chick texts me bout something, then just says nevermind
This chick asked for my number this weekend, and I texted her last night but she was sorta boring and was going to bed.
What's up with this? Does she want to talk to me, or am I getting trolled lol. She read the text and never said shit. Normally, I'd call her out for being a total loser and not telling me who he is :) This is college game though and i'll see her around I really want to keep any chasing to the minimum.
Her: Do you know Enrique
Her: never mind!
Me: lol whose Enrique
sorry about posting something so insignificant but I've encountered this before and never knew the correct way to handle it.
I've actually always errored on the side of being "friendly" to the girl, open, and totally awesome. Throughout all my years I've watched guys try the "cool guy" card. All it seems to be to me is appealing to the male majority, which is usually utterly flawed in whatever context you find it in. You do realize you're holding yourself back with all that. Keep chasing to a minimum? Ok cool bro what about keeping the awesome at a maximum
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Thanks Kim I had a hard time seeing it from where your coming from
I've actually always errored on the side of being "friendly" to the girl, open, and totally awesome. Throughout all my years I've watched guys try the "cool guy" card. All it seems to be to me is appealing to the male majority, which is usually utterly flawed in whatever context you find it in. You do realize you're holding yourself back with all that. Keep chasing to a minimum? Ok cool bro what about keeping the awesome at a maximum
This is always my biggest issue, and no longer actually represents me whatsover. I've gotten close to eradicating it while in person but it still lingers in my text game. I gotta work on the subtle little details between playful and insulting, becuase of course I truthfully feel no need to actually insult anyone. Maybe when we first started coaching I did.
Me: Yah me and Enrique chilled out all night, too bad you were in bed tho
Her: My bad hahaha (hours later)
Me: Dontchu worry cat woman
Her: Cat Woman!?!
Her: I hate cats
Me: Hush yah little kitten :)
Her: Are you kinky or something
Me: there is nothing kinky about kitten tori!
Me: How dirty of you
Her: You seem to have a bit of an obsession
Me: speak for yourself bebs
Me: I got two doggies
Me: (pic of dogs)
Her: ONG
Her:THE LITTLE ONE
Her: (smiley face heart emojis)
Me: lol thats apricot hes the cutest little douchebag you could ever meet :)
Her: omg im in love
Me: Do you have any pets?
Me: pet rock maybe hehe
Her: I had a dog but he died a while ago but I love animals my parents wont get another
Me: Aww that sucks :(
Me: Theyre a lot of work mine pee on my bed :/ lol
Her: well
Her: Now I know you have a smelly bed (had a feeling it would go here)
Her: How attractive
Me: pshh its called laundry hun Im a big boy now
Me: Your bed prolly smells like old people ( was gonna go more sexual but she doesn't seem hooked enough yet)
Her: I can tell you as a fact my bed does not smell like old people
Her: goodnight
well that hat was abrupt hmmmm
Me: Im so done with this studying shit
Me: soon I'll have a photographic memory :)
Her: haha and how do you plan on getting one of those
Me: hmm havent figured figured out
Me: oh gawd im going blind
Her:???
Me: nothing pumpkin butt
Me: whats your night look like tomorrow
Her: your literally strange HAHA
Her: I have strep throat
Her: so it looks like i'll be in bed
Me: noooo :(
Me: was gonna invite you to pre game in my dorm with some peeps
Her: sorry :/ im home
Me: feel better homie (kissy face emoji)
Her: thanks :) night
Me: I just won two games of twister, I feel like im the man rn
Me: whats been up how yah feelin
Her: feeling good lol why twister
Me: it was a floor meeting thing
Me: and no it wasnt naked twister
Me: good to hear your not dead :)
Her: im quite alive thank u
Me: oh nice! alive for finals
Me: hows your studying going
Her: sucky shit im bout to hit the library hub
Me: not awful just yet we will have to see how it gets
Me: what do you have left for finals
Her: bio chem calc hbu
Me: bio, chem, and EMT
Me: lol everyone at the gym is running their problems away
Her: I was there about an hour ago running as well
Me: really you strike me as a fast walker :)
Forgot to throw these up, thought this shit was going GOOD and she probably woulda came over if she wasn't sick. Then my game got a lil sub par and she seemed to just be in a bitchy mood.
I never ever see this girl around campus, I saw her once and I swear she ran away!
I was going to invite her to study with me cuz im super smart :P but it never seemed like the interaction went in the right direction and it was fizzling out
maybe i'm just stupid and totally could have told her fuck the library and come and see me
Yeah dude. One of the main reasons we even learn game is so we don't have to sit around waiting for something to happen. No waiting on fate or the stars to perfectly align or some such BS. We create opportunities out of thin air. Get her schedule for the week and then pitch the meetup.
yah good point I've been trying to not be a dick lol and I lost some direction...slowly working out the kinks