Calibrating to the girl
Sat, 07/21/2012 - 18:49
Ok, after another super analytical FR i'm starting to learn the power of calibrating to every girl's unique behaviour. This only happened after making ANOTHER mistake with a new hottie on the scene, and assuming decent sweet talk would work on her when she wants nothing but that judging by how our initial interaction went.
She was one of those flirty, flighty hard to get chicks at the club when i met. She started off telling me she wasn't gonna give out her number, but i persisted 4 times over the course of an hour and had to whip out major game to get her invested - backturns, vulnerability, cocky funny the whole works lol
I could subtly tell she was a sexual chick given by how she LOVED male attention; she was a sensual dancer, and made her ass twerk on my dick like beyonce. She was naughty too, looked at me and said "you're making me feel uncomfortable.." with a slight smile, then she stroked my chest and said "i like rubbing on your chest". And the thing that me realize that she wasn't the type who liked compliments in any shape or form was when i said her necklace looked nice, like...i said it really nonchalantly and she was like "that's so cheesy". She was definitely into me and everything, this was the type that i could've pushed for a SNL but i don't have enough confidence with the pulling part just yet.
I sent her a text today after a 5 min conversation the following night which went kinda well, "Rise and shine pumpkn...sorry i couldn't come last night - I needed my beauty sleep :-)", she asked me if i wanted to come down to the club she was going to. I rationalized that the travel was too long, i would be alone and have to pay entry fee (which i don't do these days cause i'm hooked up at certain clubs). She probably wanted my dick that night and got it from someone else...she ain't replied to what i said but i also think she would choose to ignore it cause a simple text like above wouldn't go down well with a chick like this. I'm starting to see the little patterns in a girl's behaviour that indicates what sort of game would work well with them - she wants the dominant dude; needs the sexual innuendos and the challenge and none of the gay rapport building romance...until later i suppose.
I'm thinking of sending her this text tomorrow, it's my dad's b'day and i told her already but maybe i could meet up with her after the party "Yo! My dad's about to blow his b'day candles out lol so what in da hell is yur sexy ass up to"
She was one of those flirty, flighty hard to get chicks at the club when i met. She started off telling me she wasn't gonna give out her number, but i persisted 4 times over the course of an hour and had to whip out major game to get her invested - backturns, vulnerability, cocky funny the whole works lol
I could subtly tell she was a sexual chick given by how she LOVED male attention; she was a sensual dancer, and made her ass twerk on my dick like beyonce. She was naughty too, looked at me and said "you're making me feel uncomfortable.." with a slight smile, then she stroked my chest and said "i like rubbing on your chest". And the thing that me realize that she wasn't the type who liked compliments in any shape or form was when i said her necklace looked nice, like...i said it really nonchalantly and she was like "that's so cheesy". She was definitely into me and everything, this was the type that i could've pushed for a SNL but i don't have enough confidence with the pulling part just yet.
I sent her a text today after a 5 min conversation the following night which went kinda well, "Rise and shine pumpkn...sorry i couldn't come last night - I needed my beauty sleep :-)", she asked me if i wanted to come down to the club she was going to. I rationalized that the travel was too long, i would be alone and have to pay entry fee (which i don't do these days cause i'm hooked up at certain clubs). She probably wanted my dick that night and got it from someone else...she ain't replied to what i said but i also think she would choose to ignore it cause a simple text like above wouldn't go down well with a chick like this. I'm starting to see the little patterns in a girl's behaviour that indicates what sort of game would work well with them - she wants the dominant dude; needs the sexual innuendos and the challenge and none of the gay rapport building romance...until later i suppose.
I'm thinking of sending her this text tomorrow, it's my dad's b'day and i told her already but maybe i could meet up with her after the party "Yo! My dad's about to blow his b'day candles out lol so what in da hell is yur sexy ass up to"
Sat, 07/21/2012 - 20:35
#1
Re: Calibrating to the girl
@Gogo:
Actually, this text feels much more in alignment with how i feel toward this chick, "Gawd yur fuckin sexy. My dad's blowin his b'day candles out right now, and all i can think about is your ass. Does that make me a bad son?"
Actually, this text feels much more in alignment with how i feel toward this chick, "Gawd yur fuckin sexy. My dad's blowin his b'day candles out right now, and all i can think about is your ass. Does that make me a bad son?"
Sat, 07/21/2012 - 21:24
#2
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@Gogo:
Damn sin. That's an amazingg text
Damn sin. That's an amazingg text
Sun, 07/22/2012 - 01:06
#3
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@Gogo:
is this a girl from movida? ;)
is this a girl from movida? ;)
Sun, 07/22/2012 - 02:00
#4
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Gogo;908.6750;130 wrote:
@Gogo:
Actually, this text feels much more in alignment with how i feel toward this chick, "Gawd yur fuckin sexy. My dad's blowin his b'day candles out right now, and all i can think about is your ass. Does that make me a bad son?"
Take off the last sentence it makes it sound too contrived. Otherwise hotsauce
Sun, 07/22/2012 - 04:56
#5
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Manwhore;908.6761;5 wrote:
Gogo;908.6750;130 wrote:@Gogo:
Actually, this text feels much more in alignment with how i feel toward this chick, "Gawd yur fuckin sexy. My dad's blowin his b'day candles out right now, and all i can think about is your ass. Does that make me a bad son?"
Take off the last sentence it makes it sound too contrived. Otherwise hotsauce
Yeah too much like your fishing for a response. Like Tyler's "do ya like it?" haha but I got wet reading it
Sun, 07/22/2012 - 10:35
#6
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@kris:
LOL naw, from a nice bar in Piccadily. Movida WAS crazy last night tho - sneaked into VIP again :-)
LOL naw, from a nice bar in Piccadily. Movida WAS crazy last night tho - sneaked into VIP again :-)
Sun, 07/22/2012 - 20:22
#7
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@Gogo:
Her: Erm.....ok bit strange LOL (i'm guessing she reacted like this cause i was asexual on the phone - so this taught me something)
Me: What you doing on this glorious day
Her: Lol just come out of shower! Gettin ready to go and pik up my friend from the station she came from New York
Me: Cool. It's gonna be hot the whole week, definitely ice cream weather ;) What day can i steal you from your new York friend next week..
Her: Ha ha I'm goin bak home on Tuesday for week n half so maybe wen I'm bak :p
Me: Let's try tomorrow night. I'll see you off :)
No reply - i think with the last text it dampened the bossdaddy authority frame i had in place here. The "i'll see you off part' might've made it cheesy in her eyes.
I should've said "Let's do tomorrow - or else i'll tell you what happens in Batman" (i teased her telling her i'd do this when i was on the phone to her)
Any thoughts on what i should do next?
Her: Erm.....ok bit strange LOL (i'm guessing she reacted like this cause i was asexual on the phone - so this taught me something)
Me: What you doing on this glorious day
Her: Lol just come out of shower! Gettin ready to go and pik up my friend from the station she came from New York
Me: Cool. It's gonna be hot the whole week, definitely ice cream weather ;) What day can i steal you from your new York friend next week..
Her: Ha ha I'm goin bak home on Tuesday for week n half so maybe wen I'm bak :p
Me: Let's try tomorrow night. I'll see you off :)
No reply - i think with the last text it dampened the bossdaddy authority frame i had in place here. The "i'll see you off part' might've made it cheesy in her eyes.
I should've said "Let's do tomorrow - or else i'll tell you what happens in Batman" (i teased her telling her i'd do this when i was on the phone to her)
Any thoughts on what i should do next?
Sun, 07/22/2012 - 23:08
#8
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@Gogo:
gutted i couldnt make it. I spent all day in the sun today drinking. now burnt like a lobster... if we go out during the week ill have a radiant magma nimbus.
as for the convo man, i think it was a bad move pushing for the meet up sooner... other than that she obviously wants your shclong
gutted i couldnt make it. I spent all day in the sun today drinking. now burnt like a lobster... if we go out during the week ill have a radiant magma nimbus.
as for the convo man, i think it was a bad move pushing for the meet up sooner... other than that she obviously wants your shclong
Mon, 07/23/2012 - 03:31
#9
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@kris:
i like kris's text
i like kris's text
Mon, 07/23/2012 - 08:41
#10
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@Alex123:
How about if i text tomorrow before she leaves, "Yo, have a safe flight beb and MAKE sure you get a radiant sexy ass tan when yur in Greece. It's obligatory :p"
How about if i text tomorrow before she leaves, "Yo, have a safe flight beb and MAKE sure you get a radiant sexy ass tan when yur in Greece. It's obligatory :p"
Mon, 07/23/2012 - 18:24
#11
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@Gogo:
hmm or how about, "Make sure you come back with a sexy ass tan after your holiday. Like bronze skin.. I hope Greece is good to you :p"
hmm or how about, "Make sure you come back with a sexy ass tan after your holiday. Like bronze skin.. I hope Greece is good to you :p"
Tue, 07/24/2012 - 13:52
#12
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@Gogo:
definitely play around with the sexy ass tan text... i'd cut off that bit about you hoping its god to her... i know ful well you couldnt give a shit if she has a good time or not :p
definitely play around with the sexy ass tan text... i'd cut off that bit about you hoping its god to her... i know ful well you couldnt give a shit if she has a good time or not :p
Tue, 07/24/2012 - 16:49
#13
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@kris:
Yeah in the end i went with, "Have a safe flight. Don't come back without a sexy bronze tan..!"
It's not really chodey, probably not the best re-engagment after she ignored my last text on monday either but it's decent. Anyway she ignored it - maybe she's already out of the country.
Yeah in the end i went with, "Have a safe flight. Don't come back without a sexy bronze tan..!"
It's not really chodey, probably not the best re-engagment after she ignored my last text on monday either but it's decent. Anyway she ignored it - maybe she's already out of the country.
Mon, 07/30/2012 - 16:07
#14
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@Gogo:
This girl's coming back in a few days, what dya guys think of me sending her this:
"London was strange while you was away. It was actually hot for once! My week's been crazy.. but did yur holiday kick all sorts of ass?"
This girl's coming back in a few days, what dya guys think of me sending her this:
"London was strange while you was away. It was actually hot for once! My week's been crazy.. but did yur holiday kick all sorts of ass?"