Classic's FRs
I'll edit this post at a later time. Going to start writing FR's and breaking down my nights again.
Physicality. Forgot about picking girls up, she absolutely loved that.
Even with your roomie and his buddies out with you you didn't feel that "homebase" feeling? Lol
How often do you get "serious" with girls when you're out? Like.. an earnest conversation. Drill style
Even with your roomie and his buddies out with you you didn't feel that "homebase" feeling? Lol
Yea I wanted to point this out to myself - I was out last week with some community guys that I had never met and was very much in my head. I wasn't being the party or the social context. I was taking my cues off my environment, value scanning and just looking for sets and approaching.
But on Friday just having my roommate's social circle (even though I've never met any of them and couldn't tell you one person's name) there, had me acting much more entitled. I was immediate louder, approaching more, more indifferent, and gregarious.
How often do you get "serious" with girls when you're out? Like.. an earnest conversation. Drill style
Maybe 30-40% of the time? My good conversations typically jump from being party, party vibe to earnest conversation and back again. It just ebbs and flows as the convo develops. Though I'm not sure if I would really describe them as "serious"...
It's really important to have a good vibe with your wings that isn't based on pu. Otherwise yeah it's a setup for bad nights. Establish some other sort of dialogue or inside jokes with them. And if you do talk game infield, make it funny or retarded, even vulgar, but don't get too serious 'cuz it just puts the wrong spin on meeting and carousing with people.
And don't be afraid to get deep with a girl, you're easily trained well enough at this point to maintain high value while going to those places with a chick. You won't friendzone yourself at this point you'll just create deeper intimacy and feelings inside her.