Buyers remorse
Hello Guys.
Got a interesting situation right now with a girl from tinder.
Long story short,we talk shortly on tinder and i go for the number but she says instagram so its fine.
Go over there and she starts sending me pics with her in the city and shit,nothing special.I was just being chill and tease the shit out of her.Keep it quite until the night and she sends me a cute pic with her shirt slightly down her shoulders.I make a comment about her lips (Give me your lips).
Then she sends me a clip of her in bed wearing some sexy shorts and shirt.I tell her she is a tease and she is gonna pay for this.
Then she goes: Sorry daddy,i ll let you read now.
To this i respond: Now you made me feel weird in my pants.(Jeffy line :))ha).That shirt wont last too long if i were there.
From here on she basically only responds me with pics and clips....getting hotter and hotter after each message i send.(Texts mostly like the ones in the How to sext video).I send a pic with my abs and bonner showing through my shorts.
I would slowly tell her to do things and also painting the things i would do to her.
And then we go to sleep.The next day i hit her up...no response...send her somethin funny..nothing...i ask her some random shit about her city and she answers promptly.
Then i tell her after a bit:Pumpkin,dont tell me that you feel bad about last night...she left me on seen.
I have read again Mw's article with the Okcupid nurse where he says this shit happens but in my case,i ve kind participated more in the flow of the action...And basically she might see it as "my fault".Thats why ,unlike the case in the article where she sent some remorse texts,she went cold.
First time in this shit and i dont know what is the correct way to go .
So you get her all hot and bothered and have her trading nudes and vids with you and then decide to go to sleep?
You’re supposed to go see a chick after this kind of investment or atleast setup a date if you can’t do that.
No shit she isn’t responding. This is textbook stuff.
”Babe I know last night was a bit sudden but I just couldn’t help myself. So don’t feel like you did anything wrong, nothing’s changed for me. I still want to get to know you over icecream first. No expectations. Besides, you looked gawjus and that’s ALL your fault ;)”
I’m sure we can tweak or shorten this in someway to get the message across so don’t send immediately. Lets have some of the guys help out and craft some dynamite for you.
We’re trying to re-engage with some empathy, letting her know she’s not a crumpled flower or anything and add a little playful compliment. I.e. You seduced me! I can’t help it :p
She is now in another city and she comes back in mine in about 3 days.
My intentions WERE NOT to get here because i never sext before the date.She kinda needed only a slight push to go beast mode:))ha.Because of the fact that i would then have to work a ton to get her back on track.
She will stay in my country until 16 this month so its clearly a booty call for her.I was teasing her about what kind of love she likes and she said she doesnt belive in love blah blah blah.
I was thinking in the same lines: I know you got a good heart pumpkin...calm down.I still think you are cool and want to go out for drinks and fun times.No expectations.
Andrew I don’t got a fucking clue what you’re talking about
So she was not in my city last night when we talked(she was like 100km away).Knowing that she would come back to my city friday or so...i did not intended to escalate things too much over text because i knew it was not possible to bang her after.
The fact was that she kinda had in plan to get frisky over text because my investment was minimal.She might have use this to see if i jump like a horndog all over....Fuck no:))These young ones are such a tease...but its still funny.
I did had in mind the idea to tell her: i dont condone this behaviour young lady...please be decent.But then again,my monkey brain said:nah,fuck it man...let her do her thing.
From here on she basically only responds me with pics and clips....getting hotter and hotter after each message i send.(Texts mostly like the ones in the How to sext video).I send a pic with my abs and bonner showing through my shorts.
^ So you left out a bunch of pertinent info
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So she was not in my city last night when we talked(she was like 100km away).Knowing that she would come back to my city friday or so...i did not intended to escalate things too much over text because i knew it was not possible to bang her after.The fact was that she kinda had in plan to get frisky over text because my investment was minimal.She might have use this to see if i jump like a horndog all over....Fuck no:))These young ones are such a tease...but its still funny.
I did had in mind the idea to tell her: i dont condone this behaviour young lady...please be decent.But then again,my monkey brain said:nah,fuck it man...let her do her thing.
Ya big info you left out dude. Even if she's in a different city, I wouldn't of gone balls to the wall by sending a cock pic. I would've sauteed this and teased her right back without giving it to her all at once. Definitely get the investment out of her from her sending you hot pics but you shouldve managed it better. Especially if you knew there was nothing the two of you could do about it. ALWAYS plan something out...even if its gonna end up flaking, have a channel for her to direct this sexual energy to. For all we know, you could've gotten her all hot and bothered and then she released it on somebody else :/
"Just think about Sunday."
You just explained what MW did in that lay report.It clicked for me now.
My problem was that i only had 2 possible plans for the situation.Either i go with it and see what happens.Even if i knew i had to make a ton of work after if i mess it up(which it did happen).
And my second route was to hit the breaks on it and kill the vibe or go offline.no bueno
Both of these routes were faulted exactly because i did not managed the situation as best as i could.I was kinda reactive to her.Not shaping our experience as i should have.What Mw did with that statement was exactly what was missing from my mindset:a channel to my end goal aka the meetup.
Sorry for my fucked up writting.I will remake the report and the future ones better.I just changed my job for a better one and i had to spend some time on my nerding skills.Now i ll be more active here and i hope i can bring some quality.