Chick 2 doors down
I appraoched this girl last thursday in my apt. Left the cafeteria line and just stopped her
me: Hey :)
her: Hey :)
me: Whats ur name
me: Those are some very interesting jeggings :)
convo banter about her going to fashion school and I # close her tell her we're going to find something fun to get into later, and for her to text me her name now so I get it. I also tell her she has the nicest ass in the building
me: I just ate the greatest tacos of all time ;)
me: And picked up some bacardi what u up to
her: Haha, I just got back to the apt! Wya?
I call her tell her to come thru and we're gona go out, shes down she tells me to text her my room #
me: When u think ur comin?
me: Gona roll out soon
her: To where?
her: And give me like ten min
me: Ok 10min on the clock lol
her: Haha alright. Where we going
me: Either my friends or the row
her: Who you with?
me: My roommates right now u got 2 mins
her: Hahaha where do I meet ya
her: Idk where the heck thats at *crying emoji
me: Lol what part of the bldg u at?
her: I'm by the basketball courts
me: What floor
me: Go to 3rd floor n head to vball courts
her: I have to idea where that's at I'm by game room haha
me: Lol k
her: Okay haha
So we go to my spot, and her boss calls her so she gets on the phone for too long. I call her on it and tell her to hangup multiple times. Apparently its important. we go out on the balcony w my roommates while I roll a J and I tell them that she sucks and we have beef since she was on the phone the first time we're hanging. We chill out there for awhile and banter w my roomies, talking about what girls are allowed to wear and not in Kuwait (one of my roommates is from there) im like "have u seen her stand up in these?? they def. wouldnt be allowed to wear these over there."
I take her into my room to show her my music. Pull her ass up against me and move her hair to kiss her neck. I realize afterward that I wasnt touching her everywhere enough, and when I tried kissing her she just kept giggling ang moving away. She was okay w me touching her she said something about not just kissing anybody tho. She kept giggling and telling me im funny, or calling me stupid but it was liek play fighting i tossed her on the bed and told her she doesnt wana wrestle me im WWF
Anyway she makes some excuse about her roommate wanting her to drive her somewhere or some shit. also its clear to me that shes texting her boyfriend in fresno (she moved here 3 days ago and is from fresno) and is going there for the weekend.
Anyway while we're wrestling by my door I open it at a certain point and tell her to "get the fuck out
she's like "ur gayy" and is giggling while i slam the door
didn't text her at all until yesterday
me: Come to ur balcony
(shes 2 doors down)
im thinking of hitting her with
me: My Owl stopped by w a message for u.. He hooted a whole bunch and was sad u werent there
So you know where this chick lives but you're asking her to come out on her balcony and want to hit her with an owl text? Dude I think you want to talk to someone else about this "group gaming" shit. I don't know what you got going on with this but it annoys me. Maybe someone else can chime in
It's just me and her. The Owl text was just meant to be funny but I could also use a different reengagement text
Like we were out on the balcony chilling w my roommates for a bit but then I took her into my room
I'm a bit confused, where's this at now did you just text her "come to ur balcony" and didnt follow up?
Also what are you trying to do here? Its gonna be hard to escalate from two balconies over
Hey bro, thanks for replying.
Yeah I texted her that yesterday and she didn't respond. If she had responded I had planned on just talking to her from my balcony and getting her over.
But yeah I just want to hang with her again. Would be cool to have her come over again but I wouldn't mind doing some type of activity with her first that'd warm her up. We have pool tables in the building so that'd be fun
Or just have her come over to drink again since thats what we did last time. She said she could bring me alcohol last time
drinking on a balcony?
reminds of balconybrah from Misc.
Oh. My. FUCK! Don't look, don't go outside there's a MASSIVE tiger on your balcony! If I'm gonna fight that thing, I'm gonna need you to come over and help me put on my armor
Ok sweet, I like the dynamic you're building with the roleplay. I sent it we'll see what she says
It's also interesting how you asked if I just texted "come to ur balcony" and didnt follow up.
Is that a scenario where you would definitely follow it up with something? I feel like it definitely could be, but I've been losing so many girls to, what in my mind I am interpreting as "overgaming" with too much text/too many texts, that I've been trying to be more minimal.
I might not have texted "come to ur balcony" its kinda like going for a high five and then being left hangin
Yeah, for some reason I was thinking in my head that if she didn't respond it'd be okay cuz I could just interpret it as her not being home, and then go from there.
But I see what you mean I should definitely be going for texts that offer enough value that she pretty much HAS to respond.
And that it's best to avoid sending texts that may not get a response. It's the difference between these that's hard for me to judge sometimes... Like in my mind this girl is into me so she would respond to a minimal text like that, but I see how it's better to play it safer by offering more value
Also think it through. If you get her out on the balcony it might seem like some Romeo and Juliet shit but its actually a logistical nightmare, I'm sure this occurred to Romeo also.
Did you ever have her sitting down while you were just straight.. mackin' her..? Or did you just invite her over, you had social times with her, and then pulled her to your room and went at her..
That's very interesting that you bring this up MW.
I did NOT just plain mack her at any point one on one. Once I had her in my room I started playing one of my songs, pulled her into me by her hips and just went at her like you said.
She's so fine, I just couldn't keep my hands off her. But I'm realizing that's not what's up... I need to take more time with these stunning girls and calibrate to how the girl is feeling. Just pulled a girl earlier and was taking things way slower, practicing being aloof and appraising her, kissing her a bit and telling her that's all she gets for now type stuff. Also had my hand down her skirt and she wasn't wearing panties. She also showed no disapproval or shock of my hand being down there. I think this is because I took more time and "verbally escalated" a bunch before while we were on the roof (telling her about her waking up next to me and making me pancakes and other sotrylines where its assumed that we're going to be fucking) Would've gone further obviously but her friend came in my room and announced they were leaving. Thats the 2nd time thats happened in the last couple weeks.
Anyway my continued convo with this (2 doors down) girl is:
me: Come to ur balcony
me: Oh. My. FUCK! Don't look, don't go outside there's a MASSIVE tiger on your balcony! If I'm gonna fight that thing, I'm gonna need you to come over and help me put on my armor
her: I was out of town I just got back today haha
her: Wyd tonight
me: Kickin ur butt in beerpong
her: Lmao where at?
call her she doesnt answer
me: It's a home game don't feel like embarassing you on ur home turf
her: Lmao I'm going out tonigh
me: Yah ur a sore loser it's cool
me: Where u goin
me: Dang I look good right now
her: I look better
her: You know of anything tonight
me: Hey punkin. Hows your day going
I saw her in the gym area as my friend and I were heading out today. Went in there and talked to her for a bit, she was doing ab and butt excercises and I was joking with her that we should get donuts tomorrow since we need to grow our butts after a hard glute workout.
Then I was like seriously, what're u doing tomorrow. She said "text me" I said "Ok answer ur texts" and my friend and I left to go downtown.
Wondering what you guys would hit her up with. I actually like this girl and could see her being girlfriend material so......yeah
Ok bro, cool, you're getting the loverboy stuff down and there's nothing wrong with that. But DUDE.. you got to experience dominating a chick and her surrenduring to it. Because actually that's 70% of any seduction. Think about how much you're holding yourself back. Derp.
And I know the language of it sounds sorta old-fashioned or even slightly chauvinistic, but it's not! It's fucking a normal part of interactions between a guy and a girl. They each have their ways of asserting themselves over each other. It's just that most men are fucking clueless about this shit.
She's like "You know of anything tonight" you're like.. "I'm practicing my batman moves at a bar tonight. I could use a sidekick.
Yeah she's 19 which is why I figured there's no point in inviting her to a bar, but I see that you could turn that into some other form of logistical compliance.
Are you referring to loverboy as in me with the other girl I pulled last night? Well that was kind of the point was to try to move the dominating her process along more slowly, because recently my attempts at dominating have been met with resistance rather than surrender, (the first time I had the girl next door over) which is why I'm trying to spend more time "macking" them verbally and getting them more comfortable in general being close to me (as you alluded to in your previous response)
Yeah bro I know it's normal and have no problem dominating a girl. In fact I want to and I completely agree it's natural and part of our blueprint as men, it's just I'm trying to do it in a way where I don't get met with so much resistance when I do, bc that's definitely been recurring for me, although last night I got no resistance and definitely would have continued if her friend hadn't cockblocked
I mean verbally dude
Here's the continued convo today:
me: I'm so over this whole "traffic" thing. Soon they'll be building freeways for me
1 hr 40 min
her: Wtf *crying emoji* hahaha that was so random!
me: Yah, I mayy let you ride shotty if u promise to be good :)
me: Bonnie 'n Clyde style
her: Haha, I gotchu *emoji wink*
me: I'm hitting tasty Tuesday, come
her: What do they have?
me: Idk but I'm super hungry
me: Ok nvm I smashed that in a hurry. Wyd now tho I'm robbing the liquor store tonight. I could use a sidekick.
(Tasty tuesday is free catered food on tuesdays in our bldg)
I can see that she reads my texts and then takes a while to respond after. She read this one over 2 hours ago
Any thoughts on the dynamic here/ what angle to go at this from?
EDIT: Ok nvm she just texted me
her: Hey my bad I was sleeping when you texted me *emojis* did you rob the liquor store yet though?
me: No not yet. Do u have your catwoman outfit cuz we're gonna need to be incognito
her: I'm actually at the gym, so I don't have my car woman outfit at the moment. We might need to reschedule this robbery for tomorrow boss
I guess she is implying that she's at the gym, and has class in the morning so it would be better to hangout tomorrow instead of today.
Do you guys think I should push for tonight or just go with tomorrow? I like how she's accepting my frame though and referring to me as boss. good girl
Yeah so now tho switch it up to a bit more serious but boss type frame. With a bit more of a sexual tinge. Something like "yeah but I hit that liquor store hard already. Now I just need to sip these brewskis in peace and have a back massage when you heading over tomorrow"
Alright cool I sent that word for word. I suppose I'll give her until late afternoon/early evening to respond, she read it last night when I sent it.
Is there a specific protocol here incase she doesn't respond?
you better bang this lil 19 yr old.
Dude I'm definitely going to. I'm more into her than any other girl I've been talking to I'm definitely gonna make this happen.
I've got another girl coming over tomorrow but I'm thinking I'll kick her out and hang w my girl after.
She didn't respond to that last message, so I'm thinking of going:
me: Yo was crazy busy yesterday didn't even get my R&R. Can you manage to sneak away from the books/gym for a secret mission later. Just got my new batsuit in the mail
What do you guys think? I feel like she was digging this "adventure" type vibe
Yeah. But Batman doesn't advertise
Could you explain verbally dominating a bit more?
I feel like i have the body language, tonality and take a dominating role but not necessarily "verbally".
That's part of the training program.
me: Hey was crazy busy yesterday didn't even get my R&R. Can you manage to sneak away from the books/gym for a secret mission later. Just got my new batsuit in the mail
her: Nice, how does it look on ya? *emoji devil
her: Is it incgnito enough?
her: What time ya thinking about going on a mission at?
me: How does 9-9:30 sound. Yeah they finally got my waistline right this time
9am this morning
her: Hey you awake?
me: I was out fighting crime late lastnight
me: Why boo what's up
her: Hahaha *crying emoji* wow and you didn't in invite me?
me: It was a solo mission what you doing later tho I might need your help
she read that at 1:30
What do you guys think is going on here? Is she just nervous to meetup like the other girl? How would you suggest allaying her nerves/ disqualifying myself?
She usually reads my texts right away and then takes a while to respond after
You're so all over the place where's your consistency. You go from talking about bat suits and fighting crime, not grounded in reality at all, to getting pissed off trying to push push push and force a girl to meet up and get pissed at her when she doesn't. Derp
She's into the whole secret mission type thing so I've just been going with that theme (I thought I was being consistent by doing that). But every time I bring up the meeting up aspect of it she just takes forever to respond (like the next day) or asks some other type of question that avoids actually meeting up.
And I'm not sure where in this convo I pushed super hard for the meetup and then "got pissed off," unless you're referring to my text convo's in general...
Anyway I must not be understanding something for you to be saying this, cause I thought I was being consistent by keeping with the same theme, and that she was being inconsistent by sounding like she wants to hang out but also taking forever to respond, kind of skirting around the subject
I guess if you're saying I need to ground it in reality by spelling out exactly what we're going to do when we meetup that makes sense.
But her patterns of texting me in the morning/ reacting enthusiastically to my texts and then just going radio silent is what's confusing me
No man we've discussed this ad nauseam on the forum. Some of you guys blast off into outer space and never ground shit in reality. Girls fluff off. Buddhagames was the worst perpetrator of this. Now answer my question. I got two hotties wanting to hang out, which one should I go with?
You should go with the one who's more into you, or have them both come over in the way you helped PB do that one time off tinder
I'm going with the one that doesn't have a car and looks like Pocahontas. She can't go nowhere
They're both into me, pff
OK so I'm seriously wondering what a good way to ground this into reality is
me: Hey you. Can you shoot pool. Or at least make an attempt at it ; )
me: Hey let's get icecream. I just had an intense butt workout and need to appropriately gorge
or I could hit her with a combo:
me: You know what sounds amazing?
me: The jacuzzi...we should totally hit it up