Bossy chick + text convo (and hellloo)
Sun, 04/21/2013 - 17:40
Hey guys,
decided to stop lurking and give & get value.
I've been doing this for a while now. However, my text game needs pimping.
Expect some lay reports in the near feature. I'll be starting this out with a mini report and a text convo.
Been out with my buddy last night. Had a lot of fun and almost fucked a married MILF who's got a kid. (husbands these days put condoms in their wife's purse. wtf?) But that would be a different story.
So at one point I approached this set of 3 chicks on the street in a local bar area. Pretty much standard stuff.
I flirt a little bit with the girl I like and then realize I like another one just as much. One of them clearly was the Alpha of the group and I call her out on that. I tell her she is the the alpha hen. They all love it. At first they tried to fuck with is but thanks to our dominant frame they realize that we are actually cool.
At one point the bossy chicks says something like "You're so funny, I like you". I say something manly. So fast forward I get alpha chicks number before they leave.
There wasn't a lot of physicality but there might have been one or two details that made this a solid interaction. In the beginning I came in strong and yet very relaxed and laid back. I projected loudly. I maintained this frame.
There were several instances where one girl tried to interrupt me. I smoothly put her in place saying something like "I talk now." giving her strong eye contact just for a fraction of a second. Barely acknowledging her. I gave that 3rd girl just enough attention not to be a bitch or a cockblock. Also since it was so hard to decide which of the girls I like the most I kind of challenged them. Told them I might take them both and then and telling them to fight each other so it's easier for me to pick. I went for bossy chick because she clearly would have won and also gave me that strong ioi before.
When I went for the number close I pulled in the girl and I Just had to take out the phone and she immediately put in the number and her full name.
So this is what I texted her today:
Me: you're a bossy chick
Her: the alpha hen :)
Me: haha, it's cool. I'll just have to be strict with you
Her: haha why
Me: you seem like the type of girl that sometimes needs to be spanked in order to chill
UPDATE:
Her: hahahaha that's actually the truth
Me: ;)
Solid texting? Weak? How would you have handled this? I would just let it sit for a couple of days then reengage and go for a meetup if I feel like it. Ideas?
decided to stop lurking and give & get value.
I've been doing this for a while now. However, my text game needs pimping.
Expect some lay reports in the near feature. I'll be starting this out with a mini report and a text convo.
Been out with my buddy last night. Had a lot of fun and almost fucked a married MILF who's got a kid. (husbands these days put condoms in their wife's purse. wtf?) But that would be a different story.
So at one point I approached this set of 3 chicks on the street in a local bar area. Pretty much standard stuff.
I flirt a little bit with the girl I like and then realize I like another one just as much. One of them clearly was the Alpha of the group and I call her out on that. I tell her she is the the alpha hen. They all love it. At first they tried to fuck with is but thanks to our dominant frame they realize that we are actually cool.
At one point the bossy chicks says something like "You're so funny, I like you". I say something manly. So fast forward I get alpha chicks number before they leave.
There wasn't a lot of physicality but there might have been one or two details that made this a solid interaction. In the beginning I came in strong and yet very relaxed and laid back. I projected loudly. I maintained this frame.
There were several instances where one girl tried to interrupt me. I smoothly put her in place saying something like "I talk now." giving her strong eye contact just for a fraction of a second. Barely acknowledging her. I gave that 3rd girl just enough attention not to be a bitch or a cockblock. Also since it was so hard to decide which of the girls I like the most I kind of challenged them. Told them I might take them both and then and telling them to fight each other so it's easier for me to pick. I went for bossy chick because she clearly would have won and also gave me that strong ioi before.
When I went for the number close I pulled in the girl and I Just had to take out the phone and she immediately put in the number and her full name.
So this is what I texted her today:
Me: you're a bossy chick
Her: the alpha hen :)
Me: haha, it's cool. I'll just have to be strict with you
Her: haha why
Me: you seem like the type of girl that sometimes needs to be spanked in order to chill
UPDATE:
Her: hahahaha that's actually the truth
Me: ;)
Solid texting? Weak? How would you have handled this? I would just let it sit for a couple of days then reengage and go for a meetup if I feel like it. Ideas?
Mon, 04/22/2013 - 04:44
#1
Did you move with the girls
Did you move with the girls anywhere? What was physicality like.
Mon, 04/22/2013 - 07:45
#2
No, we were just chillin on
No, we were just chillin on the spot. They were from out of town and had to get back. They jokingly asked us to drive them which wasn't going to happen on a saturday night with pussy everywhere.
Like I said there wasn't so much physical contact. I didn't really care at that time. I treated this as a warmup for my mouthpiece and just wanted to have fun with it. I pulled her in and clawed her before taking the number. That's pretty much it. In retrospect I could have been way more cavemanish.
Like I said there wasn't so much physical contact. I didn't really care at that time. I treated this as a warmup for my mouthpiece and just wanted to have fun with it. I pulled her in and clawed her before taking the number. That's pretty much it. In retrospect I could have been way more cavemanish.
Mon, 04/22/2013 - 11:18
#3
? You should have driven them
? You should have driven them that was isolation. That was potentially code for "fuck us"
Mon, 04/22/2013 - 16:12
#4
Haha, I was pretty drunk by
Haha, I was pretty drunk by that time. No way I'm risking my drivers license over some chicks from the streets. In Germany they don't play around when it comes to driving drunk. Otherwise I would have seriously considered taking them.
Mon, 04/22/2013 - 16:16
#5
Do they have cabs in Germany?
Do they have cabs in Germany? Serious question
Wed, 04/24/2013 - 11:27
#6
Yesterday I re-engaged via
Yesterday I re-engaged via text:
Me: When r we gettin ice cream bossy
No response.
I tried to Hard thinking about something witty
and funny to write so I decided to keep it simple
and have a direction even though I didn't think
she was ready yet.
I won't pursue this Chick but I'm still interested
how the Text convo could have Been better. That's what
This Thread is about.
Me: When r we gettin ice cream bossy
No response.
I tried to Hard thinking about something witty
and funny to write so I decided to keep it simple
and have a direction even though I didn't think
she was ready yet.
I won't pursue this Chick but I'm still interested
how the Text convo could have Been better. That's what
This Thread is about.
Wed, 04/24/2013 - 11:41
#7
I think you introduced a
I think you introduced a competitive frame in the wrong way and made a lot of resistance in her. It could still work out but I would stop shaping a girl's behavior in the right direction by rewarding bad behavior.
Wed, 04/24/2013 - 14:20
#8
When Do you think it got
When Do you think it got competitive? That wasn't my intention. I wanted to play with that boss daddy frame. Tought I had compliance when she agreed she needs some spanking lol. What do you mean by shaping a girls behavior in the RIGHT direction by rewarding BAD behavior? Example, please. Also She didn't try to be bossy towards me.
What would have been a better way to re-engage? Input much appreciated.
What would have been a better way to re-engage? Input much appreciated.