Club/bar/dance party Game
Wassup boys!
I'm looking to learn the do's and don'ts of club and house party game. It is very new to me, beforehand, I was doing mostly small social circle type game.
First off, what is the deal with vocals? My verbal game is good and I project well too, but I still find myself having to talk into people's ears. Is this normal? I find that it ruins eye contact. Is the goal to move to a quiet area?
How about conversational distance and body language? Obviously, the interactions are a lot closer. I've found that this is fucking awesome for eye contact and using facial expression, however, sometimes I am coming off too strong in a touchy drunk guy kinda of way. Should I be popping in out of sets as a means of push-pull?
Dancing and movement? What I've been trying to do is never stop moving, even if i'm texting, i'm still dancing.
When is it time to leave? Chicks are always with their friends and do not want to leave until the party is dying down.
Anybody have any little tips the be more awesome in this envrioment? I read one of Manwhore's write ups about how he walks through a club with a smile on his face, I really like that one.
The more i go to clubs the more convinced i get that being physical and moving her around is most important. Lately i've been going for the kiss pretty fast aswell, not because i need it but because i don't want to waste my time with a girl that isn't that into me.
Yesterday i was talking to a chick and i started off immediatly by holding her hands, hugging her, placing her arms around my neck, etc while leaning back and teasing her all the time so she was chasing me haha. Talking in the ear is even better because you have an excuse to get near her lol. Well i didn't talk in her ear, more like close to the neck which is hot. I find that if you move her around during the night it will also be natural for her to go home with you.
Ahhhhh Okay thanks guys that advice was huge. I didn't have much clue about that movement thing at all! thanks!
So what if they don't want to move? Your not necessarily blown out right? Socialize and come back later I'm assuming
So what if they don't want to move? Your not necessarily blown out right? Socialize and come back later I'm assuming
depends on your read but that is always an option. Could just proceed as normal and try again. She could be mad sober and nervous. Just look to make things FUN, and leading naturally occurs. Shots, beer pong, beer bong, smoke a bowl, dancefloor, go play drinking game. Build momentum. Move her outside / low key area to Mack on her outside of people's vision to avoid PDA with the other girlies. If you can't get her solo invite them all to an after party with a few cool dudes you trust to take her friends. Snipe her from there. Improvise if your homie isn't there and make it happen with instawings
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So what if they don't want to move? Your not necessarily blown out right? Socialize and come back later I'm assumingdepends on your read but that is always an option. Could just proceed as normal and try again. She could be mad sober and nervous. Just look to make things FUN, and leading naturally occurs. Shots, beer pong, beer bong, smoke a bowl, dancefloor, go play drinking game. Build momentum. Move her outside / low key area to Mack on her outside of people's vision to avoid PDA with the other girlies. If you can't get her solo invite them all to an after party with a few cool dudes you trust to take her friends. Snipe her from there. Improvise if your homie isn't there and make it happen with instawings
Kewl Kewl
Now is there a way of doing this without getting figgity fucked up? I try not to get fucking smashed but I find myself using drinking as my only means to "bond" with the girls
now is placing the hand on the dick an over the top tactic for a college party? im assuming so LOL
valuable stuff kimbaby thank you
Why would you not make that its own post
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Just realized something sorta huge that makes my party game suck
I tend to open girls, especially groups, on a more douchey level opposed to friendly. I was mistaking it for being "intense" but truthfully it is self sabotage because I am afraid to put myself out there (as a friendly nice guy) and feel like a chode If I get rejected. I don't feel as bad if I'm blown out and I never really exposed my emotions anyways. Stupid stupid me.
and no this isn't me all the time, but my dance party game is elementary
I went through all the ladies I met last night and I realized that the best interactions were the very few where I was more friendly
I've literally been telling you this for years. It sucks to hear it's still a problem. You don't want to miss out on life dude
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
yah I know. I've made huge leaps that i'm proud of, but it lingers at these huge parties cuz I must be uncomfortable with all the chaos. No excuse though, its consistently getting better and will be gone asap