On being emotionally available
Hey guys, got a question. Been taking to one of my friends and she pointed out she can imagine me being in a relationsip since I'm emotionally available. Which got me thinking... to what degree would you guys say you're emotionally available to girls? Is this something i should continue doing or is this something that needs to be examined and maybe toned down? Kinda not sure cause from one perspective it could mean being masculine and expressive but from another it could mean something else?
Yes very "emotionally available", but STRONG and able to navigate clearly and easily. It's what it takes for higher levels of seduction and sexual mastery. But yes in essence the drilling for instance puts you through neurological changes that creates it in you. As well as your nlp training.
I wasn't emotionally available at all till' a few months ago. It feels like I am gaining that female acuity that men growing up with sisters have. Just learning how to shape and nurture the feminine.
lol I grew up in only female household - it def does somethin different to ya :)
emotionally available but STRONG - nice
Sweet, thanks. Would you say it could also be seen as low value behaviour in some cases? That was kinda in the back of my mind at first.
Would there be a case where being unavailable could help with meeting women?
Yes nucka, that's the whole "STRONG" part. Derp
Being emotionally available can be seen through the lens of a chode or a self fuffiled man. While the chode would express this by constantly being the shoulder to cry on and getting friendzoned 24/7, a dude with his shit together provides emotional availabilty by wielding the power to have a positive emotional state on other people and being emotionally strong when negativity arises. Everyone should aim to be an extremely emotional dude. Don't mistake emotional availability as some gay boy quality.
Being emotionally available is cool, as long as YOU are cool. Embrace it, it's really fun and far more fulfilling I promise lol.
But ya, no need to be scared about losing value or anything like that from the girl's eyes, that's probably your past / what you've read online holding you back.
Haha he's probably more worried about dudes thinking he's a gay boy, not women. Lol
Nah man don't really care what guys think.