Church Girl w BF
Sat, 06/30/2012 - 06:04
So I met this chick at the mall yesterday. Before we went on an insta-date, she warned me that she had a bf. I ignored and we started texting:
Me: R u there?
HB: Who's this?
Me: Mr Spontaneous
HB: Hw r u?
Me: Im Good. Just got out class. What r u up to?
HB: long ass text about her day
Me: Mm the weather is prfect. Srry I had to cut the date short yes.
HB: That's fine my friend was waiting.
Me: Ya for some reasons I couldnt stop thinking about u n ur scar. Weird I know.
HB: lol how come
Me: Pple dun like scars. but in case the scar jst make ur face seem more special. More memorable i guess.
HB: well thank you so much
Me: for?
HB:For saying that..that was very sweet of you
Me:Oh I'm sure guys say that to you all the time
HB:Haha not to many people notice about my scar
Me: I just listen to Alicia Keys last night n was moved for a sec. (she mentioned A.K. during the date)
Me: I saddens me that we didn't meet at the right time. U have a bf n I am seeing some1 as well. May be it is not meant to be.
6 mins silence frm her
Me: sorry I am expressing my feeling like this. U prolly think I am a psycho
HB: Haha no not at all
Next day text
Me: R u there?
Me: Answer me. Don't be hitler and cause a holocaust to my heart
6 hrs later
HB: Sorry I was in jury duty
Me: what r u up to?
HB: I am actually chilling w my bf tonight
Me: Lol I am chilling w my girl too (lie).
Me: Movie jst started. Nite
I am experimenting w drama-style game (frm Julien's vid) hence the super-needy and emo wordings. IMO, this feels kinda flat and may go nowhere since she brought up the bf again in a forward way. What do you guys think? What can be improved or carried on frm here?
Me: R u there?
HB: Who's this?
Me: Mr Spontaneous
HB: Hw r u?
Me: Im Good. Just got out class. What r u up to?
HB: long ass text about her day
Me: Mm the weather is prfect. Srry I had to cut the date short yes.
HB: That's fine my friend was waiting.
Me: Ya for some reasons I couldnt stop thinking about u n ur scar. Weird I know.
HB: lol how come
Me: Pple dun like scars. but in case the scar jst make ur face seem more special. More memorable i guess.
HB: well thank you so much
Me: for?
HB:For saying that..that was very sweet of you
Me:Oh I'm sure guys say that to you all the time
HB:Haha not to many people notice about my scar
Me: I just listen to Alicia Keys last night n was moved for a sec. (she mentioned A.K. during the date)
Me: I saddens me that we didn't meet at the right time. U have a bf n I am seeing some1 as well. May be it is not meant to be.
6 mins silence frm her
Me: sorry I am expressing my feeling like this. U prolly think I am a psycho
HB: Haha no not at all
Next day text
Me: R u there?
Me: Answer me. Don't be hitler and cause a holocaust to my heart
6 hrs later
HB: Sorry I was in jury duty
Me: what r u up to?
HB: I am actually chilling w my bf tonight
Me: Lol I am chilling w my girl too (lie).
Me: Movie jst started. Nite
I am experimenting w drama-style game (frm Julien's vid) hence the super-needy and emo wordings. IMO, this feels kinda flat and may go nowhere since she brought up the bf again in a forward way. What do you guys think? What can be improved or carried on frm here?
Sat, 06/30/2012 - 07:11
#1
Re: Church Girl w BF
@Indochinese:
I would just drop this one unless you just want to use her for texting practice. She didn't give you any signs that she would be interested in you.
As far as sending multiple messages, especially the part refering to yourself as a psycho, is not the something to say to a girl who is probably just responding to be nice, but not at the point to tell you off.
To me, this came off as trying too hard and also not really having an objective.
On the plus side, she seems to not really have a fun personality, so no biggie.
I would just drop this one unless you just want to use her for texting practice. She didn't give you any signs that she would be interested in you.
As far as sending multiple messages, especially the part refering to yourself as a psycho, is not the something to say to a girl who is probably just responding to be nice, but not at the point to tell you off.
To me, this came off as trying too hard and also not really having an objective.
On the plus side, she seems to not really have a fun personality, so no biggie.
Sat, 06/30/2012 - 10:48
#2
Re: Church Girl w BF
@Indochinese:
I think Julien's Drama-game thing probably would work best face to face tbh. I tried it as well over text the other day but didn't really get the nuances I was looking for, so it ended with me blowing myself out. However, with body language and tonality you can really make it work I think.
So save that for when you see her again, that's my advice anyway.
I do however think that the "drama-game-thing" is not something you just experiment with, you need to go 100% or not at all. I might be wrong but it just feels like one of those things that you shouldn't apply unless your game is super solid.
Wonder
I think Julien's Drama-game thing probably would work best face to face tbh. I tried it as well over text the other day but didn't really get the nuances I was looking for, so it ended with me blowing myself out. However, with body language and tonality you can really make it work I think.
So save that for when you see her again, that's my advice anyway.
I do however think that the "drama-game-thing" is not something you just experiment with, you need to go 100% or not at all. I might be wrong but it just feels like one of those things that you shouldn't apply unless your game is super solid.
Wonder
Sat, 06/30/2012 - 11:07
#3
Re: Church Girl w BF
This forum is in essence, teaching you how to apply drama game IN TEXT. If you guys saw some of my archived text convos you would be like.. holy fuck. Regardless, there are tons of examples on this forum of the same thing ;)
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Sun, 07/01/2012 - 05:28
#4
Re: Church Girl w BF
Thanks for the feedback!