Change your consciousness, and your actions will follow. Change your actions, and you will change your destiny.
That's what makes you good at game.
Not learning when to back-turn, or working on your vocal tonality, or "trying" to remian unreactive lol that's the silliest thing
Anyway - Change your consciousness, and your actions will follow. Change your actions, and you will change your destiny - That is literally the entire secret to becoming a more innately attractive man. Period.
That's a pretty thought provoking post Buddha. I'm right there with you on most of the things you say, however I think you may be missing something.
I think it's an interplay between the two that moves you forward. Like a rolling tire, you can either roll forward or backward.
It should be a positive feedback loop. Your conciousness changes your actions and then your actions change your conciousness which in turn changes your actions... I'd say some people are just totally unaware of themselves and they have NEGATIVE feedback loops. Their thoughts say they SUCK, so their actions SUCK, in turn reinforcing THE GENERAL SUCK. I think most guys starting this off have to be woken up from unconciousness world. I was kinda like that when I first started this a few years back! My negative feedback loop started with actions that influenced my conciousness in a negative way...
Now, even if I have a really negative experience with something, it doesn't really effect me much because I have so much positive momentum built up in all my other "loops." That's how I'm relating your post to my experience...
:-) your post above reminds of a post I read from Tyler a year or so ago were he explains why deep level identify change is so fucking important because no matter what "THE SELF IS ALWAYS COMING THROUGH" the self been your consciousness and repetitive thought loops that shit always leaks through you can’t hide it behind a bunch of back-turns, or better vocal tonality you got to go deeper.
Yo BG,
I'm guessing you're past the point of watching RSD videos or going to HS/events.
What do you do now to improve your game, or is it just going out a lot without worrying about improving your game and knowing it will just happen?