Closing on Day 2's
Within the last two months Ive made gaming probably my first priority. Things have been going ok so far, although I would really like some peoples pointers on closing. Closing on first night and closing on day 2's .
I've had day 2 lays before but they aren't consistent enough for the amount of dates that I actually get. Other than that I would say my day 2's are pretty dope, and can really engage myself. The girls always look super comfortable and I hookup pretty easily. I've been physical for a while but I feel kinda stuck at just that point. A question for you playas out there. How do you make the situation more sexual, and more importantly, lead toward sex? Like get to the point where the girl is willing to just come back with you, instead of going home. It feels like its in this middle area where they wanna chill again before they have sex, but are very interested in seeing me again. Im thinking of maybe taking more risk (not that I play it safe, but maybe take it to the next level of aggression) and increasing the physicality more, however I'm kinda at a loss on how to go about doing this. What do you do during the date, like start talking about sexual topics, talk about what turns her on about you. I guess go from normal conversation about life, goals, music, philosophy, to I'm just gonna pin you up against the wall and slide this fucking huge cock up your tight cunt sort of talk. I'm pretty good at dirty talk but kinda like when it naturally already flows there.
Advice and conversation on topic appreciated.
Start fucking with her in dominant but playful ways, even quasi-mean. Push-pull
I get you just be like be dismissive on her push her away kinda, and say shit that gets her engaging. Any stuff you usually use for this?
Nope. I make it all up on the spot
Cool. Im gonna try out some of this like the next 5 dates I have and give an update afterwords.
One super easy way to get physical with a girl without freaking her out is DANCING. It's not always convenient, obviously. But, if you can set up the first date at or near a place that has a busy dancefloor, and you're a decent dancer (you don't have to be good), and you stay focused on your goal (which is to get your hands all over her) it's a great way to escalate very quickly.
Yea Im a pretty dope dancer. I would say better than most people. Escalation goes up pretty fast however I usually get stuck on what to do next and or the escalation goes up to a point where it can't really go that much farther in a club. I also approach alot when I dance, like just grab girls hand and start dancing with her. This works for me alot, however, since we weren't talking I find that this as an initial approach sometimes just stays in dancing mode. I think Imma try and lead a bit more as well as the other advice in this thread.