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I'll edit this post at a later time.  Going to start writing FR's and breaking down my nights again.

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Please excuse my typo's on

Please excuse my typo's on this stream of consciousness. 
 
3/18/16 - Went out with my roommate to meet up with some of his college friends for some chicks birthday.  Headed Downtown and immediately started getting talkative, talking to the bouncer, person ahead of me in line etc. We go in grab a drink, then go find his friends, do the whole introduction thing.  I'm outside the bubble, still more in my head a little bit, but it's early we're on the dance floor so I just settle in and dance for a bit.  Almost immediately one girl from the group gives me proximity to dance with her, but she want's to grind like we're in fucking middle school, so I ignore it.  She's part of home base so I know she will be around for the night.  I talk with some of the dudes and some of the girls, but it's too loud we're right by the live band so it's dance time.
 
I finish my drink and walk away to the bar, laughing at funny shit I see, dancing, getting myself in a party mood.  Grab a drink, talk with the guys and girls at the bar.  Walk towards the bathroom approach a couple girls, all quick blow outs.  I head back to my buddy and his friends, more dancing, nothing's happening; they all disappear for drinks.  I roam the bar, I watch some basketball highlights talk to the dude in front of me, he ends up knowing some girl that one of my college buddies used to bang. Small world.  I tell them I have to get back to my group and head back over.
 
Head back group's back.  Two girls dancing by themselves by my group - I'm dancing and I "approach" meaning I start dancing with them and we have a blast on the dance floor.  We're drinking, dancing having a good time.  My roommate comes back with his dude friends, they dance as well.  Random guys rolling through, I'm not worried at all; I'm the most fun, best dancer, and not needy.  It's an obvious decision for the girls.
 
I walk away to the bar and grab another drink, let the girls get bored and creeped on by needy drunk dudes that can't dance on the dance floor.  I approach this one girl as she's walking and it almost hooks but she keep's it moving. Walking back towards home base and see these 3 latina girls dancing, one of them is pretty cute, bust in their hook the entire set.  I dance and see the two girls that I left earlier.  I dance between both groups - one then the other and let their be competition between the two groups for my attention.
 
A couple guys come into the latina set, I can handle them, but it looks harder so I just go to my two girls.  One of the guys hooks the ugliest of the girls lol.  I dance more with my girls and the hotter latina friend and third friend have dissappeared.  I should of went and found her later she was cute.
 
Dance more with the two girls, my roommate, girls from his group just wasting time having a blast on the dance floor.  Random girls come in with proximity and I'll dance with them for a bit and then go back to my two girls.  Initially I was thinking threesome, but it's clear that one of the girl likes me but is just less engaged with me then her friend.  We're clearly part of the same group at this point.  I leave and come back whenever, blowing out random dudes that are trying to dance with them.  My roommate and his friends are clearly trying to catch one of the girls, but it's not working at all, turns out that friend has a boyfriend, which makes sense she was less engaged the entire time.  They end up leaving and I grab the number of the other one to party soon.
 
I turn and start dancing with a cute tall blond girl, that I had briefly danced with when she gave me proximity, that was third wheeling with her hotter blond friend A and some dude.  The lights turn on and I'm pow wowing with my group and them.  Somehow A and I get into an isolated convo and I mention that I saw her earlier and thought she was cute, I ninja her number really quick. She shittested me about knowing her name, but I just ignored it and told her to put in her name as something cool. They dip.
 
I go look for my roommate outside with his friend. Somehow get myself in a conversation with some girl from Ohio State, I mention that her friend SC looks cold and suddenly I have the cutest girl of the group hugging me for warmth just nuzzling into my stomach as I talk with her friend. I'm talking shit about our colleges with the entire group and then I pick SC up into the air and she loves it and we're roleplaying husband and wife and she starts snapchatting everything and starts kissing my cheek, I kiss her quick while I have her in the air. 
 
It's almost 2 o'clock and I'm making out with SC as she snapchats the entire thing, life's good.  I yell over to my roommate that it's cold and I want to head back to our neighborhood and pick up brownies from my buddies, trying to gage for a possible after party.  The girls perk up, but they're heading in the opposite direction.  We're holding hands now walking looking for our respective ubers, I get SC's number and make out with her a few times and send them on their way.
 
Very interesting to see how Comfortable out when I have a "social circle - with girls and guys" as a homebase.  Their was no difference out last night, then a night out in college where I knew the majority of the hot girls and cool dudes at the bar.
 
Good - See how the night builds. I get social and talk to everyone early and the night just builds and you start closing shit down torwards the end of the night.
 
Non Needy.  Dancing & talking with other girls - Even while in set.  Jealousy Plot Lines.  Husband/wife role play.  BOSS

Physicality.  Forgot about picking girls up, she absolutely loved that.
 
Approaching during skag hour.  I always forget about this, Do This More
 
*How do I create that feeling of having a "homebase," when I'm out alone and have no one to run back too?
 
Bad - Drink less. How dope would it be if I just did all of that sober, it's all the same actions.
 
Find out more about logistics - do they all live together, how do they know each other etc. Close Harder. I was the social context -  I should have been in the girls uber to their place last night and just run the show.
 
There were definitely some dope girls that I didn't approach. 

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Even with your roomie and his

Even with your roomie and his buddies out with you you didn't feel that "homebase" feeling? Lol 

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How often do you get

How often do you get "serious" with girls when you're out? Like.. an earnest conversation. Drill style 

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Manwhore wrote: Even with

Manwhore wrote:
Even with your roomie and his buddies out with you you didn't feel that "homebase" feeling? Lol 

Yea I wanted to point this out to myself - I was out last week with some community guys that I had never met and was very much in my head. I wasn't being the party or the social context.  I was taking my cues off my environment, value scanning and just looking for sets and approaching.

But on Friday just having my roommate's social circle (even though I've never met any of them and couldn't tell you one person's name) there, had me acting much more entitled. I was immediate louder, approaching more, more indifferent, and gregarious.

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How often do you get "serious" with girls when you're out? Like.. an earnest conversation. Drill style 

Maybe 30-40% of the time?  My good conversations typically jump from being party, party vibe to earnest conversation and back again.  It just ebbs and flows as the convo develops.  Though I'm not sure if I would really describe them as  "serious"...

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It's really important to have

It's really important to have a good vibe with your wings that isn't based on pu. Otherwise yeah it's a setup for bad nights. Establish some other sort of dialogue or inside jokes with them. And if you do talk game infield, make it funny or retarded, even vulgar, but don't get too serious 'cuz it just puts the wrong spin on meeting and carousing with people. 

And don't be afraid to get deep with a girl, you're easily trained well enough at this point to maintain high value while going to those places with a chick. You won't friendzone yourself at this point you'll just create deeper intimacy and feelings inside her. 

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