Bridging Time Gaps
So this one total hottie I met off tinder. I fucking destroyed it, text game is finally coming together better than ever. Thank god MW told me how shit I was because I thought I was decent back then... Despire all the evidence to the contrary.
Anyways... This chick cancelled dinner on me last friday because she was nervous to meet up. Then she ended up meeting me with her friends out at a bar. She's a super hottie model but definitely very socially programmed in some respects. Anyways, after meeting her she's head over tits for me. Didn't even hook up though. Like she had her brother drive 20 minutes to pick her up.. When I could have driven her home cuz she lives 2 minutes from me. When it was time to leave I had to leave seperately because she didn't want her brother seeing her walk out of a bar with a guy. So this is her sort of reality lol.
GAWD DAMM! But anyways, she's super cool and I know with favorable logists and strong masculine projection she will not be able to resist herself around me and sex will ensue. But anyways, texting is on like donkey kong and going strong! BUt I'm not seeing her until Saturday. So a decent time gap. What's going on here? Is it super gay to keep texting lots each day when I'm not seeing her for a while. Will that make me look way too invested and fuck up with attraction and setting the right vibe?
How do you guys usually play this! Obviously I'm more invested in her right now then most of my other girls. So I actually enjoy texting with her but I know that I have to park the cart before the horse so to speak. And ultimately, texting is for logistcs, to meet up with a girl. Perhaps I should just try and do something quick and simple beforehand. "I know we're getting together Saturday but come shoot pool with me tomorow, I promise I'll let you win at-least one game"!
I think all you need to do is text her the day before, and the day of.
Just keep it down to a couple texts a day if you've been texting her that much. You don't want to go cold turkey but you don't want to validate her emotions without getting the meetup. I think you understand. Is this the same girl? You know which one I'm talking about ;) The one I said wouldn't be worth it lol
Just keep it down to a couple texts a day if you've been texting her that much. You don't want to go cold turkey but you don't want to validate her emotions without getting the meetup. I think you understand. Is this the same girl? You know which one I'm talking about ;) The one I said wouldn't be worth it lol
Yes hahaha it's the same girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And noted. I'll tone it down for sure.