Blindsided by hooking up w/ mutual friend, can I recover this through?
I basically went to a EDM show and hooked up w/ a girl I met through mutual friends on Saturday night. We were both on extascy and made out/grinded/built basic rapport for an hour and said we were gonna hang out in the future. I got her number and then when we were around our friends she acted super cold/distant towards me. My text game was pretty bad because for some reason, I started it on a more friendly terms and now I'm stuck since she didn't respond to the last text which was a statement.
Sunday Afternoon: Me: Damn. Stupid fun night. I just woke up after a 4 hours of sleep. How are you feeling? - My name
Her: Hi. Good you got some sleep. I'm feeling great drinking now lol
a few hours later because I had fell asleep again (pretty hung over/drowsy/procrastinated)
Me: Finally got something to eat and passed out again haha, any future events you're going to next?
Monday Morning Her : Morning, sorry my phone is out of wack because I dropped it. And I'm staying in for real this time lol
Her: I wasn't even supposed to go out that night
Me: Reckless yo. Thats good tho, breaks save your sanity/money
Me: I took a 3 month break from the scene to just work/relax and that night was intense lol
- No response
Its now Wednesday Morning. For some reason I'm in my head just because shes somewhat in my social circle and acted cold towards me near the end of the night. With a random girl I'd be more out there but now, this boring convo is killing me. How should I Proceed?
You ask a lot of inane boring questions and don't ever take the conversation anywhere interesting. Read the text game articles on the forum and other guy's text convos mang
I have but now I feel so incongruent if I just make a crazy out there joke. I don't even remember any funny callback humor I can use. Should I use one of your reengaement texts in the data base? I want to build some banter/more rapport and then go for a meet up.
You should always be making jokes holmes. It's not "incongruence", it's a lack of confidence in one's own texts hehe