chick randomly messaging me
Sat, 11/03/2012 - 19:52
Hey Guise,
Some chick I met at a party which I talked to at (and also failed pretty comically) months back just randomly messaged me. A bit of back story, at my friend's party, I get introduced to her, it's my friends little sisters' friend. We talk a little bit, go seperate ways, I continue drinking and having a good time. I get her to try one of my drinks I concocted and it was really good haha (amaretto, beer and sour mix, I was drunk as fuark). Later I'm talking to my friends little sister and I say, "that girl's pretty" and my friend suggests that she goes to get her. AS SOON as the girl goes to get the chick in question I start to get sick, she comes outside, I say "Hey girl X!" *Turn around and pukes over patio*. She tells me I should probably stop drinking. Anyways after that we avoid each other a bit, and her friend convinces me to approach her about an hour later. She's sitting all alone, we start talking and vibing and things are going good, I convince her to go outside and chill around the bonfire. We're chilling and talking around the bonfire when everybody is about to leave and we would be there alone, and just as that happens I start to feel sick again (srs). Before everyone leaves us alone my friend says "YO Crackzaa! I'm going, and you better get your D wet!". The girl is sitting there and I'm like da fuk. I feel sick again, so I tell her I'll be back. I leave, puke and come back and she's not there anymore. I end up adding her on FB, we talk a little bit, text a little bit, things go alright, I invite her out a few times and she's always busy. So I disregard. Fastfoward to now ( a few months later) and yesterday she FB messages me:
Her: "Hey Crackzaa (:"
I ignore her, and wait until today, when I text her.
Me: Hey, I got this number in the bathroom stall, is this the number to text to have a "good" time? ;)
Her: haha its always a good time when you text this number :)
Me: (an hour and half after her recent text) Why don't we stop the texting and just set up a date, I'll see if I can pencil you in ;)
Her: (like 5 mins after) are giving me a choice ;)
(she's french so, that's her sentence didn't come off properly grammatically). I think I can work with this. my thought of response is:
"Nope and from now on you'll call me daddy/boss/master/sensei (one of these).
Note: I don't have a car, so I'd have to crash around her place to chill and she's 17 (19 here). Thoughts?
Some chick I met at a party which I talked to at (and also failed pretty comically) months back just randomly messaged me. A bit of back story, at my friend's party, I get introduced to her, it's my friends little sisters' friend. We talk a little bit, go seperate ways, I continue drinking and having a good time. I get her to try one of my drinks I concocted and it was really good haha (amaretto, beer and sour mix, I was drunk as fuark). Later I'm talking to my friends little sister and I say, "that girl's pretty" and my friend suggests that she goes to get her. AS SOON as the girl goes to get the chick in question I start to get sick, she comes outside, I say "Hey girl X!" *Turn around and pukes over patio*. She tells me I should probably stop drinking. Anyways after that we avoid each other a bit, and her friend convinces me to approach her about an hour later. She's sitting all alone, we start talking and vibing and things are going good, I convince her to go outside and chill around the bonfire. We're chilling and talking around the bonfire when everybody is about to leave and we would be there alone, and just as that happens I start to feel sick again (srs). Before everyone leaves us alone my friend says "YO Crackzaa! I'm going, and you better get your D wet!". The girl is sitting there and I'm like da fuk. I feel sick again, so I tell her I'll be back. I leave, puke and come back and she's not there anymore. I end up adding her on FB, we talk a little bit, text a little bit, things go alright, I invite her out a few times and she's always busy. So I disregard. Fastfoward to now ( a few months later) and yesterday she FB messages me:
Her: "Hey Crackzaa (:"
I ignore her, and wait until today, when I text her.
Me: Hey, I got this number in the bathroom stall, is this the number to text to have a "good" time? ;)
Her: haha its always a good time when you text this number :)
Me: (an hour and half after her recent text) Why don't we stop the texting and just set up a date, I'll see if I can pencil you in ;)
Her: (like 5 mins after) are giving me a choice ;)
(she's french so, that's her sentence didn't come off properly grammatically). I think I can work with this. my thought of response is:
"Nope and from now on you'll call me daddy/boss/master/sensei (one of these).
Note: I don't have a car, so I'd have to crash around her place to chill and she's 17 (19 here). Thoughts?
Sat, 11/03/2012 - 20:00
#1
Re: chick randomly messaging me
@crackzaa: You should fuck her.
Sat, 11/03/2012 - 20:01
#2
Re: chick randomly messaging me
@Aequitas:
Thanks for the advice dude ;p. Just hit up your thread. Thing is she lives pretty far away and need to take public transportation to go see her (like an hour and a half almost), so there would FOR sure need to be a party or something. Worst case scenario I need to get a bro of mine to drive me.
She is smashable, but I'm wondering about my idea for a followup text, do you guys like that?
Her: Your not giving me much of a choice ;)
and coming back with: "Nope and from now on you'll call me master."
Thanks for the advice dude ;p. Just hit up your thread. Thing is she lives pretty far away and need to take public transportation to go see her (like an hour and a half almost), so there would FOR sure need to be a party or something. Worst case scenario I need to get a bro of mine to drive me.
She is smashable, but I'm wondering about my idea for a followup text, do you guys like that?
Her: Your not giving me much of a choice ;)
and coming back with: "Nope and from now on you'll call me master."
Sat, 11/03/2012 - 20:10
#3
Re: chick randomly messaging me
@crackzaa:
Ok dude youre overthinking shit. You should be looking forward at logistics already under the assumption that its on and is going to meet up. Plan around that. Borrow a car, logistically figure out a place to fuck her etc. This shit should be easy pickings for you.
Ok dude youre overthinking shit. You should be looking forward at logistics already under the assumption that its on and is going to meet up. Plan around that. Borrow a car, logistically figure out a place to fuck her etc. This shit should be easy pickings for you.
Sat, 11/03/2012 - 20:14
#4
Re: chick randomly messaging me
@Aequitas:
that's one of my HUGE fucking problems haha. I catch myself doing it all time, in the back of my mind it's but WHAT IF SUCH AND SUCH HAPPENS? THEN WHAT? and then I'll do this! and if that happens. WHAT IF SHE MET ANOTHER DUDE.
it's honestly pretty fucking terrible, then there are other times where I disregard everything and for a short while feel like a master fucking pimp. Haha, the mental game is where I get stumped sometimes. Trying to say the perfect thing, when if a girl is interested she really won't give much of a fuck.
that's one of my HUGE fucking problems haha. I catch myself doing it all time, in the back of my mind it's but WHAT IF SUCH AND SUCH HAPPENS? THEN WHAT? and then I'll do this! and if that happens. WHAT IF SHE MET ANOTHER DUDE.
it's honestly pretty fucking terrible, then there are other times where I disregard everything and for a short while feel like a master fucking pimp. Haha, the mental game is where I get stumped sometimes. Trying to say the perfect thing, when if a girl is interested she really won't give much of a fuck.
Sat, 11/03/2012 - 20:25
#5
Re: chick randomly messaging me
@crackzaa:
Me: (35 mins later) Nope, from now on you'll call me master.
Her: ( like 30 seconds later) master? :p
Gonna wait a little bit and come back with "See! you're getting it, now pat yourself on the back for me." was gonna add something along the lines of, and they say you can't teach respect? I don't know. I'm thinking WAY too much in to this.
Me: (35 mins later) Nope, from now on you'll call me master.
Her: ( like 30 seconds later) master? :p
Gonna wait a little bit and come back with "See! you're getting it, now pat yourself on the back for me." was gonna add something along the lines of, and they say you can't teach respect? I don't know. I'm thinking WAY too much in to this.
Sat, 11/03/2012 - 21:39
#6
Re: chick randomly messaging me
@crackzaa:
Me: (around 45 mins later) See! You're getting it, pat yourself on the back for me ;)
Her: (like 35 mins later) Yeah don't worry I will ;)
I'm guessing I should start setting up and worrying about logistics. Thing is I would only be able to chill next weekend. If i do get this set up, do I shoot her a text every once in a while to make sure she doesn't lose interest or what?
MW's opinion would be appreciated.
Me: (around 45 mins later) See! You're getting it, pat yourself on the back for me ;)
Her: (like 35 mins later) Yeah don't worry I will ;)
I'm guessing I should start setting up and worrying about logistics. Thing is I would only be able to chill next weekend. If i do get this set up, do I shoot her a text every once in a while to make sure she doesn't lose interest or what?
MW's opinion would be appreciated.
Tue, 11/06/2012 - 04:13
#7
Re: chick randomly messaging me
@crackzaa:
Stop being a fucking queer, Aquitas already gave you the answer. Stop thinking. Take action. The next step is to meet up, you know this, this is the end goal of ANY text interaction, so go there, make that happen. None of this other shit matters
Stop being a fucking queer, Aquitas already gave you the answer. Stop thinking. Take action. The next step is to meet up, you know this, this is the end goal of ANY text interaction, so go there, make that happen. None of this other shit matters
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Tue, 11/06/2012 - 15:29
#8
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Manwhore;1481.9745;5 wrote:
@crackzaa:
Stop being a fucking queer, Aquitas already gave you the answer. Stop thinking. Take action. The next step is to meet up, you know this, this is the end goal of ANY text interaction, so go there, make that happen. None of this other shit matters
Dude he's 19 be friendly to the feller. When I was 19 I had no clue what a vagina was. I wish I knew Jon at 19...
Tue, 11/06/2012 - 21:12
#9
Re: chick randomly messaging me
Oops I actually mistook the guy for someone else who responds well to ass beatings. Shit sorry fella
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Tue, 11/06/2012 - 21:16
#10
Re: chick randomly messaging me
But yes at this point you just need to get logistics squared away and GET OVER THERE. Any way you can
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Sat, 11/10/2012 - 23:05
#11
Re: chick randomly messaging me
@crackzaa:
I ended up texting her a few days back and asking where she was going to take me
she texted back saying she would prefer to ask where I was taking her. I called her a princess, and then she didn't respond since then. I don't really care and the logistics would be pretty hard to work out with this.
On a side note, I'm seeing another girl, haven't smashed yet (yes, kinda sucks) and we are almost falling in to a relationship pattern. She's coming over tomorrow to chill a little bit and then we are going to see a movie, thing is while it's evident she likes me, I'm having a hard time getting her to put a lot of effort in to these interactions.
I invite her out/over, she will come and has even cancelled plans to hang out with me, we've kissed and madeout and I guess we are kind of "seeing" each other. she is evidently in to me, but either seems held back or thinks that the guy should have to make every move. Things are going decent in person, thing i'm wondering about is, how do I get a girl to commit to chasing after me over text? or asking ME to do something. I've had moments where she will triple text me and the fact that she likes me is apparent, but then she goes back to being chased after. How can I change this frame? Like I know she likes me but, I'm always the one putting in the effort, and I don't like always having to try and set something up. She always is happy to do so, but I don't know. Any advice?
I ended up texting her a few days back and asking where she was going to take me
she texted back saying she would prefer to ask where I was taking her. I called her a princess, and then she didn't respond since then. I don't really care and the logistics would be pretty hard to work out with this.
On a side note, I'm seeing another girl, haven't smashed yet (yes, kinda sucks) and we are almost falling in to a relationship pattern. She's coming over tomorrow to chill a little bit and then we are going to see a movie, thing is while it's evident she likes me, I'm having a hard time getting her to put a lot of effort in to these interactions.
I invite her out/over, she will come and has even cancelled plans to hang out with me, we've kissed and madeout and I guess we are kind of "seeing" each other. she is evidently in to me, but either seems held back or thinks that the guy should have to make every move. Things are going decent in person, thing i'm wondering about is, how do I get a girl to commit to chasing after me over text? or asking ME to do something. I've had moments where she will triple text me and the fact that she likes me is apparent, but then she goes back to being chased after. How can I change this frame? Like I know she likes me but, I'm always the one putting in the effort, and I don't like always having to try and set something up. She always is happy to do so, but I don't know. Any advice?
Sun, 11/11/2012 - 00:12
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You made the same stupid mistake again. Over and over again. She asks you where you're taking her and instead of saying "I'm taking you here." You call her a princess. You're a puss
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Sun, 11/11/2012 - 01:06
#13
Re: chick randomly messaging me
@Manwhore:
evidently so, I wouldn't be suprised if I could hit her up sometime in the future and set something up though. not that that is much consolation. I'm still curious about my second part, even if a girl is interested (different girl) how can you get them to do a lot of the set ups or even initiating in texts? I've seen it so often with my friends and/or their girls, but I feel like even though this girl wants me I still have to pretty much put all the work in. Since she works a lot, sometimes she takes a while to answer my text and I'm too in my head.
Then I see her, realise she really likes me and stop being such a fucking pussy. Any advice for that?
evidently so, I wouldn't be suprised if I could hit her up sometime in the future and set something up though. not that that is much consolation. I'm still curious about my second part, even if a girl is interested (different girl) how can you get them to do a lot of the set ups or even initiating in texts? I've seen it so often with my friends and/or their girls, but I feel like even though this girl wants me I still have to pretty much put all the work in. Since she works a lot, sometimes she takes a while to answer my text and I'm too in my head.
Then I see her, realise she really likes me and stop being such a fucking pussy. Any advice for that?
Sun, 11/11/2012 - 05:19
#14
Re: chick randomly messaging me
@crackzaa:
from the second chick who I mentioned in the post above, who is sometimes playing hard to get. just had a pretty decent text go back and forth, seems like I can start going sexual. any ideas:
Me: The dishes
Her: What?
Me: You're no good at dirty talk ;)
Her: Haha! Apparently not.
Me: It's never too late to learn ;p
Her: Well then I guess somebody will have to teach me ;)
Me: I could.. But I promised my mom I'd be good
Her: Such a Momma's Boy. :)
from the second chick who I mentioned in the post above, who is sometimes playing hard to get. just had a pretty decent text go back and forth, seems like I can start going sexual. any ideas:
Me: The dishes
Her: What?
Me: You're no good at dirty talk ;)
Her: Haha! Apparently not.
Me: It's never too late to learn ;p
Her: Well then I guess somebody will have to teach me ;)
Me: I could.. But I promised my mom I'd be good
Her: Such a Momma's Boy. :)