Close friend thinks i destroyed his reputation
The story starts 5 days before, we hit the most pussy-infested club in our hometown i paid my drinks and flew to a near location with a little girlie,but some mates decided not to pay their drinks and ran away.
Right after that, one of the damn gorilla-bodyguards found me and threatend me with a knife in my fucking chest and asked for the money, i calmed him down and of course gave him the money.Two days later, a stupid asshole comes and starts to quarell with me, about destroying his name and that he cant go back to that club, also he said this sci-fii shit that he wont be able to get a job, because other people will say that he is friend with thieves and that he will be considered a thief too and they wont give him the job.
After another million horseshit,i decide to take the reins and reason with him, obviously his mind was so frustrated angry and confused at the moment, that he decided to hit me and i played some MMA with his face.So the thing here is, i have some many clues to take a sweet sweet revenge on his ass, but my intention is to fix this up with the stupid motherfucker.But he is bullshitting me, like all over the place to my mates and to my ex-wifes xD, so i dont know how much more i can take, my blood is boiling in my veins.
The guy also holds a grudge against me, because of an old story with a woman thats a whole other story, but i think the volcano erupted cause of this reason too.
guy sounds like a faggot. I would just ignore him
It's bottom-line, black and white. He didn't pay for his drinks, that was his decision he made and the action he took. Trying to blame it on you is acting like a little kid getting angry at his mommy for not cleaning up his mess. Tell him that. Tell everyone he's telling as well. Tell them you were forced to cover for his dumb ass and you did the right thing but you're not going to clean up after him like his mommy anymore.
Why do you want to keep him around? Seems like an asshole.
Alphabro, i just want to help him stop acting like the world wants him to act and start acting like a true boss, i can see that he is willing to do this thing, so he is a mate, i ll try one more time and he has some good qualities too,i hope that it just wasnt his day.Thanks, for the advice people.
You're going about this the wrong way. This isn't one of those times where you "discuss" things, you let him know very succinctly what he did wrong, what this situation is, etc. This reminds me of one of those weird "bro" relationships where a dude's trying to get some sort of "motherly" valdiation out of it. You got to nip this in the bud not try to prolong it thinking that's going to teach him a lesson.