Bringing Heavy Screening, Edginess and Ambivalence into my dates
So based on my last several dates over the past several months or so, it has become apparent then when the date failed, it was either a logistical error or I was giving away too much exuberant value. Last night I consiously remembered to maintain a certain level of ambivalence, always be screening and to hold that edge hard. Here's what went down:
Joe (hott model that looks like Jeniffer Lawrence off tinder)
My texting has been a lot better. I ended up getting this girl off tinder to meet me for drinks. She was like pretty invested in me before we actually met up haha. I held the edge, made her invest and let her chase a bit. I posted some of the convo in another post.
I could tell she was getting cooked during this. Our eye contact was very strong during this entire date. She has super good eye contact. I explain to her that most people are intimidated by strong eye contact, they avoid it, it makes them feel uncomfortable. But the eyes tell everything.....
She puts me on the spot... "what do you want." I hold eye contact with her heavily. I say, "what do you mean." She repeats herself a few times and the sexual tension is off the charts at this point. I sit up off my chair and swiftly, yet smoothly move close to her and press my lips against hers. She gives me a kiss then pulls back. I sit back in my chair. For the next 10 minutes or so we drift back and forth between kissing. We start getting closer and more intimate. I move my hands up her legs and she starts to resist. She tells me she can do that too and put her hand on my crotch. Damn, she's awesome ahhaha.
I get the bill and she says, what do you want to do now? I tell her, we're going to play some pool.
We walk out the bar and she says, where are we going? I say, to my horse ranch. I have to feed the cattle lol. This reminds me that saying retarted shit is the best strategy when girls ask questions. She's like, oh I used to have a horse, I love horses haha.
I bring her to my car and she gets in. We drive to my house. Soon as we get in we start hooking up hard. She insists that I take my shirt off. Then she says that I need to take her home lol. She doesn't want to be that easy and have sex right away. I tell her, "no one is having sex tonight, besides I told my mom I was gonna be a good boy anyways"
She says, "yeah right. I know if I stay over longer, we're going to have sex"
I say, "I have very good self control missy. But if my prescense is too much for you and the biological imperative to hook up with a devishly handsome and charming young man is too strong, then I guess I should take you home. I wouldn't want you to lose your control!" She's laughs, her hands on my crotch. I move to take things further sexually and then she pulls back.
I get the sense that this is a girl that likes to chase and be in control and responds more to me when I let her work. When I get physical and dominant, it back tracks stuff. At-least that's the case for tonight when she doesn't want anything to happen.
I drive her home and she's very down to see me again.
Thats so dope that your actually pulling chicks off of tinder lol
I think you could have used her touching your dick a bit more to your advantage, maybe prized it more verbally. Maybe then she would have been more sexually charged at the end.
Thats so dope that your actually pulling chicks off of tinder lolI think you could have used her touching your dick a bit more to your advantage, maybe prized it more verbally. Maybe then she would have been more sexually charged at the end.
haha yah I get the most lays of tinder, it's dope!
Please go on. How would you have phrased it, examples please
Thats so dope that your actually pulling chicks off of tinder lolI think you could have used her touching your dick a bit more to your advantage, maybe prized it more verbally. Maybe then she would have been more sexually charged at the end.
Exactly. Sexual qualification to make her think she's still chasing you while her dick's in your mouth. True story. Sexual qualification is a VERY powerful tool. We'll discuss it during our sesh today holmes.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Meow wrote:
Thats so dope that your actually pulling chicks off of tinder lolI think you could have used her touching your dick a bit more to your advantage, maybe prized it more verbally. Maybe then she would have been more sexually charged at the end.
while her dick's in your mouth.
Don't even think about editing this lol
HAHAHA! Yeah I saw that I made sure to leave it as is lol
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Meow wrote:
Thats so dope that your actually pulling chicks off of tinder lolI think you could have used her touching your dick a bit more to your advantage, maybe prized it more verbally. Maybe then she would have been more sexually charged at the end.
haha yah I get the most lays of tinder, it's dope!
Please go on. How would you have phrased it, examples please
"maybe youll get to see him later"
"I think he likes you"