Breif Run In
Had a breif run in with the "maybe" girl, chatted her up a little bit. Light playful flirting. She was working unfortunately. Set up some future plans for the meet up, told her next Saturday, named a place and time. Told her I'd pick her up. She said she didn't know what she was doing that far into the future but said "Maybe" and just smsmiled. Tried to call her out on it a bit and that's when she said she just wasn't sure into the future that far. Should I take this as a "no" or continue to ping her every few days until next week?
I didn't really ask for permission as well, just told her "My fav bar, next Saturday, I'll pick you up. I got a good rep there so try not to embarrass me by not finishing your beer" and she laughed and played along a bit, then gave the maybe.
"Maybe"s are sooo damn annoying
The set itself was kinda long. Since she was working and I was waiting for a ride. She pretty much stayed with me the whole time, grabbed a coffee on her break with me. Light kino, a lot of disqualifying since I was trying to build the attraction up as well. Lots of laughing and some shit tests as well. Some silent parts wherre I let her pick up the slack in the convo. She also just kept looking at me and smiling. Also some pointless banter thrown in along with the teasing.
Not sure where to go from here. Considering shooting her a funny meme tonight and a bit more light banter or leaving it. No clue for this situation.
Can you give me an example of what you meant by "disqualifying", I need a good laugh
Take away", "Disqualify", push-pull stuff. Said things like "So clingy, I can't seem to get away from you." when she would come up to me after leaving and what not. She'd laugh and jokingly tell me to shut up. When we grabbed coffee I did some light kino but told her things in reference to her car being a mom car, saying she's really great and everything but being caught in that would totally ruin my rep. She qualified herself so much over that. There was much more but nothing really extreme just trying to get that attraction back up.
Will text her a bit now unless you think it's best not too?
That "mom car" one was stellar, just make sure you channel it into the right direction. Sexual connotations
Thanks man, I tried to in some ways and you could tell she caught them, she laughed and said how horrible I was. Plus she`s tagging me in random funny videos on Facebook. I think I`ll wait until next week to hit her up to see if she re-engages this week. Then I`ll just try to value her into a meet up. Unless you think it`s better to text her before next week to keep the buying temp up.
Yeah seems you've got plenty of ammo now. You could be like "Thought about it.. mom cars still not sexy. Maybe you can find a nice eskimo boy"
Hahahahahaha, that made me lol. I'll hit her up around the weekend with something good if I don't get a re-engage by then. I'll update as well.
She was bitchin' about being 0-19 with those Tim Horton roll up the rims to win, I might do something with that. There's actually so many, I'll post a bunch here this week just to refer back to.
"2-2 with my Timmy's today.. Looks like I got all the luck and you got.. Well.. That badass Baja ;)" (her mom's car reference, she's pretty embarrassed by it ahahaha)
"Closed my eyes and tried zipping down the highway at top speed in GTA 5 today... All I was missing was the Spider-Man mask!" (hilarious shit as to what happened during her car crash..she had a mask on?)
"Car shopping today.. almost went with a Mazda but I remembered I didn't have any kids and this car would make sure it stayed that way (laughing emoji)" (LOL, mom car reference)
"6 pack of Kokanee and some adventure sounds a little more appealing to me than watching you nurse a beer all night at the pub, Saturday night! Be ready ;)" (Not sure what to emphasize into the adventure, seems to vague. Thinking a view and some beers.)
"So I ran into this chick at (her workplace) the other day, she's the cute one with the lip piercing, red hair, you know her? She was pretty cool.. But her car...;)" (Another car roast, plus some push-pull)
"...the news just showed a girl in a Spider-Man mask and a (her workplace) vest, trying to swing from light posts dt... Go home, (her name):P" (LOL ahahahahah)
"You know that fiesty red-head from (her workplace)? Think she's more for city lights and a game of pool, or a stellar view and a game of ?'s for shots.. she's gonna lose either way :P" (take a shot every time you ask a question and it gets answered)
I also don't want to overly compliment her or anything since I was chasing before and don't want to fall back into that friendzone, weird category. Trying to be more challenging and making her qualify.
Just a couple I came up with real quick, to re-engage and offer value. Let me know what you guys think or if there is any changes I should make.
Most of those are fucking terrible. You're missing the point
Shit, can you elaborate a bit? I'm not sure what I'm missing..
Unless the purpose of this re-engage is to do it in a more sexual context to keep that attraction high? I was doing it more from the point of a re-engage that's giving value to keep her buying temp up. Would really appreciate some more insight on how to approach this. Trying to reduce that flaking
OH SHIT. To keep her interested and engaged, I gotta keep the sexual innuendos flowing because it'll keep her interested better than jokes and being "Mr.Funnyman". Expressing myself without a filter and unapologetically, will get her thinking and keep her hooked especially when I mix it in with normal text game... This way the attraction won't die out leading to the meet up and it will help solidify the flake cause she's curious... I think I'm starting to get it..
Meh. Okay sure that's part of it. There's another part you're missing.
I'm trying to figure out what the other part is but I can't seem to