Breaking my own f*ing rules
Fri, 10/26/2012 - 19:26
First time here at this forum and thought id give it a shot..
Hit up this girl from High school on face book because we need a model at work and also I want to fuck the shit out of her. She gave me her number and we started texting.
I always try to keep my texts short, have her text more than me, let her send last text, leave her in suspense..
I'm great at this when the girl isn't a dime piece but when she is (like this one) I tend to break my own rules..
Me: Why is it so hard to find cute blonde models? Lol
Her: Aw you're so sweet! Well I totally would have done it ! I just got my hair highlighted two days ago too. Let me know if u need help again
Me: Damn highlights would've been perfect. Every couple months I do. Took fucking 3 hours to pick one today.
Me: Now traffic is making me late..what have you been up to?
Her: work and I'm on the job hunt
Her: I totally would have helped u out! Haven't modeled since I was 13 but it sounds fun! I just finished my masters and passed my licensing test for social
Me: All that doesn't sound fun but modeling would be. Besides the fact I can be a bit of a dick to work with.. But at least I admit it hah
Me: Heading to meet *** to lift and then got set up on this date.. Lets grab a drink or coffee soon.
Her: Aw yay him tell him hi!!! And surely
Next day..planning on asking her to meet up
Me: Just saw your message. Sorry to hear about tragic loss of your straightener (she had sent me the last message on fb day before and pretended not to have seen it)
Me: You can borrow mine anytime haha. How was your nite?
She never responds...
Where do I go from here? I want to just be like "hey lets grab a drink tonite" but hate having 3 texts in a row and what if she doesn't respond?
Then ill be super needy if I ever text her again. It's been about 3 days since that last text...
Hit up this girl from High school on face book because we need a model at work and also I want to fuck the shit out of her. She gave me her number and we started texting.
I always try to keep my texts short, have her text more than me, let her send last text, leave her in suspense..
I'm great at this when the girl isn't a dime piece but when she is (like this one) I tend to break my own rules..
Me: Why is it so hard to find cute blonde models? Lol
Her: Aw you're so sweet! Well I totally would have done it ! I just got my hair highlighted two days ago too. Let me know if u need help again
Me: Damn highlights would've been perfect. Every couple months I do. Took fucking 3 hours to pick one today.
Me: Now traffic is making me late..what have you been up to?
Her: work and I'm on the job hunt
Her: I totally would have helped u out! Haven't modeled since I was 13 but it sounds fun! I just finished my masters and passed my licensing test for social
Me: All that doesn't sound fun but modeling would be. Besides the fact I can be a bit of a dick to work with.. But at least I admit it hah
Me: Heading to meet *** to lift and then got set up on this date.. Lets grab a drink or coffee soon.
Her: Aw yay him tell him hi!!! And surely
Next day..planning on asking her to meet up
Me: Just saw your message. Sorry to hear about tragic loss of your straightener (she had sent me the last message on fb day before and pretended not to have seen it)
Me: You can borrow mine anytime haha. How was your nite?
She never responds...
Where do I go from here? I want to just be like "hey lets grab a drink tonite" but hate having 3 texts in a row and what if she doesn't respond?
Then ill be super needy if I ever text her again. It's been about 3 days since that last text...
Sat, 10/27/2012 - 03:50
#1
Re: Breaking my own f*ing rules
Send her a pic of you being/doing something awesome. Otherwise she might assume you're just another sleazy photographer trying to get in her panties, which obviously we both know you are, so you've got to break that mold.
Sat, 10/27/2012 - 10:23
#2
Re: Breaking my own f*ing rules
Manwhore;1441.9556;5 wrote:
Send her a pic of you being/doing something awesome. Otherwise she might assume you're just another sleazy photographer trying to get in her panties, which obviously we both know you are, so you've got to break that mold.
Honesty MW I wish that was the case you pimpass bitch.
I'm fairly new to PU only 25, in marketing and have been in relationships my whole life. I was actually engaged 8 mo ago and when I broke it off promised myself I'd be single 6 months and have been crushing it ever since (no to be cocky.
I've never used my job as leverage before but this was my high school crush and at this point my attitude is fuck it why not (honestly wouldn't have even considered talking to her before and this was an excuse to). I've always been the nice guy...how do I reset the frame so I'm not a scumbag but still the fucking man??
Sat, 10/27/2012 - 18:31
#3
Re: Breaking my own f*ing rules
@Manwhore:
I've tried the picture thing before. It never works and always feels awkward as fuck. Any other suggestions to gette dialogue going again?
I've tried the picture thing before. It never works and always feels awkward as fuck. Any other suggestions to gette dialogue going again?
Sun, 10/28/2012 - 17:06
#4
Re: Breaking my own f*ing rules
Wow I sound like a little bitch. Fuck this bitch - on to the next one