bang non-sexy girls to get sexy girls?
· people say that “having girls gets girls” due to social proof
What happened when these girls you weren't attracted to offered you sex? I'm assuming you declined from your initial post. The way that played out provides the framework here.
E.g. I'm not going to answer some run of the mill "ask gabby" type dating question that gets broken down ad nauseam in every fucking issue of Cosmopolitan and Men's Health.
Demonstrate some actual first hand knowledge of this kind of situation so we know you're not just pretending here.
What happened when these girls you weren't attracted to offered you sex? I'm assuming you declined from your initial post. The way that played out provides the framework here.
Demonstrate some actual first hand knowledge of this kind of situation so we know you're not just pretending here.
Ok well mang this is super generic. But yeah as a general rule of thumb it's not going to interfere with anything going forward. Each woman is pretty much her own sovereign authority on this subject. They could tell themselves they're not into you after hearing about you banging someone they think is low value, but as soon as you step to them with proper game all that's out the window immediately.
Are you not attracted to these women pursuing you at all? Do you find yourself only attracted to a particular type of girl? Or are these women offering you sex just not that attractive? All of these play a role obviously.
You'll also find lots of women get quite resentful of a man once he "rejects" her. They'll even go out of their way to be a mean-spirited pain in the ass. Sometimes it's good to throw a girl a bone just to keep her mouth shut.
Are you not attracted to these women pursuing you at all? Do you find yourself only attracted to a particular type of girl? Or are these women offering you sex just not that attractive? All of these play a role obviously.You'll also find lots of women get quite resentful of a man once he "rejects" her. They'll even go out of their way to be a mean-spirited pain in the ass. Sometimes it's good to throw a girl a bone just to keep her mouth shut.
· the girls that i rejected were both 8s
· but they just weren't my type
· i didn't reject them directly though
· so they haven't dispayed resentment
· ex.
·· with 1 girl, we talked about prudish girls
·· and she said that she's not a prude
·· then she gave me her number
·· and she said that she wanted to hang out
·· i just never followed through with her
· i've been thinking more about this issue
· and i now think that whether you have sex with them or not doesn't matter
· the thing that matters is being seen with them
· i remember rsd tyler talking about keeping several 8+s around him that he never has sex with
· and he says that this still adds social value to him
· other girls will often assume that he has sex with those girls
· and if they find out that he doesn't, then it can still add value
· this is because many girls will find him more challenging or sought after if he'll reject 8+s
Yeah dude. Basic shit. But can you pull it off is the question