Been hitting up this babe from a college class way back when. I missed things up with this chick when she was into me when I first broke up with my gf all those years ago. I was super chode and hadn't found myself or started working on myself. I am much better now lol.
I ran into this girl a few times around campus and a few times at a few clubs. We have some mutual friends now. She was always super nice, as was I, so, we were always on good terms.
Shot her a text not too long ago. I tried to play this on the sweeter/positive sides of things because she thought of me heavily as a player and never took too well to my cocky-funny, laid back, player persona. Decided to be more of a sweeter guy. I admit, I need to throw some push in there, but I'm not too sure what kind would be suitable for the frame I'm coming at her with.
(This is the girl I posted about in the Text Help Thread, tried to fix up that boring bullshit)
On-going text thread:
Me: whenever i see little kid cheerleaders, i can't help but think of little (her name) as a cheerleader hahaha so adorable
Her: Hahaha awwh how sweet
Me: ya i guess you're really easy to think about
Her: Awwwwh, are you sure this is (my name)? cause how cute was that ahah
Me: looks like i'm giving it all away a little too easy
Her: Haha oh ya eh
Me: i can't remember if you're as sweet as you look. i heard you were a bit of a scrapper :o
Her: Hahaha from who
Me: i don't wanna get anyone in trouble.. are you trustworthy:p
Her: What the heck ahaha who's saying stuff about me
Her: Yah I am!!
Her: What even is a scrapper
(I clearly hit a spot here hahahah)
Me: Hahaha oh no, pumpkin, i was pulling you're leg.....
Her: Oh good lol
Me: that got me a little flustered. what are you doing to me, not good!
Her: Ahaha oh boy nothing I swear !
Me: pffft up to no good, missy
Me: i'm excited to see you
Her: Haha Awh how sweet
Her: I know it's been such a long time
Me: definitely. i know the perfect place, let's grab a bite
Her: Hahaha where at
Me: this unreal japanese place. we can make our way out there and totally fuck up their good rep :p
Her: Ahaha oh really eh
I realize how Canadian she sounds lol... Hahahahahha
I haven't replied back, want to close this off here instead of having it drag out. She seems open to it but I can't figure out how to just close this. I wish I could drop a date and time but I don't have my work schedule just yet.
Considering something like "yeah so wear (blank), so we stick out like sore thumbs. I want them to remember our faces. i'll check my work schedule & let you know when this fiasco is going down ;)"
Haha! Very interesting.
I think to a certain degree she totally sees through you, lol. But on another level entirely it's okay.
The more you go with this sweet tempered type stuff, while mixing some light badboy stuff here 'n there you'll be good. You can also humbly (but not so humbly) brag to this girl and she'll be into it. lol
Have you read my "Silly & Sincere" texting style?
Yeah hahaha I thought it was very interesting myself. I was worried I was coming off a bit chodey and lame but it appears to be ok?
I'm going to start throwing in some bad boy stuff and disqualification just to have some push in there.
I will look for that article as well, I haven't read it. Is it stickied?
I'll update the convo as it progresses
Nope never got released to the public ;)
I started to feel like that was the case. I looked for like 20 minutes on the toilet during my break at work hahaha
How do we buy these secret articles?!