with a girl, I'm fucking it up hard over texting.

I need to think on this...

edit:  might be because I'm not getting laid and each new phone number is like oh heres a new girl that I could possibly fuck if I can get her out with me.  I'm not texting a bunch of girls at the same time.

Also in the past I've always been pretty laid back and passive in life, always been pretty cool, pretty social, but not getting laid.  Still getting used to actually going for exactly what I want, making moves, framing shit etc

About the glitchiness on my phone.

On my iphone whenever, I'm trying to type something up on your forum its really slow and delayed;  I try to type something up and its takes so long for the text to respond to what I've pressed on my phone and I can't see if what I'm typing is making sense or anything.  It only happens for the forum too and it used to be pretty easy to type up something from my phone.

Just tested it and it was the same.

You're giving off the chasing vibes in person it's pretty clear. A lot of your text convos go this way where the chick just cops a major "you want me" attitude. 

Does anyone else have the same experience typing on the forum from an iphone? Mario does the same thing happen when you post on rsdn? 

Also, if you're only texting each girl at a time, letting it burn out and then finding a new girl to start the process over with, that is definitely a mistake lol. You need to be texting all your girls all the time to be getting somewhere (like getting laid).

Where are all your initial interactions going with girls? I don't know the new scoop with you.. 

why aren't you getting manwhore coaching?

remember; the self is always coming through, i.e your neediness is always coming through.

Typing on rsdn was completly fine no lag at all.

I'm racking my brains about this "chasing vibes" thing, because I have definitely noticed girls throwing that "you want me attitude" at me, like very consistently..

Initially met her after I was pissed that I wasn't making shit happen with that dancergirl from the other thread and that I couldn't get her to meet up on a day 2 or anything.

It was like one of the last weeks before finals and I got some advice here about dancer chick on here to hook up with another girl in front of her etc because I felt myself reaching and her like pulling back.

So I flirted with another girl for a while while dancerchick was there, couldn't make it happen with dancer chick, went back to the new girl, kept flirting leading her around, making moves couldn't get her to react in that right way to hook up with me, she complied with everything, but got her number anyway, just trying to build up abundance or whatever.

This is the situation from the next night, dancer chick doesn't get to the house, but her friends are here.  I see this new girl that I think is hot and just start flirting with her, move her around to a spot where I'm sitting on a speaker and shes standing between my legs.

I talked and talked with her and she was getting more and more attracted. Got physical, by pulling her in by the hips, her right up on me as I’m sitting down. Projecting intent, through my eyes etc. Start triangle gazing a little and move in. Than she says “I know what you’re doing”, blah blah I’m not trying to hook up tonight. As she said that I blew it off, and was thinking that we definitely are now. I had nothing else going on, and this girl was cute so I stuck around.

- I lead her around to my apartment, she’s sitting on my lap, chat some more, people are around so I say lets grab a beer in my room. Than she’s says something to the effect of is this where you show me the tour of your room etc. Still she follows me into my room, and I place her on my lap, she’s straddling me, but still resists hooking up with me. I’m completely laid back about what she’s saying, still projecting and teasing her etc. It starts to get cozier, than there’s a knock on my door, I say ignore it, and yell that I’m busy but the guy keeps knocking and she hops off my lap and opens the door. Than literally walks right back to where we started, and I find her over there like 10 minutes later. Talk for a bit more kiss her and than she leaves like half an hour later.

I guess a kid that’s in my fraternity is good friends with her and she told him something like this:

She didn’t plan on hooking up that night, but she wanted to hang out with me or something to that effect.

yea at that point in time, I was texting a few girls at the same time lol, but it takes me so long to try to develop a good text and responses that I usually just forget or get busy; which is in hindsight really fucking stupid

@ Gogo lol I definitely would again, but I'm poor as fuck currently have no money to spend on it and don't really have the location, where I could be by myself to have a skype call with john and do all the drills and shit.  Living in a frat house.

Ok so what's happening here is pretty obvious to me at this point. You're not escalating fast enough and isolating fast enough. Derp

So to protect themselves these girls are copping that attitude. 

Reading through that little field report with those girls was somewhat painful. You got a girl sitting/standing/straddled between your legs you haven't isolated her you are making a huge mistake. 

Okay I'll work on this.

I  remember that night that;  I didn't think I could hook up with her at those earlier points.  I was physically leading her/moving her into all those positions, I isolated her from her friends in the first 5 minutes of the convo by moving her to where I could sit and  I definitely remember pulling her between my legs, feeling her body resist a little bit, pulling her in anyway for a second than letting her go/softly shoving her away a little bit and than her moving into the position I initially pulled her into. I was still feeling it out/ not really sure if this girl was into me.  The next step in the interaction was definitely for me to kiss her neck/make out with her.  She was physically complying with my escalation before, I thought I even had attraction enough to escalate further.

Now that  about it,I think I was staying more in my comfort zone it was a kick back so it wasn't a crazy party atmosphere, where I'm much more comfortable escalating harder, and it was earlyish, so I probably wasn't as comfortable making the move that I should have.

Wow, thinking about it, very similar thing went down, initially with dancergirl at a party.  I used to be way more agressive with a lot less verbal "game", now I'm not agressive enough at the right points in the interaction that I need to hit.

Thanks for the headsup.

Yep. You just nailed the major sticking point of the intermediate skill level. That lack of aggressiveness mixed with trying to gauge the girl's level of compliance. 

You should have pulled her into some room by yourselves and pulled her titties out. 

Want to throw a low investment text out to see whats up with this chick she got a boyfriend over the summer seen her like once.

Hey don’t say anything but guess who’s still together after all the shit between them?

 ur buttcheeks!

or

I miss you & wanna see u, but this dumb security guard won’t let me in the zoo. Is there any way u can escape?

since she's been mia

You should do the one about aliens abducting all the sexy people to do experiments on procreation 

this one?

Aliens are coming to abduct all the good looking sexy ass people! You will be safe, I’m just texting to say goodbye

Yeah and edit it to include the procreation experiments part

Aliens are coming to abduct all the good looking sexy ass people to do experiments on procreation!

You will be safe, I’m just texting to say goodbye

what about sending it like this. send the top first and than the second  right after it looks a bit long

or

Alien's are coming to kidnap all the sexy ass people for some crazy experiments on procreation.! You are safe, I'm just texting to say bye.

You know what man I would just invite her to your bday celebration tonight 

alright I'll just shoot out the same text that I sent the volleyball chick

No response from her could be a dead number by now lol...

Send her something like, "Still sketching pictures of nakee girls and trying to pretend you're not a lesbian by now? ;)"