Buddhagames Transition Into a Ruthless Asshole Fuckstar

@buddhagames:

So I'm officially not going out during the week. I beast it at work during the week and do random approaches after work on the subway or if I feel like relaxing a bit, I just get off the subway at times square and do a couple approaches there and then head home.

Honestly- it's funny cause I'm at a point where I simaltaneously DO STILL GET AA- so if you're a totally new guy reading this... YES... guys who have been doing this and even guys that literally ALWAYS approach STILL GET AA....

BUT

Despire having AA, it's almost as if the game relaxes me a little bit... like I have AA but I've learned to relax into it and just EMBRACE that moment of uncertainty.

Anyway- Wednesday I see a girl in the subway and don't approach immediately (like a chode- hehe I love that chodey buddha)... so what do I do? I force myself to get out at times square (not my stop) and follow her like a creep and tap her on the shoulder and chat her up

We chat for like 7 minutes but she doesn't give me the # but i was SUPER SUPER SUEPR persistent which in the past was something I never would have done.. so YAY FOR ME.

I then walk around times square and do one more approach and it blows out and I head back down to the subway and go home... oh wait- no i don't

I remember- I was feeling relaxed so I went to a local bar near my place to catch some of the yankees game and grab a beer and chat up the bartender... we chat for like 15-20 minutes off and on while she's doing her job... I have this new leather jacket (which just got stolen because I left it on the street while I was moving all my shit into my new apartment )

Wait- so side tangent folks.... me and my two roommates ltierally picked up, for free, 4 SICK FUCKING BENCHES last night... like these benches were 16 feet long, solid oak, amazing black paint job and were already weather treated and stained... they were in a restaurant and the guy posted them on craigslist free because he needed to get rid of them because he was installing entirely new interior... so since we already had a truck, we stopped by and picked them up and he gave us his straps to tie em down and we take them back to our place (this is sunday btw- aka yesterday) and we end up going out and getting a saw... cutting them all in half with a fucking HANDSAW LMFAO!! which takes us like 2 hours and then we carry every solid oak wood piece of furniture up a 6 floor walkup apartment building to our roof.

By the time we finished it was 1:05 in the morning... but our roof is gonna be epic... we have enough bench (and this is like SUPER SUPER nice bench- we got it from an upscale itlaian restaurant in the lower east side) to cover the entire perimeter of our roof... it's basically oging to be our own personal beirgarden

Okay so anyway- I'm sitting at the bar chattin to the bartender and then i get a text from a buddy of mine who I have to talk to so I close out and go for the # close with the bartender- she isn't down.

Okay so Thursday- just go to work and then hit the sack

Friday- I go out with a natural buddy of mine and we start out at this bar copia and I do a bunch of approaches and it's all blowouts- this bar was horrible btw lol... we jsut wanted to go to an easier spot to get some blowouts in and warmup and start having fun

We then decide to go to Lavo... neither of us has any girls so we decide to do it "every man for himself" style and each go solo and try to talk our way in

he gets in first...so now I'm outside thinkin to myself, "Well fuck... now i HAVE to get in"

So at first I try to get in by sneaking in with a promotor group but get caught

So I go to the other side and walk up to the head doorman adn I'm like, "Hey man I'm not tryna cause a scene... my gf is inside- think you can let me stop in" he just says, "one second" and goes and talks to a bunch of other people

4-5 minutes later I reenage and I'm like, "Hey, so think you can get me in" and he goes, "Hold on... let me get some other people in first" (this is actually a VERY VERY GOOD sign... he's not auto-rejecting me" so I chill out a bit more and see 2 girls who I know and og up and I"m like, "Yeah, let me see if I can get us all in"

So I go up to the doorman one more time and I"m like, "It's me and these 2 girls" and he gives me a ticket to let me in...

So I get past the rope and I'm like, 'The girls are with me"... but he's like hold on they will get in later, you're good though"

So basically.... he let me in but not the girls... LMFAO! - my mind was slightly blown. and on top of that he gave me one of the "free" admission tickets... there are different kinds of tickets and most of them you still have to pay a cover even if you get past the rope but for whatever reason he gave me one of the free ones...

SO I get in and my buddy is in there and honestly when you both do that shit and get into a place like lavo on your own and you see eachother inside there is am oment of just shere ecstasy where we both just look at eachother and go, "HOW DID YOU DO IT MAN" cause we both want to know how the other person worked his way in

2 guys- no girls... got into lavo on a friday night.. solid

So I get in and start chattin girls up- everything is blown out HARD.. but I just keep approaching

My natural buddy is INSANE- all the girls that are blwoing me out are literally on his dick SO HARD... I was super super super impressed... like these girls were just EATING HIM UP... and simaltaneously blowing me the fuck out

We get to the back bar and approach a 3 set and he's with the brunette which is fine with me cause I think the blonde is hotter- I start chattin her up and tell her I'm from Belgium (this is my new line- it's hilarious too because girls just seem to ignore the fact that I don't know french or dutch AND that I have ZERO accent to speak of)

Anyway- she's not into me at first so I walk away- chat up a few more girls and get a few more blowouts and come back like 10 minutes later and for whatever reason, when I reengage... she's SUPER fucking into me... like leaning into me, touching me, totally engaged in the conversation

Oh- the fat friend at one point literally just looks at me and goes, "I hate you" and I ignore it and tlak to the blondie more and then the frat friend says somethign and I laugh and go, "Omg your friend HATES me... what am I goign to do" and she laughs and the fat friend jokingly is like, "Yeah I hate you"- wtvr... lesson from tonight- REENGAGE- but leave forl ike 5-10 minutes and then come back and reengage... literally this girl did like a complete 180 on me..

Anyway- text the girls who I met outside and they are inside at a table so I go over and chill with them

Oh first I stop at another table and me and my buddy isolate these two hispanic cuties... mine is super into me- I should have gone for the makeout but we were having so much fun... me and him were just like talking to the girls and then dancing nad would randomly like grab eachothers hands and like hold them in the air and the girls were just LOVING how much we didn't care about them... we were just having a fucking BLAST on our own and they just happened to be there

Anyway- my girl is into me and asking me all about belgium and why I'm in the US- this shit honestly cracks me up lol I was laughing about it the entire night...

But I decide to bail and THEN I go to the other table...

Find the girl I was into who was outside and grab her and I'm like, "Wanna go grab a drink" (I need to DEMAND this next time... it should be "Yo- were grabbin a drink") but she still says yes..

So we go and grab a drink at the bar across the entire club- FULL ON isolation

I'm grabbing her ass and she's like, "You can't do that" but not going anywhere... we get suepr close but no makeout.... I go for it a couple more times but no go- (I should have lifted her up in the air and done some more intense escalation)

Anyway- these other 2 girls are standing next to us so I go over and approach them and they are like, "Omg there is this creepy guy who won't leave us alone" so obviously I interpret this as the one on the right saying, "Please grab my ass"- so I oblige and grab her ass and she looks at me and smiles and I just look her dead in the eyes and give her that cocky little grinn and she goes, "Okay, you can do that"

Then the creepy guy comes back and I grab both girls and pull them into me (my other girl is standing directly next to us while I'm doing all of this) and I look at the dude and go, "Yo man, get the fuck out of here, this is my girlfriend" and he gets kinda angry and flustered but I just look him dead in the eyes and he walks away

At this point I see my other girl leaving because she thinks I'm with these other girls now (I should have let her leave- this is all the kind of stuff that gets rusty when you don't go out EVERY night...) but instead I leave the 2 new girls and go up to my girl who is leaving and I'm like, "Where are YOU going" and grab her and pull her back to the bar and we chill some more

I go in for the makeout but it's not there (apparently she had been hooking up with a guy in my old fraternity for a while and she kept saying how guilty she felt about it)... I'm just like.. wtvr dude

Anyway- I take her back to the table and chat up the promotor who I gave these girls to and he's cool and gives me his #

I go off to the bathroom to take a piss

Girl texts me "were leaving" and i text her "Say good bye" (GOD how gay is this- I should have just walked out without a text and grabbed her)... anyway- she texts me "okay, were outside" and I head outside and grab her from her friends and I'm just like, "Were going to get food" and she resists for a moment but then her friends are being drunk and dumb and I'm just like, "Food. Now. Taxi. Go"

So me and her hop in a taxi and go to get food...

Eat and then hop back in a taxi and I tell her she's paying this time and I'm like, "Yeah my friend has an extra bed you can come over and crash"... we get like 15 blocks away and she gets a text from her friend and trips out and is like, "OMG I'm going home" and like yells at the taxi driver to let her out"- but obviously I still make her pay for the cab

Ugh- little frusterating but I went through the process... got a ton of approaches in... realized some OBVIOUS mistakes I was making and got myself into one of the toughest doors in the city without anyone's help. Solid night

Saturday I had a super busy day... was at work, went to my zen center and then went to bed because I had to be up super early to move shit on sunday.

Will continue to post up field reports like this... Need to get back in the habit.

@buddhagames:

Last night I hit up one of the most exclusive venues in the world, "PHD @dream hotel" and I was with 3 BADASS naturals.

One of our buddies flew in from St. louis where he is going to law school... GOOD looking dude, fucking tears it up... last time he was out here, he was here for one night and we were at the jane and he pulled a girl

Took some time to warmup- which naturals don't get... first set, our buddy actually basically asked me to leave because he didn't think I was helping move the set forward

Hit up about 4 warmup sets... they weren't blowouts but I was getting in the groove... telling stories- working on my VOCAL TONALITY- this is the first step in becoming a BADASS FUCKSTAR- VOCAL TONALITY... it's huge guys.... just say EVERYTHING in breaking rapport tonality... as if you're just CONSTANTLY talking DOWN to her like she's some retarded 7 year old... you can literally say anything and say it in this tone and it will help your cause...

So I was working on telling massive dhv stories (This is what I do naturally... it's sorta "my thing" so why not learn to rock the shit out of it.... Like I recognize, now, that what I do is tell retardedly high value stories... because I'm living a retardedly high-value life... so now that i recognize it for what it is AND recognize that I'm good at it- I'm now working on making it count... just taking my naturally attractive qualities and hoppin em' up on roids.

So I warmed up with a few chicks... each one lasted maybe 5-10 minutes

Then I'm with my natural buddy and we want to take pictures so I grab some girl close by and in breaking rapport tonality start dictating to her EXACTLY how I want these pictures of us to be taken... she takes literally like 10 of them lol and keeps trying to get better and better pictures

I give her shit for taking so many pictures and then joke around with her- ALL in breaking rapport tonality... seriously guys... this shit is amazing. Breaking rapport tonality is the first step to becoming a massive pimp. She starts fliritng with me hardcore, putting her face super close to mine. we makeout a bit

Then this dude in a suit pulls me aside and long story short- she has a fucking BODYGUARD lmao... she just goes, "Oh yeah, that's my bodyguard.. you don't know who I am- do you?" NOPE


Yeah... it turns out she has a fucking BODY GUARD.... literally... I shit you fucking not

We flirt and talk and dance for 20 minutes or so and then part ways

Then I'm chiln out with one of my natural buddies and literally I just see this girl about 40 feet away at the bar give me a MASSIVE approach invitation... like she just looked at me for about 2 seconds but I could tell she wanted more..

This girl was HOT... Russian chick right off the boat that knows 4 languages and taught herself english out of a fucking book.... that's some serious value in my eyes.

Anyway- we start chattin and it's off to the races and she's loving my stories... I'm telling the same style stories (content always varies based on what's happening in my life) but doing it with SERIOUS breaking rapport tonality... basically just saying positive and cool shit with the tone of someone who just doesn't give a fuck


One issue you'll notice, if you go out with naturals, is that they have ZERO issue with trying to steal your girl... The worst part is that a lot of naturals don't even approach- so they will wait until YOU approach... get a girl hooked and then they will come in and act super friendly and awesome and try to steal your girl

This natural tried to do just that... as soon as I was talking to this girl he grabs her by the shoulder and pulls her in and starts chattin her up- she's into him and I realize I have one of two options

1. Become a spectator
2. GET HER FUCKING BACK

So in the middle of their conversation, I just grab her arm and pull her into me and say, "Come here"

She comes over to me and I isolate her on the side opposite the natural so that my body is in-between me and her... he is DONE- he just stands there not knowing what to do- his reality has been shaken because up until now, whenever we have gone out, girls have been WAY more into him than they are into me... this guy ONLY dates models but tonight the moons changed.. tonight was the dawning of another era, sotospeak... tonight I stole my girl back and hooked her HARD

I continue to tell her stories and ask her a few questions- all in breaking rapport tonality... this is the first MAJOR thing I'm working on in my journey to becoming a fuckstar

Anyway- we start talking and after about 4 minutes i go in for the makeout... she half-way rejects me so I get in harder and she kisses me and goes, "What if I want to talk to you"

And then she goes, "When was the last time you had a gf"... You are way too handsy, have you never had a gf before!!!! ha! serioulsy... this girl was honest as fuck with me and I LOVED it. Like she was giving me legit feedback... I feel like a lot of what we learn in this game is NOT to listen to girls and just stay in our own reality... but sometimes, when you get good at this shit, everything about your social skills wlil be on LOCK... except for one or two areas so the girl will actually be LITERALLY wanting to tell you how to change for the better... it's like, "Wait this guy is so awesome... why is this ONE area so weird... I really want to fuck him... maybe I can just give him some feedback"- it's like any sale... you gotta have that combination of having COMPLETE trust and confidence in who you are, while at the same time, be willing to adjust to honest and legitimate feedback

So I back off a little and chill against the bar as we talk some more and let her come to me... make out a bunch.... she's into it now-full tongue and grabbing the back of my head

Chat for maybe 15 more minutes and then I go for logistics- she lives 4 blocks away... BOOM

So I tell her, "I'm going to finish this beer and then we're going to go grab some food"- mind you, it's her friend's bday party

She says, "Okay"- zero resistance, zero negative feedback- just says "okay" and texts her friend that she is leaving... so I chug my beer and grab her wrist and tug her in my direction as we leave

Everything I do, I'm adding a slight hint of "Badassary" to it... so instead of just grabbing her hand- I'm grabbing her wrist and tugging a little and then acting aloof... tug and go is going to be the name of it

Constantly being physical and then backing off and giving her TONS of space

So we head to the diner and she pays for all of our food and a couple drinks (this girl is FUCKING LOADED btw)

Tell her that my friends are at avenue and she says she wants to go but that we have to pick up her friend back at phd

So we head back to phd and head down to the electric room and I tell the doorwoman that it's just me and this girl and the doorwoman immediately lets us in and then after letting us in she starts freaking out about my girl's dress lol like she literally goes, "OMG that is the most gorgeous dress I have EVER seen... Seriously that is an AMAZING dress" and I jump in and I start jokin around with her like, "Thanks for complimenting MY outfit girl" and she starts to laugh and is just like, "No, seriously though, your gf's dress is AMAZING.. you guys are just a solid couple" and then as I'm walking in she goes, "By the way- your shoes are amazing as well".... my fucking SHOES lmao!.. they are awesome though- sick boots I got on a major sale

so we get into electric room, look for her friend and it's a no-go

We walk back outside and she is like, "Okay, my friend is with a guy" and I'm like, "Okay, cool, we'll just say hello and go to avenue without her" and she's like, "okay"

So we get to the top of the ramp and I see her friend with a dude and as we get closer, in my head I'm like, "Holy shit..."- and then when we get next to them, I'm just like, "WOW"... turns out- the dude her friend is with, is one of my fucking wings that I've gone out with a lot... we both start laughing hysterically...

Like what are the odds- we both go out, without telling eachother ANYTHING and both end up at PHD, both get in, and then both end up in a "pulling situation" with two girls who are best friends with eachother... fucking awesome.

Anyway- my girl pulls me aside and is like, "My friend is telling me she doesn't want to be with that guy, can you me and my friend just go back to my place and ditch that other guy"

I tell my buddy the situation and he handles it like a champ... he doesn't get mad, he doesn't tell me I'm a faggot... he just handles his shit

I tell him he needs to leave and he just games the girl and the situation so that he ends up NOT having to leave and I end up smelling like roses. This guy played it MONEY STYLE... still can't believe how perfectly he played the situation...

He just stayed persistent and refused to leave while being calm and chill the entire time.

So all 4 of us walk over to avenue and the doorman lets us right in.

We get in and I star dancing with other girls, fuckin around and shit... my girl is cool with it and just chills with her friend

Me and my wing kick back and give them TONS of space... we basically just go off to the side and have our own side conversation, so it's me and my wing just chattin and shootin the shit and her and her friend talking..

I randomly go in and makeout with my girl every 10 minutes or so..

We also go and chat up random girls in the area

My girl is SUPER SUPER into me but keeps saying how her friend doesn't want to be with my wing... and yet her friend is holding my wing's hand and I think they MAY have made out once or twice.

Anyway- I just chill back and basically let her completely come to me. I act very aloof and she starts biting my neck and may have given me a hicky (I haven't actually check that yet)

Some dude comes up and buys all of us shots... I take the shots and he also buys me a stella.. I drink the stella

I didn't take my card out with me tonight and still managed to get a ton of free drinks/food... this is going to be a new thing

Anyway- we chill out for a bit more and she keeps biting my neck and grabbing me to makeout etc. etc.

Eventually we leave and her and her friend want to grab food so we go to the diner but it's closed and then we hop in a cab and I just get in the cab and go to their place where she poors me a drink

We fool around and then I realize.... THE FRIEND IS CRASHING IN LITERALLY HTE SAME EXACT BED AS HER......... FUCK

At this point- my wing had bailed to go chill with some other girls which was GAY because if he hadn't we both would have fucked last night. The other girl even kept asking where he went and shit...

SO I end up at their place at 5 in the morning, in their bed with both girls there.... I could have tried for a 3some but the other girl just wasn't that into me... I had been trying to slightly game her all night but she wasn't having it.

So I end up going home at 530 am... I'm now at work 3 hours later.

@buddhagames:
That sounds fucking awesome bro. Can I just ask a few questions?

First, how were you with women before you started the manwhore training? How long did it take for a serious improvement and also, are you getting laid on the regular because of it, and if you are how long did it take you?

Just going to school I've been tightening up some of my shit but I don't really go clubbing or to bars a lot and I feel maybe MW's training would be a potentially good idea for me in the future.

That sounds like a sick night though

@crackzaa:
Before I started manwhore's training I couldn't talk to girls sober.
It took me 30 days of going out every single night, completely sober to start to see serious improvement
I am not getting laid regularly
Manwhore's training is killer. Absolutely do it, without a doubt. He doesn't have a lot of space though, so I'd sign up as soon as you're able so that you can get in before he shuts signups down.

@buddhagames:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOXm_qmC05o

Okay so last night was another interesting night.

Head out around 1130 with a natural buddy//roommate of mine.

We pass darby on the way there and I hit up the doorman and he lets me in but my buddy doesn't get in so I roll out.

We try to get into phd, avenue and 1oak- get rejected from all of them... didn't have girls

Head over to brass monkey and it's crowded as fuck- I don't even think I did a single approach lmao... kinda lame

Head over to biergarden to meet up with my buddy... he's sitting at the bar with some old ass 50 year old lady lmao

I hit up a seated 5 set.. we chat for like 30 minutes but they are too old so I hit up another seated 3 set and chat up the hottie for a little bit... go for the # close and she mentions how she's married

Hit up another girl at the bar- she chats me up but she's really into ordering her drink

Hit up another girl and this one hooks- she's a hottttie and has 2 hotttt friends

My wing comes over and I intro him... tell the girls were taking them to griffin and before they cna reject I just pump it up like it's the funnest thing ever and walk the fuck out- I stay in front and my buddy stays in back so that we bookend the girls so they don't bail...

Get outside and my girl is like, "I'm colldddddd" so I tell her I'll warm her up (super cheesey... wtvr long hair dont care) she leans into me... I don't want to keep "static physicality" so I take my arm off her shoulder and tossle her hair a little.. she grabs my arm and wraps herself around me.

We chat as we walk and I just focus on having fun and keepin a good vibe... she reaches down to hold my hand.. we hold hands fro a bit and then I let go and she stays wrapped around me (Oh- I had number closed this chick like 30 minutes ago after we first met)

I should have made out with her the second she went to grab my hand- NOTED

We walk over to griffin and get in line and I talk to the doorman... he lets us in and then I chat him up a bit and he gives me his card and tells me to text him if I'm rollin through with girls and he'd hook me up

Anyway- we get in with the girls but it's 30 dollars a head for dudes so me and my buddy bail on the chicks

See katalyst outside and he's with some girl...

First thing he says when he sees me is, "Dude, you look different" I go, "What do you mean?" He goes... "Idk man... You just look like more of an asshole"

Sall good- we hit up lebain and the doorman who hates me is at the door and so he doesn't let me in... I tell katalyst to go in without me (no need for him not to go in just cause I can't)

Anyway- me and my buddy walk back to the jane and on our way we see two chicks on the street and I stop one of them and I go, "What's up" or somethin and she's hooked... have her in a close embrace and she's like, "How did I already end up in your arms" and I don't say anything and just hold eye contact and go for the makeout and she rejects me playfully, keep going in and get a kiss...

Me and my buddy are like, "Okay, we're going to biergarden" so we take them with us to the bar at the biergarden... we each isolate and chat up our girls... I'm acting very aloof, ignoring my girl and standing at the bar by myself at times, rather than go over to her

She keeps asking me, "What's wrong" , "What's going on, tell me..." I just ignore and chat her up... we start makin out a lot

We talk for a bit and then she tries to get me to qualify and is like, "So you're hot but what else is awesome about you"

I just kinda avoid the question and act aloof... she starts qualifying herself and telling me how big her boobs are and how she got a breast reduction (she still has HUGE HUGE HUGE tits) so then I tell her, "okay, I'll tell you something about myself" (at this point she really really wants to know) so I grab her hand, go sit on a chair and she sits on my lap

Oh before this- as we're making out she;s like, "You're soo.... dominant... it's ..... hot"- good good... I'm working on this. Great feedback.

We chat a bit and I tell her I meditate.. but I don't want to open up too much.... This is something I'm working on- in the past I would have opened right up and told her like my whole life story... this time I decided to shut it.

We chat a bit more and she goes, "Do you want to go outside?" -

I grab her hand and we go outside and she's like, "What are we going to do?" (In my head, I'm like... wtf girl you just fucking asked if we wanted to go outside... why the fuck are you asking what we're doing"

Just ignore and keep walking and find a cab and go up and open the door but she refuses to get in... go back to her and she's like, "What was that" and I don't really say anything and she's like, "I'm not leaving without my friend"... we makeout some more

Everytime we would makeout she'd be into it and then randomly stop and be like, "NO" ... it was so weird because she was into me then not into me- She was scared of me lol it was hialrious.

Anyway- we chat for a bit longer and then my wing and his girl come outside and we start pumpin up a SICK, "Dance party" and they go to the bathroom and come back outside and we get into a cab and head to our place for a dance party.

The whole ride there the girls are "freakin out".. like obviously they know what thye are doing but they are like, "OMG where are we going... dur"

My buddy and I don't even speak in full sentences... we're just like, "Dance party" "Adventure" "Fun fun fun" "YOLO"

lmao- it shuts the girls up and we get there and when we get out of the cab my girl is yelling, "YOLOOOO" and is excited to be coming up to the apartment

we get up to our apartment and i take my girl to the roof... we're making out a bunch and then my buddy comes up with his girl and we chill for a bit and then I take my girl back down into our apartment and we start dancing for like 3 seconds and then I dance her into my room and shut the door and throw her on the bed

She immediately is like, "No no no" and says shit about haivng to leavee... she ends up laying in my bed, makin out with me a bunch but won't do anything else- won't even let me touch her pussy

She just talks about how she doesn't know me well enough and isn't "ready"...

I think I really just needed a little more comfort with this girl... I mean, she was petrified of me lmfao- gotta find that balance... I think that not opening up is good but once the girl is SUPER hooked... I could open up a little and just give her that bit of comfort she needs to be comfortable with going all the way with me

Anyway- my wing and his girl come down and his girl yells something like, "We're leaving" but then goes to my buddies room and the door shuts.

my girl is trippin out at this point and cockblocking my buddy... they end up leaving and we agree to meet up this wednesday so that she can "Draw me naked"... I hammer this home and really get her to committ to it... we'll see if it goes down.

They get downstairs and then I get a call from my girl and they can't figure out how to open the door lmfao (I have some HILARIOUS video of all this going down)

We go down and open the door for them and then fuck around for another 10 minutes or so and head back upstairs...

GAWD- SO FUCKING CLOSE yet again....

Pulled girls back to the bedroom on Wednesday and Saturday... got laid by neither of them- little frusterating but I'm going through the process and it's all good.. I'm getting closer and closer and slowly trying to figure shit out... that's all I can ask of myself- to go through the process and do my best.

That's what I'm doing... I'm trying to figure out the little things.... the little "chinks" in my armor sotospeak

I'm close guys... I'm really close

A SLIGHT few adjustments and both those pulls are lays

@buddhagames:

Cool. So just took a walk in the park by my house and while I was walking I called up my little Russian princess from the other night and set up a d2 for tonight at 7. I'm picking her up at her place. She was very receptive.

@buddhagames:
I need to get me some day2 bootcamp training with Cat ; b

I had another day2 on Sunday... called her up in the morning, made plans to meet around 7

Text her at 3 telling her I'm coming to pick her up at her place and to give me her address

She gives me address

I pick her up at 7 and we walk over to phd and meet up with distantlight for a bit.

I'm having a blast but I can tell she's not down for the whole "club" thing... I never bring chicks to clubs on day2's but I wanted to see distantlight cause I hadn't chilled with him in a while

We leave and grab some food at a diner near by and then grab a drink at a bar near the diner

Idk what it is but on Day2's sometimes I'm super chatty and sometimes I"m just not

Tonight I just wasn't chatty at all... I didn't have much to say

I honestly think this was just a matter of the chemistry just not being there.

Like she was HOT as FUCK... can't deny that.... but at the same time let's break it down a little:

She's a 32 year old Russian interior designer that just moved to the city 3 weeks ago and speaks broken english

I'm a 23 year old california man whose lived in the US his whole life and does sales for a startup....

Like... maybe sometiems there just isn't supposed to be chemistry lmao... that being said- I would like to get to the point where the sex has nothing to do wit hthe chemistry but rather is just a result of me being me.

My day2 game in general has been prettty piss-poor to be honest... I've only ever fucked on ONE day2 and I have yet to be able to take a girl back to her place or my place, except the one time we fucked.

It's okay though...

I mean, I'm going on dates with a ton of HOT girls.. the sex will come. It's also getting super super easy to set up these dates.. I need to start going out on more dates.

I was talkin with Cat on the phone the other day and he mentioned how easy it is to set up a date in the city. and he's right- it's beyond easy, I need to get on the fuckin horse... The only way I'm going to start fucking a lot on these day2's is by getting experience on day2's

But yeah- basically, at the club I was dancing with her a little but talkin with distantlight a lot and chattin up some of the girls at his table... at one point I was holding the hand of some girl I had just met and the russian I was on the date with and dragging them both around the club lmao

I just didn't really have much to say, I didn't run proper game... It's like there is this gap from the time I meet them and the day2 and whatever spark was there... just dies

it's like my day2's just lose some of that energy that existed on the first night. I'm workin on it guys but if I'm going to start having consistant sex and lots of fuck buddies who are stunners... this is going to be a MAJOR source of work for me.

Just goin through the process like a champ.

@buddhagames:

WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU TAKING CHICKS TO THE CLUB.

@Katalyst:

I wanted to see distant light and she lived like a block away. That wasn't the breaking point of this date... pretty much a "neither here nor there" point.

I stlil was with her, alone, for some food and for a drink.

My issues with the day2 are way more significant than my choice of venue.

But yes- you are right... day2's should not take place at the club.... Bringing her there was more just for me than anything else... I wanted to go because I love going. She can deal.

@buddhagames:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2O-BwV0DDUY Chiln out to some mumford and sons right now, dick satisfied, mind satisfied and heart filled with a lot of joy

Another awesome song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eltHv58l8ig&feature=related


Went out sober last night cause I was still recovering from the craziness that was my Friday night.

Hit up a club in meatpacking with my wing Katalyst. When I got there the line was already jam-packed and they were already doing "Guest List Only"... so all this means is that I had to go find a girl.

I meet katalyst outside and we walk around a bit and I see a hottie with her heels off, getting out of a cab, so I go up and say something about how she's jumpin the gun a bit and that she's about 3 hours too early for THAT part of the night (the part of the night when girls take their heels off or wtvr)

Anyway- she starts laughing and we chat a bit and I tell her I'm going to this club and she decides to roll with. Get in line at the club, katalyst tells the security guard that me and my girl are with him, and he tells us to get in line and we get in without an issue.

Get inside and walk around for like 30 seconds and then I see a cute blonde girl with a bunch of friends and I go up to her and I'm like, "Hey- aren't you the girl who was complaining outside" and I do it with a slight breaking rapport tonality...

She's hooked right off the bat

She starts smiling and laughing and is like, "NO!!! I actually hate complainers" and then I'm like, "Yeah, life is way to sweet to have anything to complain about" and then I make some random joke about how I'm actually "Complaining about complainers"

We chat and chat and chat and I actually make a point to NOT physically escalate that hard on her... I've found that in the moments when you KNOW that you can physically escalate, it's actually better to communicate that dominance with eye contact and general "Aloofness" and to only use physical escalation as a "reward" for good behavior.

You just don't need to escalate THAT MUCH with most girls- I also am a HUGE guy, so part of this is also calibreated for who I am and how I come across, so some guys who aren't as physically dominating, may want to do slightly more escalation than I would.

Lead her to the bar where I get a drink and she asks if I'm getting her one and at this point, I just tell her "no"

Grab her hand and walk her around the club for a bit cause I want to find a place to sit. Find a place and we sit and chat for a bit

I go off and talk to some other girls but my girl just stays put and watches me... lmao, literally... she just would like "hover" around me while I talked to other girls.

At various times throughout the night, I met up with Katalyst... see him fuckin around with some girls, picking them up and swinging them around and havin them hop up and down on his dick... hilarious shit.

I see him doing this with one girl and he's spinning her around and I go up and start shouting some random shit and then I'm like, "Ballerina she's a ballerina!" lol

At one point I'm outside with my girl and katalyst is out there with the girl he ends up pulling and they are chatting and I'm fuckin around with her and I just start yelling, "BARK LIKE A FUCKING DOG. DO IT. FUCKING BARK." and katalyst sensed that I was going slightly overboard so he's about to cut-in and tell me to chill out but jUST as he's like about to try and nullify the situation the girl fucking starts BARKING hahahahahha it was fucking HILARIOUS... she's just like, "Woof Woof"... lmfao, me and katalyst started to just crack up and she goes, "What... did I do it right?"

Pretty sure this is now 8 pulls in 8 nights for katalyst... dudes on a TEAR

We both have been pulling a lot lately... shits startin to click and I'm having fun.

End up getting a call from a buddy of mine and he has a backpack on him, so we all meetup and go to bar and chill out and my girl is cooked at this point... I meet some other girls and grab their numbers

We meet up with 2 chicks who my buddy invited over but they are some of the most boring people I've ever met. So we end up closing out the bar and then head over to a diner and grab some food and then me and my girl go to her place and my buddy heads home.

We get to her place and she is begging me to fuck her at this point. I walk in, take off my boots, take off my pants and hop in her bed and she has some weed so we smoke a bowl and then I'm standing up and she starts to rub my cocks and then she gets on her knees and starts to suck my dick.

I grab her and throw her back on the bed and tell her to strip for me.

She gets up and strips naked for me as I watch

She gets back in the bed and she is literally SOAKING wet and she climbs on top of me and we fuck

Turn her over and fuck her from behind and she tells me she wants me to come all over her... so I oblige.

Go to sleep.

Wake up.

Fuck again.

Grab her number as I leave and go home.

@buddhagames:

@buddhagames:

Heh, so I hit up katalyst after work yesterday but he had to pick his bro up from the airport

But then one of my buddies who I hadn't seen in ages hit me up and said that him and a bunch of friends were going to some bars, so I left work around 9 and went over to his place, met a bunch of his friends (he's in med school) and I guess they had just had a test or some shit so they were tryna get fucked up.

I introduce myself to the group and then me and my buddy kinda take off and start chattin on our own, just sorta ignoring the group but clearly leading everyone, as we're way out in front and everyone else is just following us.

Get to the bar and everyone is ordering drinks and I grab a good tastin brew and chilll out and start talkin to my buddy...

This cute lil blonde gal keeps tryna talk to me, asking me interview questions and my buddy jokingly calls her out for hogging me.

I laugh and go back to talkin to my buddy.

Then he goes, "How old do you think she is" and I go, "19?"... I knew this was a low guess.

lmao, she smiles and just gives me the finger and I laugh and I'm like, "I had to either guess really low or really high"... turns out she was 27.

Anyway- chat more but I'm really just spending time with my homy

Get some more brews and then my roommate rolls through and the games begin.

I go up to a 3 set as they are leaving and I'm like, "HEY... I know you" and this stops the entire 3 set in their tracks and they come and grab a drink with me and my buddy.. we chat for a bit but then they go to another part of the bar and I kick it with my roommate

Go up to another one of my buddie's friends and she's kinda dismissive

but as my buddy and I walk away for a sec I tell him, "Dude, she's totally into me" lmao... she probably wasn't at the time.

Anyway- head back and I grab her hand and say something while looking dead into her eyes and she gets turned on..

we go grab a drink and chat...

Then she starts talking about how she has a bf who lives across the country... uhm, okay?

And I'm like, "Well that doesn't mean you can slack off, girl" and I'm like, "You could hike your dress up" and she's like, "To here?" and like pulls it up and then I'm like, "No... to HERE" and pull it up even further" then I'm like, "But for starters you can take this jacket off" and so she takes it off... and keeps it off lmao

But she's a little offended... like genuinley hurt becuase I had way too much value to have been doing this shit to her.

Anyway- then we sit down and we're all chattin and she thinks I"m making fun of her the ENTIRE time (which I wasn't trying to do)

She basically gets COMPLETELY pissed off and doesn't even want to talk to me.

So then I go over and grab her hands and tell her, "We're gonna talk"

So I take her aside and basically pull some of the greatest verbal game I have laid down in the past 10 years.

I go from her hating me to literally qualifying the SHIT out of her and making her recognize that I actually DO like her and for LEGIT reasons.

So then we go back to the able and I in front of my buddeis I'm like, "Hey give me your #" and she's like, "Do you promise to be nice?" and I"m like, "of course" and she gives it to me

And my buddies are literally like WHAT THE FUCKKKKK... in their eyes, it was one of the bigggest turnarounds they had EVER seen.. this girl was fukcing PISSED at me

K so then after a bit I go to the bar with my buddy and we open a seated 2 set. It actually goes really poorly and I don't handle it well at all. Basic shit and I just wasn't on the ball.

Anyway- leave with my friend and the other girl as my roommate stays to game these 2 girls

Head out and grab my girls hand and then I pull her to the side and give her a kiss

We hit up mcdonalds and my buddy and I are totally fuckin around, just doin dumb shit and having a blast

We head back to their dorms and I tell the girl to come watch a movie with my buddy and me... she's like, "nooo I have to get to sleep" so I'm like, "Okay, I'll walk you back to your room"

So I walk her back to her room, we get to the door and I'm like, "let's watch an episode of the office" and she's like, "you watch the office? That's like one of my FAVORITE shows" ha so then we head in

We get inside and it's a dormroom, so we lay down on her bed and I start making out with her and fingering her and then I pull back and I'm like, "I'm not sure I should be doing this... It's just happening so fast for me" (GAWD I'm an asshole)

She goes, "Noo, it's okay, I promise!" and starts to lean into me and grab my dick

So now that I'm hard... I turn around and grab her and put my dick inside her and start fucking the shit out of her.

We finish up and I head back to my buddies room and pass out.

Wake up this morning.

Now at work.

Oh, also I have a bunch of chicks textin me on my dick about meeting up this week. I'm not even pursuiing some of these girls... they are flat out persuing me lmfao...

@buddhagames:


I am glad you kept writing your journal - you ve given me motivation to step up harder in field. Iam still looking forward to seeing you in action bud lol

@buddhagames:

lol false barriers for the win.

I love it. I'm fuckin jealous that I didn't make it out. Ended up catching up with my cuz.

YOLOOOOO.

and when we say YOLO it ain't chode YOLO.

Let's do it tonight. Lower east side. I got a new phone so shoot me a text. Be there or be a faggot

I'll be a faggot with you guys

@Manwhore:

Alright so tonight was an epic first for me. Honestly, this is one of those milestones that you DONT forget... fucked 2 chicks off cold approach, in the same night... not even 2 hours apart.

So the first chick was a day2. God and I had been having SUCH issues with my day2 game and I finally fucking NAILED it... Like I figured this shit out and actually KNEW what I was doing. This wasn't a case of instant attraction carrying the set... this was the case of solid game and understanding what I was doing.

So I get to the bar a lil late and she texts me that she's hiding in the back and sending emails... I walk in and don't even remember what she looks like.. but I run into her and we start chatting and I immediately start off with some slight cocky/funny humor to get some push in right off the bat (but it's SLIGHT push) I mean we were on a day2 so she had alerady invested in coming to meet up with me AND I'm a super attractive dude... but at the same time, she was VERY hot, so I wanted to get a LITTLE push in... just bein playful

WE talk for a bit and I just ramble about everything... she says something and I have 4 or 5 threads going at one time... ccutting myself off, starting other threads, coming back to old threads, starting new ones...

After about 10 minutes, I tell her to follow me and we go to the other side of the bar, just to move the interaction. I find a pole and post up against it. We chat some more and I tell her some story about how my buddies were homeless and so I decided to immediately callt hem up and have them come stay at my place because that's just the kind of guy that I am.. go off that for a while, spin into some other threads

Tell her I'm going to go upstairs and close out my tab- leave without having her come with me. I wanted to freeze out for a bit and give her space to contemplate life without me. The bar wasn't packed and I had FULL confidence that if any guy that was there did try and hit her up, I would be able to neutrilize it beyond easily...

So I go upstairs, close out my tab and grab her and we leave.

Start screening for logistics (still haven't HEAVILY escalated at this point- just light escalation and lots of eye contact and verbal push)

Logistics are MONEY.. she lives walking distance away.

We start walking and I tell her to look up the address of a cool little hipster spot in the area... she finds it and we head there.

We're not on the guestlist but we get in anyway.

There's a ton of people downstairs but I take her upstairs and there is NOBODY there... so we just grab a few drinks and chill out at the bar, completely alone.

At this point, I know she's attracted... I'm an attractive guy, so I start talking to her about a LITTLE real shit... nothing too much, I'm not opening myself up to this girl but I am letting her in a LITTLE BIT to my world

We eventually go and sit down and start chatting more. I'm leaning back and letting her have her space, I DONT NEED TO CROWD HER

Lots of eye contact and great conversation... then another freezeout (I gotta hit up the bathroom)

Come back and hear some music I like and grab her hand and pull her up and she gets up and we dance a little... I get into her space and give her eye contact and start pointing my finger in her face and she leaves her mouth open and my finger goes just barely into her mouth and then I pull it out but I know it's on.

I make up some joke story about how I'm with some loser girl (her) and then she starts qualifying the SHIT out of herself and as soon as she does, I just go, "Yeah, you're different from most New York girls... you're unique" and then go in for the makeout... slight resistence but I persist and it's FULLY ON... I pull back and chill

Now it's time to lay back and let her work for me.

Go downstairs.. more of the same

See some dudes I know from the community and say hi..

We leave and we start wlaking... I ask her where her place is and she goes, "I'm not taking you back to my place" and I just dismissively say, "Okay, I'm just gonna walk you back" and she's like, "Okay"

So we just have fun and keep talking and eventually get to her stoop (Oh- I stopped to get food on the way)

Get to her stoop and she's like, "we're not going inside" and I'm like, "Well, I wanna eat, so let's go inside so I can do that" and she's like, "Let's just eat on the stoop" and I'm like, "Okay, well my buddy is gonna be here in 30, so let's go inside so I don't have to wait in the cold for 30 minutes" and she's like, "Okay, we can watch a movie"

We go in and we head to her room. Close the door and I take off my shoes and hop on her bed... she starts to put the movie on her computer and I just grab her and pull her onto the bed and we start to make out and I lay back and let her crawl all over me

Start fingering her and she's fully receptive.. she's loving it.

Take off her clothes and she has on some weird hipster gear so I have issues with it and she takes the rest off..

She keeps saying shit about how I tricked her into getting inside her... room

Slide my dick inside her and we fuck.. she's tight as hell

We fuck and then I tell her my buddy just got in (It's true- U5 just got into ny and was only gonna be here tonight)

Head to the bar and meet U5 outside

Get insdie and immediately start approaching... havin a tough few sets

Then I decide to chill back a little and sit by the railing and just cherrypick the girls coming up the stairs

Hit up this one girl who comes up and she's into me but I go a little overboard with the push and she bounces

Hit up another girl that comes up and this one is cooked.

She says her friends left and I'm like, "Okay, we're going to fuck"

Tell her we're going to another bar and then just grab a cab and tell him to go to my place.

Get back... zero lmr.

SEXY TIME.

2X

@buddhagames:

Hehe funny you just called as I was replying - damn it's always good to see the homie progressing. YOLO. You should throw up the text exchange btw.

Mann if we stay on the path our future looks damn bright.