Be Extremely Honest About This

To be honest, I haven't really chilled with many girls I'm not bangin lately. 

Like I have social circles where I see girls I'm not trying to bang, and I hang with them, or like there's this gril who works for me that I'm not trying to bang,and I invite her to my parties etc. 

But yeah, I guess I'm just kinda busy, so even girls I *am* banging I only see like once every couple weeks, and then I go out on Friday//Saturday and those nights are alllll about gettin laid... so yeah, I don't really have much time to kick it with chicks I'm not bangin. 

Or at least, it's just not a priority of mine..

Basically, I don't really have "free time" anymore, so anything I do, I have to make it a priority in my life. And there's only so much stuff I can prioritize. 

So, like, at the end of the day- chicks I'm not trying to bang, unless they're super cool OR are a part of my life already (cool roommate, girl who works for me, social circle girls) are just getting the short end of the stick, and aren't gonna make final roster cuts

I can definitely identify with that potted. 

What are your questions? 

I just think it's interesting because guys who have a very high number usually only care about the lay and are quick to discard girls after sex. I would know, 80% of my lays probably happen like that. Obviously there is the occasional fuck buddy, and even less occasional gf, etc. But on the other end of the spectrum are guys like Manwhore who bangs a lot of chicks but still loves being around females regardless even if it's just hanging out. Then, a vast majority of the population lies in between that and their attitude is very different. These are the chodes in a sense. They really like girls but can't befriend them. They only wanna fuck girls and come off needy. 

Just something I was thinking about earlier. My ex was calling me out on not having any friends that are girls. It's not my fault most of my girl friends want to sleep with me or are attracted enough to try it just once and see if there is sexual chemistry.

I actually hang out with girls I have no interest in whatsoever. I just enjoy the company. I treat them the same as my guy friends, it's weird why also because some are attractive but I don't seem to have any interest in banging them. Could be because I've known them so long, or something similar. But, yeah I do hang out with a handful of girls that I have no intention of sleeping with

A lot of the girls I hang out with I've banged before, or yes they're very interested and I just keep them at arm's length. Not a big deal. I had a female roommate whom I'd penetrated at an earlier time. Doesn't bother me 

I feel uncomfortable hanging out with them. I realize this shit after Vegas, it's either seduction process or nothing.

Why is it uncomfortable? 

Interesting question. Now that I think about it the answer is no. I don't really hang out with girls I'm not interested in. I have, and I've got nothing against it, but in general if I'm hanging out with a girl, it's because I'm attracted to her.

I hang out with girls. With girls I don't want to bang anymore, as well as ones I would never want to bang at all. And even with girls I wanted to bang at some time, but it never happened. Doesn't mean it is super often, though. But at least as often as I just hang out with my male buddies for no other reason than just to enjoy their company. Some of my best friends are female actually. I adore them. Some I see just once or twice a year, because they live elsewhere in the world.

It seems kind of funny to me to suppose that good company would be sex or gender dependent. lol. But sure enough with different people you can do different things better. some are great for deep conversation, some for joking and some you just want to fuck. lol With some you even can do all or many of those things, and than it doesn't matter that much that you can't have sex, because she's with someone else currently, or whatever not.

I do flirt hard with all the girls that are my friends, though. Its like taking a cuddly little nap, bathing in all the sexual tension and feminity. Wouldn't want to live without it.

And yes there is never enough time. ahaha

Because I'm not align with this shit going down. Bear in mind I'm not SHY about it, I'm not stuck up when I'm with a group of girls and we talk casually. I'm uncomfortable like going SHOPPING with my aunts or mother as a kid, IT'S UNBEARABLE.

I see no point, FUCK THAT, I hate it.

Or going look at a baseball game when my shit is FOOTBALL. I don't give a fuck about no baseball fucking faggot game, fuck that. I leave.

Do you guys regularly hang out with girls that you don't bang/have no intention of banging ever? 

No. See above.

What are some patterns you see with guys that only hang out with girls they want to fuck eventually?

It's not align with my/their values. Girl---------> I fuck her. If not-----> I'm not friend with her.

I know some LEGEND in the cold approach area who struggle with this shit too.

It's because if you can't come across to her LIKE GOD, MASCULINE and projecting this shit you see no point. It's a core masculine issue I believe. Being able to faggot around like ALEX with girl (faggot friend + physicality so no friend zone) is a tool to add to the toolbox I guess.

I'm really gangster about my life, if there no point I drop the shit. This lifestyle got cons