Banged a girl and some dude who's obsessed with her came to pick her up/drama ensues
I met this chick out, a quick 2 min interaction which was very on.
Get her number.
She comes out to meet me.
We go to our place and bang.
Basically she lives in another city so she's getting a ride. I was assume it was with a chick friend.
We go back to my place. There's my roommates and 2 other girls they pulled.
We all drink together. Me and my girl are getting pretty phsyical.
At a certain point I pull her to my room.
We fuck. There's 0 LMR. She's super enthuisastic and I come on her face and she licks it up.
Anyways afterwards she takes a super quick nap and then I'm like "yo you have to go catch your ride". So she starts getting her shit.
Anyways she gets a phone call. Its a dude. I think it was the friend's dad but then I can clearly tell tis not.
At this point I should have honestly shut the fuck up. But I told her my address for the dude since I assumed it was a "friend". She never mentioned anything about a fuckbuddy or guy.
Anyways near the end of the call I gather this is a guy she's fucking. He's basically asking a ton of questions and she's making up some bullshit about some guy she know's friends.
She's still half naked and getting dresesd, and the dude calls again telling her he's outside. She tells she's gonna be out in a sec. She then tells me how he is obsessed with her and he didn't wanna be exclusive but now he bitches when she fucks other dudes.
She leaves. I don't go drop her off because I don't want the guy to see.
Anyways my dumbass friends go upstairs(we are in a basement) and the dude is still there with her shouting at her and he sees them. I"m downstairs and I just hear him getting super pissed. My big black friend tells him "dude do you wanna fight". He calms down cause he realizes there's no way he can fight my buddy. My two friends then told him "DUDE NOTHING HAPPENED". Basically their frame was he was overreacting to her just chilling at our place.
Anyways we go downstairs and lock the door. We hear a knock.
He's calmed down and he's saying some shit like "I just want to make sure was alright". She was crying there no doubt to him basically projecting a fuckton of negativity at her. I honestly wish she didn't have to go with that fag but she had her job in like 7 hours in another city and that guy was her ride home.
Basically we kept with the frame that nothing happened and she didn't hook up with anyone. That's the same thing she's saying too but she's in tears. Anyways my buddy basically tells him "dude we'll show you we are chilling with other girls". We took him inside and we let the girl chill in the room me and her banged in. My friend tells me to stay there since I banged her. I basically comfort her a bit. The dude comes back and asks us how we know her. We tell her we're mutual friends with her friend.
Anyways they leave.
I realized this later but he was putting on a very insidous frame on us.
I honestly am a bit worried about this. The whole time before he came the girl was shitting on him, but I"m worried he's going to force his frame on her and turn this into from the 100 percent consensual thing it was into something worse. I honestly have heard so many stories of similiar situations where a girl cheats on her boyfriend, and then accuses the guy she fucked of rape to basically let go of responsiblity.
I might be being too paranoid. But I don't know. She said she'd text me next time she's in town.
Should I text her something like "I feel horrible you had to deal with that needy bullshit."
I realize I'm being needlessly paranoid at this point.
You finally get some top-shelf pussy (she's beautiful) and this is how you treat it. You let fear overcome you to the point you could not tell right from wrong and now she has to deal with the consequences of letting a beta chode fuck her. She took the brunt of the punishment here you just tried to get your lily white ass out of danger you pussy.
You let this guy kowtow you into admitting that if you did have sex, it was rape. He emotionally bullied you into conceding guilt. You could not stand up for yourself.
You deserve everything that might come to you, not because you did something wrong but because you wouldn't/couldn't stand up for yourself and for your girl in a system rigged against you and her. Pathetic
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Fuck man we honestly thought he'd believe us and lay off her.
Honestly I didn't know how else to deal with it because he was her ride to her city and to her job. I thought the best situation was for him to think that we didn't hook up.
In retrospect we handled that completely wrong.
Nothing's going to happen though. A)its obvious she has done shit like this before B) I have a bunch of witnesses. C) She really liked me and there was zero LMR. In fact she was trying to stick it in raw but I put on a condom.
I was being very paranoid.
She apologized for him and its all good between us. He seems to be a typical fuckboi.
I've learnt my lesson. I can't stop leading at any point. I have to make sure I'm always ready to handle whatever situation comes up.
I was reading way too much into things. Probably too much of reading scare stories.
Awesome job on the number close and decorating this girl's face;)
There definitely is some man lessons that need to be addressed here. You were hiding in another room...need I say more? What were you afraid of?
The quickest way to have handled this is to tell this fucktard to lay off, if he was indeed out of control and she was crying, then when he starts interrogating you guys tell him, "Look I know her and her friend." And that is all you have to say. Other than that the guy could have FUCKED OFF. And you should have said, "I know her and her friend. No your not coming in my basement and yes it is time for you to fuck off!" Hold eye contact with these fuckers.
You dont need to justify anything to this prick.
You don't need to worry about rape dude your fine.
Take some Muay Thai lessons so you can have some confidence in facing outrageous guys.
Awesome job on the number close and decorating this girl's face;)There definitely is some man lessons that need to be addressed here. You were hiding in another room...need I say more? What were you afraid of?
The quickest way to have handled this is to tell this fucktard to lay off, if he was indeed out of control and she was crying, then when he starts interrogating you guys tell him, "Look I know her and her friend." And that is all you have to say. Other than that the guy could have FUCKED OFF. And you should have said, "I know her and her friend. No your not coming in my basement and yes it is time for you to fuck off!" Hold eye contact with these fuckers.
You dont need to justify anything to this prick.
You don't need to worry about rape dude your fine.
Take some Muay Thai lessons so you can have some confidence in facing outrageous guys.
Yeah man you're 100 percent right.
My friends went up there even though I told them not to and I just heard a bunch of BS going on. I thought me going up there would just inflame things further. But in retrospect I should have been the one handling the situation. The whole way I acted in retrospect was completely dumb. The way my roommates acted was stupid as well, even though they are pretty good at the game. We were all placating his bullshit, when all that needed to be done was for me to go up, give her a hug, and tell him that I'm a close friend, and he's acting like a dick.
And I should not have explained anything to him beyond the "I know her, she's my friend. I don't need to explain anything else to you. You're acting disrespectful as fuck. And you need to stop treating her like shit because she's an emotional wreck right now because of your bullshit. Now please leave, I have nothing else to say to you".
I was straight up being a drunk pussy. I'm not proud of the way that was handled. The biggest lesson is that I have to sometimes handle shit for the girl and take a position of authority, especially with other dudes are involved.
Its funny because I had a stripper lay where I had to deal with a massive amount of bullshit as well. I guess its the Universe just telling me that when you're dealing with hot girls, you have to learn how to handle all kinds of bullshit, including other guys. Its not just going to be a static situation with me and her, but there's going to be all kinds of fucked up variables such as other guys, her friends, bad logistics, etc. And I have to be willing to step up at a moments notice.
That's not necessarily true about hot girls. Strippers...probably.
Theres ms a number of ways to handle these things. Personally I don't feed into trouble. He should have never been in the house. I would have walked up and been like both of you need to fucking leave. BYE. BYE. The girl is included for being involved with such a douche. If he wanted to bang I'd bang it out with him in the fuckin kitchen. But he wouldn't bc there is 3 of you and 1 of him.