Asian Girl Who I haven't seen in three weeks

I'd keep it a bit more even keeled than that. Be congruent to the image of you she has in her head

I'd hit her up with something like, "so what kind of Asian food can you cook"

Solid advice. I'm coming from a needier place now that my car broke down and this is the only girl who lives close enough and has the resources to drive me over to her house to fuck.

Come again (So to speak) On the whole "even keel" thing?

That's actually what got my text game stellar back in the day. My car broke down and I was broke, and at first I was like.. ok guess I'm not getting laid now. But then my buddy who was an even bigger douche than I just started texting girls and telling them to come over. And it worked I couldn't believe it. So I started doing it too and got CRAZY good with text game.. which if you think about it, you SHOULD just skip all the bullshit and have them come over.

OK last text was

So what kind of asian food can you cook?

Filipino. Because I'm filipino. (Could pretty much tell it was going bad right here)

Ok. What kind of food does this entail pumpkin butt?

I don't mean to be rude but I'm sort of talking to someone now and I feel like it's going somewhere. It feels wrong texting other guys.

I'm considering texting her.

Ok - You're a sweet girl. I just want you to be happy.

(This might be kind of "laying it a but thick" considering that I only saw her once over three weeks ago.)

Truth of the matter is that I KNOW that there is no way in hell that any guy she talks to is anywhere near my quality. I consider myself really out of this girl's league - but as of now I haven't been that good at keeping girls ( with the exception of 3 or 4  over the last few years that I would see once a week for a couple months) so I want to get better at it - so I figured this is a good place to start. ANy ideas?

Btw bit of Background info - I met her off POF (I haven't been the biggest online gamer and I haven't gotten laid off of it but somehow this worked out)

Before we had sex she wanted to make sure that I wouldn't lose respect for her and that we could still see eachother. I was fine with it

"It's all good"

in your situation, I would prefer to show abundance rather than validate her for basically rejecting you. I don't think this is some kind of shit test.

Benn you keep saying things like you're out of this girl's league and she's slightly intimidated by you, yada yada. Yet you act like a pussy with her. What the fuck is your deal dude. Get with the program

As it stands you were a one night stand that turned into a weirdo afterwards. You need to relearn what drives attraction and male/female dynamics

Also, you say that you're "sure no guy she is talking to is better than you"  or something along those lines.

but like, MW pointed out are you sure that's true? It may be truth in your mind but think about it from her perspective.

"I know I would make this girl happy."

"We're meant for each other."

"I'm way cooler than that faggot she is with now." 

^^All chode rationalizations that are commonly derived from bitterness and not in truth.

take a step back and really analyze where you are with this particular girl.

Like on a logical level - she isn't that hot and I doubt she gets fucked well often. So yeah I believe that that is my main benefit to her

Honestly I don't even know if she is with another guy. I got too soft thinking that I had to emotionally compensate for not seeing her for 3 weeks. idk I guess I was trying to show that should could have me and I came off as a pussy. Pathetic.

So I Texted her : Cool you deserve to be happy.

SHe texted: Thanks

thinking of texting her "And no matter what remember 'Me love you long time :p" just for a laugh. Thoughts>?

The "cooking" text was supposed to be a hard qualifying/teasing text. Instead you somehow managed to turn it into a boring interview style/bitch text lol. This is WHY she responded in the way she did. Girls don't fuck betas they despise them in that regard. Coupled with the fact she fucked one unknowingly, she's pretty pissed off. Now whether you are one or not remains to be seen, but you are certainly COMMUNICATING you are one, and on this planet that IS what matters.

I've been looking through the articles on my site and I realize that I don't have a proper setup/context for the basic theory of male/female attraction.

Benn what's your basic idea of how male/female dynamics work?

I'd just text her, "Yeah I was being too nice apparently. When all I want you for is to cook me dinner and fuck me."

Manwhore -

I think the man's job is to penetrate and open up the girl (whether it be through dumb jokes, being present, looking at them in a way that makes them horny, saying it how it is, ect). Act as a leader - say what's on your mind and make sure that she knows that you are the boss both in the relationship and in your life. Girls don't want to be with fucking wimps who won't own up to what they want (like I did here) and it disgusts them.

The girls job is to take all this in, and to make sure that the man is being authentic and that he actually is a boss and not someone who spent a day on a pickup site "trying" to be a boss. If he is in fact being authentic and is a boss (who isn't some fat slob), her pussy inexplicably gets wet.

And thanks for that text - Felt good texting something I actually felt as opposed to this needy Bullshit I've been doing lately.