Bitch Dependency - Everyone needs to read this
Mon, 12/24/2012 - 11:57
We've all suffered from this in the past haven't we?
I copied this (posted below) from the about me section on my cousin's FB page. My cousin's a natural who has fucked well over 200-250 chicks and he planted the seed of pimping in my head when I was a naive 12 year old. He's probably the reason why I'm probably going to be a pimp for a long long long time. I remember talking to him right before he was about to get married last December and he's like "yo Katalyst - I just fucked 18 women this past month". I'm like Jeeeez...Love that dude for life. So glad he put that non-chode seed in my head. He just got married but I'm pretty sure he's still pimping.
This is about me on his FB page
Bitch dependency - When a man's desire to be with a woman exceeds his willingness to break rapport, no matter the level of disrespect. AKA - oneitis, putting the pussy on a pedestal.
I remember reading an interview of Evel Knievel (noted daredevil who banged more hotties than your mom did during her bi-curious phase in college) where he talked about how on occasion he'd get his nut with a young lass while her boyfriend or husband waited in the hallway outside of his hotel room. Apparently this happened more than a couple of times, but only once did he bother to ask the guy why he'd put up with that. The answer? "She said if I didn't let her do it, she'd leave me."
What that poor bastard didn't realize is that it was already over. The minute you become dependent on a woman for that level of happiness, validation and companionship, you've already lost the things that make you attractive to her.
It's very important to note that you don't have to be married to a girl to have her lose that respect and admiration for you. Sometimes it can be as simple as buying her a drink to try and impress her when you just met. Lots of great guys have lost the opportunity to bed hot women early on in the interaction because they were trying too hard to be nice in hopes that she'd give him a chance. That's the exact opposite of what your mindset should be. You should be the one deciding whether or not you want to give her a chance! After all, you're a total bad ass and she'd be god damn fortunate to have your seed dribbling down her leg after a night of wild fucking... Right? Instead of trying to impress her so you'll get a chance, alternate between building and breaking rapport in a flirty way. "You're cute... for a butthead."
When a woman realizes that you're not willing to break rapport with her she also senses the following:
-You might be emotionally weak. If you can't even stand up to her, how are you going to stand up to other male members of the tribe, or worse yet warriors from neighboring tribes?
-You lack confidence in yourself.
-You lack other mating options... and no woman wants a man who can't get other women.
-You're not going to be dominant or aggressive enough sexually to get her slippery in the crotch.\
-If she's a gold digger, she'll realize she can play you for money.
-You have a lower male to female relative social status than her.If you want to get laid, you have to avoid bitch dependency at all costs. Here are a few good ideas for stopping bitch dependency before it starts:
1) Have other women available: If you're in an exclusive relationship, you don't have to cheat. Just talk to other women enough that you keep your skills sharp... just in case. If you're single, avoid only courting one woman at a time. Always be working 5 or 6 angles.
2) Do your own thing! Have hobbies, interests, alone time. You should never put more value on a women than you do your passion in life.
3) Break rapport. Be willing to do what it takes, whether that means not talking to her for a while or ending the relationship all together.
4) When bitch dependency strikes, do something to take your mind off of it. Strippers, drinking, video games, reading, working out... whatever.
I copied this (posted below) from the about me section on my cousin's FB page. My cousin's a natural who has fucked well over 200-250 chicks and he planted the seed of pimping in my head when I was a naive 12 year old. He's probably the reason why I'm probably going to be a pimp for a long long long time. I remember talking to him right before he was about to get married last December and he's like "yo Katalyst - I just fucked 18 women this past month". I'm like Jeeeez...Love that dude for life. So glad he put that non-chode seed in my head. He just got married but I'm pretty sure he's still pimping.
This is about me on his FB page
Bitch dependency - When a man's desire to be with a woman exceeds his willingness to break rapport, no matter the level of disrespect. AKA - oneitis, putting the pussy on a pedestal.
I remember reading an interview of Evel Knievel (noted daredevil who banged more hotties than your mom did during her bi-curious phase in college) where he talked about how on occasion he'd get his nut with a young lass while her boyfriend or husband waited in the hallway outside of his hotel room. Apparently this happened more than a couple of times, but only once did he bother to ask the guy why he'd put up with that. The answer? "She said if I didn't let her do it, she'd leave me."
What that poor bastard didn't realize is that it was already over. The minute you become dependent on a woman for that level of happiness, validation and companionship, you've already lost the things that make you attractive to her.
It's very important to note that you don't have to be married to a girl to have her lose that respect and admiration for you. Sometimes it can be as simple as buying her a drink to try and impress her when you just met. Lots of great guys have lost the opportunity to bed hot women early on in the interaction because they were trying too hard to be nice in hopes that she'd give him a chance. That's the exact opposite of what your mindset should be. You should be the one deciding whether or not you want to give her a chance! After all, you're a total bad ass and she'd be god damn fortunate to have your seed dribbling down her leg after a night of wild fucking... Right? Instead of trying to impress her so you'll get a chance, alternate between building and breaking rapport in a flirty way. "You're cute... for a butthead."
When a woman realizes that you're not willing to break rapport with her she also senses the following:
-You might be emotionally weak. If you can't even stand up to her, how are you going to stand up to other male members of the tribe, or worse yet warriors from neighboring tribes?
-You lack confidence in yourself.
-You lack other mating options... and no woman wants a man who can't get other women.
-You're not going to be dominant or aggressive enough sexually to get her slippery in the crotch.\
-If she's a gold digger, she'll realize she can play you for money.
-You have a lower male to female relative social status than her.If you want to get laid, you have to avoid bitch dependency at all costs. Here are a few good ideas for stopping bitch dependency before it starts:
1) Have other women available: If you're in an exclusive relationship, you don't have to cheat. Just talk to other women enough that you keep your skills sharp... just in case. If you're single, avoid only courting one woman at a time. Always be working 5 or 6 angles.
2) Do your own thing! Have hobbies, interests, alone time. You should never put more value on a women than you do your passion in life.
3) Break rapport. Be willing to do what it takes, whether that means not talking to her for a while or ending the relationship all together.
4) When bitch dependency strikes, do something to take your mind off of it. Strippers, drinking, video games, reading, working out... whatever.
Mon, 12/24/2012 - 14:21
#1
Re: Bitch Dependency
@Katalyst:
This is cool. But dude, why the fuck is that on his about me section for facebook, it's a bit mentally unhinged to just randomly have that up lol.
This is cool. But dude, why the fuck is that on his about me section for facebook, it's a bit mentally unhinged to just randomly have that up lol.
Mon, 12/24/2012 - 16:41
#2
Re: Bitch Dependency
Mad respect for writing that. That is some real shit.
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Mon, 12/24/2012 - 16:44
#3
Re: Bitch Dependency - Everyone needs to read this
Just make sure he never stops. There are other more beautiful sides to life.
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Wed, 12/26/2012 - 00:59
#4
Re: Bitch Dependency - Everyone needs to read this
@Katalyst:
YEEEEAHYUH. we all need reminding about this sometime. I needed it yesterday. :/
on the other hand, he hardly sounds like a normal natural. "Breaking rapport" and "oneitis" are community terms.
YEEEEAHYUH. we all need reminding about this sometime. I needed it yesterday. :/
on the other hand, he hardly sounds like a normal natural. "Breaking rapport" and "oneitis" are community terms.
Thu, 12/27/2012 - 22:06
#5
Re: Bitch Dependency
My cuz just doesn't give a fuck and is flat out confident. A lot of top pimps have the same sort of mentality. That sort of anything goes kind of mentality.
And all of us players/"pimps" are mentally unhinged by society's standards. By society's standards going up to a random stranger and telling her that she is beautiful is mentally unhinged. The proper way to meet people is through your friends or where you work :)
And all of us players/"pimps" are mentally unhinged by society's standards. By society's standards going up to a random stranger and telling her that she is beautiful is mentally unhinged. The proper way to meet people is through your friends or where you work :)
kris;2169.10587;32 wrote:
@Katalyst:
This is cool. But dude, why the fuck is that on his about me section for facebook, it's a bit mentally unhinged to just randomly have that up lol.
Thu, 12/27/2012 - 22:20
#6
Re: Bitch Dependency - Everyone needs to read this
Manwhore;2169.10591;5 wrote:
Just make sure he never stops. There are other more beautiful sides to life.
I highly doubt he wrote it....but i love the fact that he's had it up on his FB page for the past 3 years...
Yah I doubt he'll stop - he's reached the point of No Return. I think once you've played this game for over 5 years hardcore you're fucked in terms of ever becoming monogamous. I could be wrong but everyone I've met that has been on some pimp shit long-term seems that they'll be in it for life.
I have to admit I'm intrigued by guys like you and him. I always think about my long-term future w/pimping - where I'll be in 5 or 10 years and always wonder why guys like you and him won't ever truly fall in love. I think to myself "Damn - why can't guys who've been with a lot of women just settle for one?" But whatever maybe finding your queen is just some socially-conditioned Disney bullshit and that no man truly just desires one woman for such a long time. I could be wrong. I could be right. Only time will tell.
Thu, 12/27/2012 - 22:36
#7
Re: Bitch Dependency - Everyone needs to read this
Austin;2169.10610;478 wrote:
@Katalyst:
YEEEEAHYUH. we all need reminding about this sometime. I needed it yesterday. :/
on the other hand, he hardly sounds like a normal natural. "Breaking rapport" and "oneitis" are community terms.
I've known the dude pretty well since he was 18/19 - trust me he's as natural as they get. I remember him really being into Bill Bellamy's "How To Be A Player" movie back in the day and pretty much mimicking Bill Bellamy's swag with his own quirky mannerisms. From dancing expressively and carrying two pagers or some bs like that. It was all some silly fantasy to him.
From what I understand - I think there are two types of naturals. Ignorant naturals and Intelligent Naturals when it comes to their knowledge about game. You ask an Ignorant natural about game and he will look at you kind of funny and go - yo - just get laid bro. I can tell you this because as a hungry youngin' looking to get his dick wet - i hung around dudes who got laid but they probably didn't consciously know what the fuck they were doing. Same dudes would kind of clown me for asking me them for advice. I think most ignorant naturals have a high degree of situational confidence and you're unlikely to see them really approaching random cuties like that. Or if they do, they're drunk.
Intelligent naturals OTOH probably know that the community exists and they might even fuck with it because they're smart and they know that game is a skill-set that can always be improved on. It's why you hear stories of naturals taking bootcamp even after they've banged 200 women or some ridiculous shit like that. I think dudes like Manwhore and my cuz sort of fall into the intelligent natural sort of category.
I remember talking about the book "The Game" with my cuz back in like 08' when I first read it and he's like "yea I heard my friend talking about it - I'll check it out". He read it and he said he'd use some of it - other stuff he'd discard.....Lol then he gave the book to one of the girls in his rotation.
Anyways homie, shit in life ain't black or white. And yup you can still be "natural" and still know about the game lol.
Sun, 12/30/2012 - 06:31
#8
Re: Bitch Dependency - Everyone needs to read this
Katalyst;2169.10635;33 wrote:
Austin;2169.10610;478 wrote:@Katalyst:
YEEEEAHYUH. we all need reminding about this sometime. I needed it yesterday. :/
on the other hand, he hardly sounds like a normal natural. "Breaking rapport" and "oneitis" are community terms.
I've known the dude pretty well since he was 18/19 - trust me he's as natural as they get. I remember him really being into Bill Bellamy's "How To Be A Player" movie back in the day and pretty much mimicking Bill Bellamy's swag with his own quirky mannerisms. From dancing expressively and carrying two pagers or some bs like that. It was all some silly fantasy to him.
From what I understand - I think there are two types of naturals. Ignorant naturals and Intelligent Naturals when it comes to their knowledge about game. You ask an Ignorant natural about game and he will look at you kind of funny and go - yo - just get laid bro. I can tell you this because as a hungry youngin' looking to get his dick wet - i hung around dudes who got laid but they probably didn't consciously know what the fuck they were doing. Same dudes would kind of clown me for asking me them for advice. I think most ignorant naturals have a high degree of situational confidence and you're unlikely to see them really approaching random cuties like that. Or if they do, they're drunk.
Intelligent naturals OTOH probably know that the community exists and they might even fuck with it because they're smart and they know that game is a skill-set that can always be improved on. It's why you hear stories of naturals taking bootcamp even after they've banged 200 women or some ridiculous shit like that. I think dudes like Manwhore and my cuz sort of fall into the intelligent natural sort of category.
I remember talking about the book "The Game" with my cuz back in like 08' when I first read it and he's like "yea I heard my friend talking about it - I'll check it out". He read it and he said he'd use some of it - other stuff he'd discard.....Lol then he gave the book to one of the girls in his rotation.
Anyways homie, shit in life ain't black or white. And yup you can still be "natural" and still know about the game lol.
Your cousin sounds like a boss. Solid article. Haha at Bill Bellamys, How to Be a Players, such a quality flick.
Mon, 01/07/2013 - 12:26
#9
Re: Bitch Dependency - Everyone needs to read this
@Katalyst:
All the ignorant naturals I know tend to be those tall athletic good looking dudes that women flock to. My cousin is this way, played rugby for 6 years, very ignorant, won't listen to any advice whatsoever and has run the same game since he was 19. It doesn't work long on the more intelligent girls I've noticed as they tend to see right through him pretty quickly, but the younger hotties can't get enough of it. Hence why he is in his 30's and dating college girls ;)
All the ignorant naturals I know tend to be those tall athletic good looking dudes that women flock to. My cousin is this way, played rugby for 6 years, very ignorant, won't listen to any advice whatsoever and has run the same game since he was 19. It doesn't work long on the more intelligent girls I've noticed as they tend to see right through him pretty quickly, but the younger hotties can't get enough of it. Hence why he is in his 30's and dating college girls ;)