Being the man in college
So I'm heading off to college and i'm super excited about all the opportunites that will be coming my way. I'm not worried about how I present myself and how I run my game, I know my path in that sense. I plan on getting groups of people to go out and eat and maybe try and get a radio show slot. I also got a single dorm which is pretty cool in an enviroment where everyone wants to bang :p
I have one really big logistical question that I can't figure out...
How do I get groups of girls to go out with me? College parties are so strict with the guy to girl ratio and I DO NOT want to get stuck party hunting with a group of dudes. I would love to have an equal ratio or have more girls than guys. I'm not on a sports team,fraternity, or have a spot to throw parties and I do not see how I can offer value other than the value of my awesomeness lol. I was thinking maybe buying alcohol for the girls would work, but I do not want to be seen as some tool.
If anybody has any tips on college game that has worked for them let me know!
I live close to my college so I do know the local area which is awesome for social circle game because a lot of the students are out of state... but I want to be able to party walking distance on campus too!
I actually was thinking about finding freshman with cars, packing them with kids and throwing an exclusive party at my house since I'm fairly close. That could be epic if done right.
Dude I can't believe how pimp you are for a high school kid. Fuckin blows my mind. I wish I was in your shoes my freshman year of college in the dorms lol. Your thinking too far ahead. Once you get there it will all fall into place. Trust me you don't need to be planning anything now. Your going to be banging so many girls in the dorm they're gonna be fighting over you. Guys and girls will invite you to house parties. You'll be fine dude.
Yeah your probably right, gotta just do my thang!
It'd be me and 7-12 girls everywhere I rolled out to. Freshman year is where I got the name Manwhore lol. Just go up to them and meet them, COMPLETE abandon, fun-loving and just derping around. Make all of them your friends. Don't be trying to hook up, believe me that'll happen by itself lol. Don't take sides in anything just be the exuberant butthole. I'd go from dorm suite to dorm suite just chillin' out with all my girlfriends LOL
lol that makes sense that's the vibe I'm going for!
Keep it blatantly sexual though right? there seems to be a fine line between pimp and gay when your surrounded by that many girls.
what am I saying of course I'm always blatantly sexual...
Nah lay off the sexual overtones. There's a time and place. If you're really worried about coming off gay while hanging out with a bunch of girls you probably are gay. You're definitely caring too much what other guys think
Excellent post with some good details
Thanks for taking the time to write that up!
Be a social leader. Set the bar by inviting people out for a good time. Bring your charismatic asshole charm out that is really just poking fun that has no malice behind his words. Build a following. Annual or monthly events so people know they can rely on you to cut loose. Booze, drugs, fun, music, drinking games. You're social so just get booze and whatever and just invite mad ppl out. Don't be creepy. Ppl will just be like damn meow throws sick parties I wanna go to his party. be the social connector. Be non judgmental and allow ppl into your party but at the same time be judicial. You don't want mad creeps at your party fucking up the energy flow. Use your wits and within a month girls will know to text you for a good time that incidentally leads to banging them. Just a consequence of the fun you're having with them. Enjoy this shit - it's so easy it's not even funny
So I've been derping around with almost all of the girls I could find. I've noticed that the super hotties get a fuck ton of attention, like highschool 10x. I don't know if I am fucked up in my thinking, but I have been acting pretty aloof around the hotties just cuz they get enough love. I've been kicking it with all types of girls, which is new to me because I really only tried to talk to hot girls in highschool lol. Today I finally met two of the hottest girls in my suite and they practically engaged the conversation with me.
I also want to start meeting upper classman because my school is small and the freshman class is not very impressive. Kinda unsure how to go about this :/ LIke I can totally meet them but how do I make them want to invite me to upperclass parties?
The direct shit defintely doesn't work here lol there are lots of loud expressive dudes that seem mad creepy lol
Reciprocity
What do you mean by direct? You can definitely be pretty forward at any time.
What do you mean by direct? You can definitely be pretty forward at any time.
dudes trying to pull girls too fast and getting physical with them around a lot of people before establishing a basic mr. friendly vibe
Cholo wrote:
What do you mean by direct? You can definitely be pretty forward at any time.dudes trying to pull girls too fast and getting physical with them around a lot of people before establishing a basic mr. friendly vibe
Well yeah the most important thing is to build a huge social circle by being a cool friendly guy and not a weird "pick up guy". But some girls WILL be down to fuck pretty quick, then it's probably better to give them what they want ;)
Omg dude you're gonna bang so many hoes in college. Seriously, all this advice and understanding you're lightyears away from 99% of freshmen guys, it's gonna be like shooting fish in a barrel.
Killing it lately...been sending out mass snap chats for group dinner and shit, its fun!
Damn, almost banged some chick last night. She texted and I told her to swing by and I realized she was drunk as fuck. Its okay though I feel like I have a few really good romances going down already, some girls are even inviting me out wanting to eat dinner, study, etc. Also, got a lot of girlfriends they aren't all sexy lol but I've been rolling with multiple girls all the time.
This whole experience has made me realize the biggest whole in my game is that I used to try to only be friends with the "cool kids" that oould offer me things (sports players, hot girls). Now, I am a "cool kid" and I'm offering way more value than I take, so i'm not needy when I do meet other high value people. I even invite out some people that are boring and/or weird, because I want them to have a good time
I do understand the whole chill with cool dudes to get laid more. But this was a bigger issue, I thought I had to surround myself with value to boost my value and it was pretty unconcious till now.
I dunno bro. I think you should concentrate on being more awesome. You gotten any secret admirers yet? Any love letters? What about girls offering you their virginities.
I dunno bro. I think you should concentrate on being more awesome. You gotten any secret admirers yet? Any love letters? What about girls offering you their virginities.
Ohhh I'm being awesome no worries.
Uhhhy kinda yeah that girl last night didn't even know my name for the first 15 min lol....some weird chick pulled me to her dorm room mid day from the bookstore (she was pretty damn gross hehe). No virginities yet.
I also put my whiteboard on the outside of my door and there is some hilarious shit written
Another weird thing that is happening is girls that are taken still are super flirty with me around their boyfriends.
So I got like everyones snapchats when I got their numbers and i'm gonna use that when I'm partying and send out mass snapchats inviting people to my dorm lounge and shit.
her: "tryna get drunk and possibly laid"
LOL
God damn I really fucked up last night. I got like 30 kids drunk had everyone going in and out my dorm room, I thought why not be a lil generous on the first weekend of parties. That chick that went to my room two nights ago was there and she was getting super horny kissing my neck and twerking on me in front of everyone. At some point in the night we all all roll out to townhouse parties, and this chick is flirty with everyone and it somewhat bothers me. I was too drunk to reallly catch myself and my buddy said I started being an asshole to her, so obviously I was being a butt hurt faggot. This is elementary bullshit, and I should know better. Of course I was gonna bang her I was the center of attention, all I had to chill out. Left to get more booze and all the house parties got shut down and I sat in my bed pissed as fuck. So i'll find this girl and talk things over with her, shouldn't be too big of a deal.
In other news this is another girl:
Her: tryna get drunk and possibly laid
me: yup thats the plan :)
me: you missed out tonight was dope
Her: :( make tomorrow dope for me
This seems like a done deal. I'd really like to bang the girl from before tonight, but I this is an option.
I'm such a fag I can't believe I acted like that last night holy shit
You should stop concentrating on just one girl. You should be amazing all of them.
yah thanks for the reality check but I could have banged her thats all im saying
well that was a fantastic blow job...
Had a great time last night. Went to a school sponsored electronic dance party, crowd surfed a few times, had some weird three way grind train going on at one point, and danced like a motherfucker. Girls were looking at me from across the dance floor pointing and screaming my name.
So I get this text mid way through the party from that girl that I was an asshole to the night prior. Keep in mind she also texted me earlier that morning for like no reason and then she randomly just stopped texting back.
Her: hey you!
me: just left the rave
me: sweaty as hell
her: me too!
me: yeah just loungin till we hit the wrestling house
her: Same! Can you give me some shots!?
me: just finished it all
her: awwww :(
At that point I felt like a tool and decided she can fuck off for the night. Chilled in the dorm lounge and then got a blow job from a girl I was already with and crashed.
Ohhhh shit that girl has a boyfriend it's all over her Facebook.Thats kinda fucked up she had my dick in her hands a few nights ago...
going out on a limb and say she's afraid we are gonna fuck and that's why she went cold....or I'm just a tool for alcohol :p
So this girl on my floor keeps on calling me sexy in front of her boyfriend and whispering it in my ears hahaha
i thought so aswell
Its like the 2nd time she ask in two days...
Tell her you've got something better have her come over then get her hooked on heroin and start having her turn tricks on campus. You'll make good money selling her pu$$y and you'll be the man. Make sure she gives you all the money she doesn't need much to survive.
I don't know what to get out of that. Am I the asshole or is she a whore?
So me and 2 buddies are supposed to take care of some sort of "kick-off" for about 15-20 freshman girls. Basicly we will give them some instruction and missions that they have to do during the day, and then they won't meet us until like 5 pm when we will have a preparty together. Then a dinner at 7pm and then another preparty before we go to the grand final party
There is a rule saying we can't hook up with the girls before midnight but until then i wanna make the kick off as awesome as possible for everyone. Do you guys know of any fun drinking games or other shit we can do? My buddies are alright but a bit boring so i will have to turn it up...
laid.
another girl walked in during the activities too lol
So me and 2 buddies are supposed to take care of some sort of "kick-off" for about 15-20 freshman girls. Basicly we will give them some instruction and missions that they have to do during the day, and then they won't meet us until like 5 pm when we will have a preparty together. Then a dinner at 7pm and then another preparty before we go to the grand final partyThere is a rule saying we can't hook up with the girls before midnight but until then i wanna make the kick off as awesome as possible for everyone. Do you guys know of any fun drinking games or other shit we can do? My buddies are alright but a bit boring so i will have to turn it up...
It's not about the games, it's about the M.C.'s running the games. But if I had my choice...
Hahaha that would be hilarious
Last night was pretty funny. This girl wasn't sure if she wanted to bang so I was like it's okay don't worry about i'm just going to bed. This wasn't gamey either I just didn't care much. So she leaves and I sit in my bed for 15 min.
Then she texts me:
Her: you still up?
Me: yah
Her: this is kinda weird but I changed my mind
Me: lol well walk back here
And we banged.
Oh yeah my buddy got laid too! I said something about "netflix and fuck" to kick them out of my dorm and surprisingly she embraced it and they netflixed and fucked. I've fucked this kinda stuff up before but the weird foursome scenario wasn't happening there is not enough room lol
Someone taped some panties outside my dorm LOL
So....the girl I banged was friends with this girl on my floor that I think is sexier. The girl on my floor happened to be the girl my friend banged. Oddly enough, we both agreed we wanted to fuck the opposite girls more. Could we make this happen somehow? The girl on my floor was joking about banging my friend and trying to bang every dude on the floor while I bang every girl on the floor. Seems like its on...
Had a girl from back home that was a fuck buddy come by and we chilled in my room and everyone thought we banged too hehe we didn't for other reasons not mentioning. Anyways defintely getting viewed as player, but its working out actually i'm not being shamed for it (maybe its a college thing). Meeting more girls...always having more girls than guy when rolling to parties :)
lmao, how many girls on your floor have you banged?
none! Idk why she was saying that it. Seemed like she was trying to say she wanted to bang.