Big sticking point: Mormon girl guilt. (longish, tldr at end though)
Thu, 05/02/2013 - 00:32
As many of you know I live in utah. Enough about that though heres my sticking point. Idk if XCOM is still around on here but he'd prlly have the best advice for this situation although most of you have experienced something similar.
Life update/preface
I recently took about a 3 month break from 'formal game' and sort of just focused on finding myself in life overall. During that time I've gotten big into the whole spiritual side of life again, I'd been in that in the past and it completely fucked me up but now I've kind of found my own beliefs and what works for me so its as close to bliss as I've ever been.
Now that I've sort of come back to studying real game concepts and realize that a lot of it shouldn't be taken so seriously. Like my main girly right now is probably one of the less attractive girls looks wise i've ever been with but gets me harder than any girl ever has (keep in mind I have NO sex drive lately) just off the way she acts. The community would say 'you pussy you can find a hotter girl with just as good a personality' and i'd have to agree but the point is I like this one and its not like social interaction stops just because of one main girly.
So I guess the main point of this preface is that with my newish found spiritual side (always trying to be as consious/present as possible, going with the natural flow of 'everything' but still taking action to direct that for myself, etc) and my revisitation of game concepts I've realized that because I started in this shit so young, most of the main ideas are completely internalized pieces of my personality now. It also made me how much of the game is soooo fucking natural and I often wonder why IN THE FUCK people (including myself) even needed to learn most of this shit in the first place. I don't really 'go out' and pussy hound right now in my life because I'm busy as fuck but I definitely interact with enough people on the daily to keep learning new shit and refine what I know.
Actual point/problem
Anyways my point I guess is that girls aren't (and probably won't ever be) something I worry about. Sometimes I'm a party guy and sometimes I like to settle down and focus on other things. Regardless, when I want a girl now I fucking kill it. I'm so on point. A lot of these girls haven't ever touched a cock before (keep in mind theyre mormons) but after a few hours with me, BEG FOR IT while I try to fight them off. The problem with this is that theyre all mostly mormons and I feel like I'm hitting so hard on their primal sides that they aren't really thinking before doing shit with me. Sexual stuff is COMPLETELY against mormon beliefs and I feel SO fucking guilty when I do shit with these girls. Like i have no issues with sex or anything like that but I don't want these girls to be messing around with me, only to feel horrible about themselves later on.
So essentially I'm killing it attraction wise, and even say to girls before anything happens, "look I know what you believe and I know what I believe and I'm perfectly fine with all of this but are you SURE youre ok with this and won't feel bad about it later?" They always say yes but I know they're lieing a lot of the time... makes me feel guilty for being the cause of someone else going against their own beliefs.
TLDR;
My game is getting better than I ever thought. Most of the girls I get with are mormon. I feel really bad when they compromise their own beliefs just to get with me.
Life update/preface
I recently took about a 3 month break from 'formal game' and sort of just focused on finding myself in life overall. During that time I've gotten big into the whole spiritual side of life again, I'd been in that in the past and it completely fucked me up but now I've kind of found my own beliefs and what works for me so its as close to bliss as I've ever been.
Now that I've sort of come back to studying real game concepts and realize that a lot of it shouldn't be taken so seriously. Like my main girly right now is probably one of the less attractive girls looks wise i've ever been with but gets me harder than any girl ever has (keep in mind I have NO sex drive lately) just off the way she acts. The community would say 'you pussy you can find a hotter girl with just as good a personality' and i'd have to agree but the point is I like this one and its not like social interaction stops just because of one main girly.
So I guess the main point of this preface is that with my newish found spiritual side (always trying to be as consious/present as possible, going with the natural flow of 'everything' but still taking action to direct that for myself, etc) and my revisitation of game concepts I've realized that because I started in this shit so young, most of the main ideas are completely internalized pieces of my personality now. It also made me how much of the game is soooo fucking natural and I often wonder why IN THE FUCK people (including myself) even needed to learn most of this shit in the first place. I don't really 'go out' and pussy hound right now in my life because I'm busy as fuck but I definitely interact with enough people on the daily to keep learning new shit and refine what I know.
Actual point/problem
Anyways my point I guess is that girls aren't (and probably won't ever be) something I worry about. Sometimes I'm a party guy and sometimes I like to settle down and focus on other things. Regardless, when I want a girl now I fucking kill it. I'm so on point. A lot of these girls haven't ever touched a cock before (keep in mind theyre mormons) but after a few hours with me, BEG FOR IT while I try to fight them off. The problem with this is that theyre all mostly mormons and I feel like I'm hitting so hard on their primal sides that they aren't really thinking before doing shit with me. Sexual stuff is COMPLETELY against mormon beliefs and I feel SO fucking guilty when I do shit with these girls. Like i have no issues with sex or anything like that but I don't want these girls to be messing around with me, only to feel horrible about themselves later on.
So essentially I'm killing it attraction wise, and even say to girls before anything happens, "look I know what you believe and I know what I believe and I'm perfectly fine with all of this but are you SURE youre ok with this and won't feel bad about it later?" They always say yes but I know they're lieing a lot of the time... makes me feel guilty for being the cause of someone else going against their own beliefs.
TLDR;
My game is getting better than I ever thought. Most of the girls I get with are mormon. I feel really bad when they compromise their own beliefs just to get with me.
Thu, 05/02/2013 - 00:59
#1
they don't really care, its
they don't really care, its everyone else who would judge them. in fact its probably better for them that you're not a momo
Thu, 05/02/2013 - 01:33
#2
This guilt is all in your
This guilt is all in your head and it also sounds like these girls who you are having sex with have found the right guy to actually get naked with.
You!
They have been waiting for the right guy to show up and fulfill their fantasies and that guy is you. You should feel great about that.
Go after what you want and dont ever bring your desires to a halt because of some other persons beliefs.
Turning these girls out sounds like the bomb.
You!
They have been waiting for the right guy to show up and fulfill their fantasies and that guy is you. You should feel great about that.
Go after what you want and dont ever bring your desires to a halt because of some other persons beliefs.
Turning these girls out sounds like the bomb.
Thu, 05/02/2013 - 05:30
#3
Negatory mang. Mormonism is a
Negatory mang. Mormonism is a joke. These "beliefs" are not quite ingrained that deep. Sex is and will always be one of our strongest drives. Mormonism has nothing on it. I don't want you to take this the wrong way, take it constructively, but you need to stop taking yourself so seriously. You are not damaing these girls' immortal souls, and you are not burdening them with guilt. They just love cock that's all.
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Thu, 05/02/2013 - 06:08
#4
Man, I post on here because
Man, I post on here because you guys DONT baby me. I can't stand not being called a bitch when I'm being one. I know a lot of the questions I ask seem like gimmes a lot of the time, but its when one of you guys gets on here and says "stop being a little bitch, just do it.." that I truly realize how capable I really am. In the end it seems most of my issues as of late are simply a result of not leading hard enough. Lesson learned. Mormonism is a joke, my family just shoves it down my throat so often that I unconsiously forget that and start to get brainwashed into it again... so excited to move 3000 miles across the country... less than a month to go.
Thu, 05/02/2013 - 15:57
#5
The point is, ALL women are
The point is, ALL women are biologically made to crave for sexual activities.
Whether your a devout Muslim or Jew.
Some girls are harder to crack than others.
Some girls feel really guilty after.
I made the decision that I don't care how they feel... but how I feel.