catching feelings for a broad
They say the worst thing you can do in game is catch feelings for a broad. It's hard not to when they wait for you and pick up at the train station and other stuff like this , constant presents and take care of you in a way. Its hard not to catch feelings when all you had all year is getting the runaround from girls you think are hott and one starts giving you play but you feel you are settling or giving up on the person or ideal you had for yourseld to be strong at the end of the day.
or u haven't developed a spine yet when your self esteem isn't high enough and your not strong as a person.
What is your opinion on this... how to avoid becoming soft when your dating and still developing as a person? Is it better to just not date at all until you are ready to be that man?
Make time every day to improve yourself. Whether that be through business, reading, working out, etc.
your girl will always be there
I think it's ok to have feelings for a girl. She's probably kickass. I've gotten very attached to some of my fuck buddies in the past, in fact, one of those that I am really close with, is moving 2000 miles away as I speak. Part of me is sad to see her go, but for the most part it's ok. Our paths went seperate ways. That's all there is to it.
There's nothing wrong with having feelings for someone Vince. Only jackasses refuse to let themselves "have feelings" for a girl. It's like game is their mistress or something. I was that way for years. I wasn't even capable of seeing those emotions/needs in myself. And I wasn't a whole person either lol
Your growth doesn't have to be interfered with by a girl, I think the question is how is everything else interfering? Did you just take a break from the game and stopped going out? Was it work?