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Sorry I've been so MIA guys. Been working on so much school work, trying to get my self back into shape but also have been dealing with injuries from a car crash I was in. Has been a whirlwind of a month. All I know for sure right now is, I'm back and finally got a bit of free time. 

Was wondering if you guys could offer me some advice on this situation I am in.

Been gaming this girl the past 2-3 weeks, really got to know her well. The problem I'm having is that she's so busy all the time and everytime we make plans something comes up. She claims she really wants to get together but her actions show otherwise. She told me she is very afraid of getting hurt and this is what I'm thinking the actual issue is. I kind of wanted to tell her I'm not interested in wasting my time and what not..but I'm not sure it's the right move given the situation. She's told me a lot of personal things she hasn't told anyone so I'm assuming she means it when she says she wants too.. but the her being afraid thing is getting in the way. 

What do you guys suggest I do? I am still gaming and seeing other girls, just not sure how to handle this. I kind of want to just stop messaging her and replying to her snapchats, etc. just because it's a little weird for me to engage with her so much for nothing. I would like to see her but I'm not sure how at this point.

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Yeah you need some pointed

Yeah you need some pointed disapproval in your texts

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Right, I dont want to

Right, I dont want to randomly just say it though. Maybe I should just wait a few days and re-engage then do it from there? Since I don't want to come across as butthurt

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Probably be a good idea to

Probably be a good idea to post some examples

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I was about to but then she

I was about to but then she messaged me and explained what was going on and it was her being afraid. I managed to sort of figure out why she was so nervous/uneasy and I think she felt a lot more comfortable with it once we talked it out. I'll set up a day 2 with her in a few days since I'm swamped with homework and what not anyways. Plus this way I'll let it be not so rushed and back to back since we originally had plans the previous day that she had to cancel.
I'll just do as you guys usually recommend which would be to hit her up with value until I'm free then set up a meet up and continue with what I usually do.

Thanks bro, I considered confronting her but she did it first so I didn't have to come across as butt hurt or anything.

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