Boyfriend of Cashier at work found my girlfriend online and sent her this message.
Already tried to type this out. Lost what I typed. Going to keep it short.
Have a girlfriend of 1.5 year
work at a mall
on break I go around gaming a lot of cashiers etc so that I can upkeep my skills (I dont game overtly though) and i am not trying to have sex with the girls or take them on dates. It is strictly to upkeep my gaming skills.
started going to this tea shop and talking to 4 cashiers there.
Wanted to see if my game was good enough for them to give me free tea...
Within a couple of days I got free tea. They were all very receptive to me and veryflirtatious..
Decided that my ego was getting the better of me and I started to like the validation they gave me, so I stopped going.
I stopped going 5-6 days ago.
One girl there looked for me and found me on facebook. She has zero mutual friends and doesnt know my last name so that must have took some time.
When she found me she started searching for my girlfriend. Found her and messaged her asking what she was to me. My girl asked me how to respond and I said "yeah its cool just say you are my girlfriend obviously" Because i had no idea what this guy was going to message. that was yesterday.
Today a boyfriend of one of the girls messaged my girl this:
http://freudianslip1234567.imgur.com/all/
Now I cant see this guy as being the boyfriend of the girl that found my girl on facebook because I barely even talked to her. it must have been the hot one. Anyways what should I do? what is my course of action...
also this is a shitty job and Im on the look for a new more lucrative job asap.
Also just as a caveat. 90% of the sh1t this guy said is a bold faced lie. I never asked any of them out. I never kinod them. I never touched her a$$ nor did I ever tell her to touch mine. I never touched them once. In fact it was quite the opposite. They were the ones trying to touch me. The most this guy could say was that I was very friendly too them and perhaps that I was flirting with them a little. Also they never once told me to leave the store. I would be walking by and them would yell my name to come into the store and talk to them. Its very very strange to me why they were all so receptive to me, but now they are lying.
But it wouldnt make sense that it was the hot one either because she came up to me today while i was sitting near the food court before my shift and said hi and was receptive, and I quickly left to work. So its either the b!tch who found me on facebook which means that she is a bold faced liar, or it is the hot one who continues to come up to me even after avoiding her and shes receptive???? so fvcking confusing.
Is this just malevolence?
Fuck that mang. You need to be bigger than this situation don't even acknowledge it as part of your reality.
"pfff what a faggot babe, I get tea there on lunch break LOL"...." what the FUCK how does he or these chicks even know who I am"...." Haha! Fuckin weirdos"
...now continue to visit.
Yeah, this is somewhat the appraoch I have been taking to the situation.. It is absolutely retarded
Do you mean continue to visit the tea shop or contiunue to visit the website?
So how'd your girlfriend respond to this?
You have no idea who this is, even though someone had to have messaged it to your girl from a Facebook account...
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
my girlfriend just wanted to know how to react to the girl who messaged her last night who asked "hey just curious how do you know freudianslip" and I was like "yeah just say im your boyfriend, i dont care"
But she just called me today and said you have to read what this guy messaged me.
And then I read it and I wont lie it kind of pissed me off because of the lying. Ad i was on the phone with her and in a calm voice I said "this is disgusting, I cannot believe someone would do this" Then i had to go back to work and she messaged me saying this
"yeah baby, it cant get in our way because i dont believe any of it and i know you so well that i didnt even have to think about it twice. I have no interest in what others have to say because i know me and you baby. and plus, we too cute thats why they all jealous ;) <3"
and then she said "dont even think about it. think about me and you. Make sure ur home at 12 tonight cuz ill be at your house baby love <3"
and then i said "okay babe" and she said "I love youuu <3"
I mean she reacted fine to it.
However I do know that this guy IS the actual guy because my girlfriend went to the same highschool as him. And she was like " yeah this guy is weird, and had to stay behind for a couple years"
So who the fuck's he dating? Which one? What's your prerogative here..
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
My prerogative is to
1. Nullify any potential damage or threat this might have to my relationship
2. Nip this situation in the bud. How to address the girls so as to not have any further defamation/accusations and to de-escalate the situation.
I dont don't know which one he's dating. Either one, some duplicity is involved.
Uh you need to figure that the fuck out. You can't go to this person's profile and take a look around? You're coming off a bit helpless here
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I already checked man. No way to find out as of right now.
To me it doesn't really matter.all that much whether or not it's one or the other. I'm lumping them both together as the same entity as I know for a fact they both talk about me to other people manwhore.
Could you tell me why I should need to know exactly which girl is the girlfriend of this guy?
Does that imply that I should confront?
Could you tell me why I should need to know exactly which girl is the girlfriend of this guy?
C'mon dude. I try really really hard not to be insulting to people, but WTF.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
It's okay. I don't take it as insulting.
Im out right now but when I get home I'll try to articulate through it myself. It's good that you are forcing me to figure it out instead of giving me advice that I might not fundamentally understand.
My prerogative is to1. Nullify any potential damage or threat this might have to my relationship
2. Nip this situation in the bud. How to address the girls so as to not have any further defamation/accusations and to de-escalate the situation.
I dont don't know which one he's dating. Either one, some duplicity is involved.
for the 1st one it won't damage your relationship with your chick. She knows that guys has no credibility whatsoever. It's similar to a known lyier and person whose addicted to drugs taking the stand in court. That shit won't hold up.
2. Do what Meow told you to do. which is keep going to that place for tea. Act the same as you've always had, it's no problem to you whatsoever because it isn't. You don't need to confront them about it btw. It will manifest (my instincts) tell me that that is what will happen.
also it didn't seem clear to me.
the boyfriend of said chick friended you or your girl?
Or was it a "chick" that message your chick. It wasn't quite clear to me when I read that initially.