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Girl: Hey cutie ; )
Me - 13 hrs 43 mins later: Hey beb, just got done playin basketball. Sittin here on my couch wrestlin my lil pup
Girl: Were at bagatelle! Its amazing. Come
Me - 15 mins later: Looks fun. I still gotta shower and get some work done. Meet me for a drink later tonight
Girl - 11 mins later: Yes that would be great
Me - 1 hr 17 mins later: Im helping my buddy move some furniture. Lets plan to meet at 930
Me - 1 min later: I still haven't been to the highline ; )
Girl: I almost went today!!!
Me - 3 mins later: Haha nice. 930 work?
Girl - 17 mins later: Ill let u know im not sure what tome my sister is going back to nj
Me - 1 min later: Gotcha. Are you goin with her?
Girl - 1 min later: Nope shes going back cause she has to work
Me - 1 hr 17 mins later: Gotcha. lemme know when shes leaving. Ill have to makr sure its not past my bedtime lol
Girl - 2 hrs 1 min later: Hey!!! My sister just went home. Woul it be ok with u if we get toetger on tuesday? Im really tired and I cant tomorrow unless its early because my final company presentation is tues
Girl - 35 mins later: Is it past bed time? Lol
Me - 14 hrs 15 mins later: Hey beb, totally passed out last night. Was EXHAUSTED from helpin my buddy carry a ton of furniture. Passed out right next to my dog
Girl - 3 mins later: Omg u have a dog!!!! I love them! Send me a pic. And its ok. I was exhausted also. I fell a sleep right after I texted u.
Me - 6 mins later: Yeah hes a big lil pup but I wrestle him daily to show him whose boss.
Girl - 48 mins later: Jaja thats so cute. Hows ur day going?
Me - 3 hrs 34 mins later: Lmao pretty amazing, relaxin at the pool with a blue moon- took off work early
Girl - 3 mins later: That is so nice. And thats my favorite type of beer
Girl - 3 mins later: Let go to happy hour after work tomorrow
Me - 21 mins later: Mm that sounds good, beb. Im headin to dc for work early wednesday mornin though : (
Me - 5 mins later: But if you promise to dress up and look EXTRA cute, I think i could make it out for one drink ; )
Was my handling of that last part weird?
It could work but it comes off as "gamey".
i do this shit sometimes. It's hit or miss.
Gotcha
yeah, I wasn't gonna meet up with her at all cause I gotta catch a train at like 6am to go to dc wednesday morning, but i changed my mind. Sucks cause I didn't even mean it in a "gamey" way lol I was just flirtin with her, like one of those things that you do that's so obviously gamey, that it's kinda just a flirtatious joke
ah well
Damn, you know what, I feel you G but here's the thing, and I totally dig what you're sayin0- it def. does come across gamey,
but on this one, with regards to my own thoughts on this, I gotta go with the spidey senses - given the situation, this was very solid texting. It was flirtatious and funny and over-the-top enough for the 'gameyness" to just be cute and there is no way she a) doesn't respond and b) doesn't respond positively.
She either fell asleep, lost her phone or has been kidnapped by pesky hipsters-something weird happened.... I'm just sayin - I gotta go with the spidey senses on this
Manwhore - whatcha think?
Word I'm sure it was solid because the investment was definitely there on her part.
Ive found that shit like this is SUPER SUPER solid when said in person but over text, girls will find that it's trying too hard. Again, not all the time and I think this girl was totally down.
Also, love the hispanic girl "jaja"
latin girls are sooo fucking sexy
ugh, SO sexy
This girl is just so fucking innocent, it's one of the cutest/sexiest qualities I've been around
Girl: Omg im so Sry i didnt get back to u! I lost my phone I just found it
Girl: I will be cute! Jaja ill wear my red dress
Okay, that makes sense. I'll meet her tonight.
LOL
This girl was with some dude, but I didn't konw it, until we left the venue I met her at and she starts laughing when we're like 30 seconds away and goes, "OMG, the guy my sister brought for me is right there!" , lol I just go, "Fuck that guy"
He sees her and comes up, and I just let her shut him down- I don't even need to acknowlledge his presence. She's just like, "Yeah, I'm gonna hang out with them for a while" (Them is referring to me and my buddy, he pulled this girl's twin sistere)
never saw that dude again.
Me: Hehe thats perfect beb - what time you get off work?
Girl - 2 hrs 55 mins later: Im off at 6:30
Me - 57 mins later: Oh nice. I dont get out till 8. So lets meet at 830.
Girl - 2 hrs 36 mins later: Im still at the office. 8:30 sounds good
Girl - 1 hr 20 mins later: In a meeting
Me - 21 mins later: K
Girl - 26 mins later: This is running long
Me - 2 mins later: I can meet you at 10 at the latest. Otherwise gotta raincheck
Me - 2 mins later: Lol ima bout to march in there and be like "im stealin this girl" and carry your ass outta there
Girl - 27 mins later: Jaja u wont belief what just happend to me.
Girl: Im so sorry but can I get a rain check? When are u comming back from dc?
Me - 20 mins later: I get back thursday night
Girl - 16 mins later: Wanna go to lavo ?
Me - 11 mins later: Noo I get back late
Me - 11 mins later: What time do you get to lavo
Girl - 9 mins later: I usually go arround 1
Girl: Will u forgive me for tonight?
Me - 44 mins later: I wanted to hang out a lot which is weird for me bc I dont normally feel that way
Girl - 1 hr later: Im sorry my business dinner went longer than expected. Im just going home
Girl: I promise if u give me the chance ill make it up to you
At the risk of sounding like a bitch, I'm posting this convo
I feel like I got played here.
WTF kind of business meeting goes until 12:15AM....
But let's say it's not a business meeting and she was doing something else.... why the fuck would she be so insistent and apparently apologetic?
Honestly - I'm at a loss here as to what to think about this situation....
I was talkin to my roommate about this too - what's REALLY weird, is that I hvaen't felt this way about a woman in probably 6 months or more. I'm completley in my head.
If she puts you in your head, you don't deserve her :).
Sounds like a fuckin hottie. O god.
At the risk of sounding like a bitch, I'm posting this convoI feel like I got played here.
WTF kind of business meeting goes until 12:15AM....
But let's say it's not a business meeting and she was doing something else.... why the fuck would she be so insistent and apparently apologetic?
Honestly - I'm at a loss here as to what to think about this situation....
I was talkin to my roommate about this too - what's REALLY weird, is that I hvaen't felt this way about a woman in probably 6 months or more. I'm completley in my head.
What's ridiculous is I sent that super needy text and I'm pretty sure it actually worked in my favor, if I can just wait to respond when I'm not in my head
Hey Buddha,
could you not text something back that was congruent with your "pick her up out of the meeting/taking this girl" boss/daddy text..
like "grrr, who kept you out that late, imma have to have some stern words with them I think! ...lol"
haha that's perfect!
And on a sidenote: WOW
I have literally ZERO clue what happened to me yesterday. I must have been on my period or somethin. I haven't been that in my head, in a pretty long time, felt weird. I woke up today, super early to catch my train, and I just don't care nearly as much.
Oh well, guess we all have our moments.
Thanks for the text idea Hainswof- I'll hit her with something like that
All good dude.
Yeah, this wasn't the buddhagames i remember reading bout over the last um-teen posts of yours.
Remember though... read my signature first.
What's ridiculous is I sent that super needy text and I'm pretty sure it actually worked in my favor, if I can just wait to respond when I'm not in my head
I think she's being real with you... and that didn't strike me as "super needy" at all. It sounded to me like you were being real. If she punishes you for expressing some dissapointment about not seeing her, that's pretty fucked up. Don't worry about it AT ALL...
Maybe you coulda worded it in a stronger way, but I don't think it hurt you in any way
All good dude.Yeah, this wasn't the buddhagames i remember reading bout over the last um-teen posts of yours.
Remember though... read my signature first.
Yeah man were all still learning. Everyone makes mistakes or gets caught up in a girl every now and then.
Lol but yeah I was thinkin bout how funny it was how I was describing where im at q lot recently ans basically doing the opposite with this girl. Like I said - musta been on my period.
Also that being said. The textgame in this thread is generally pretty damn solid.
Yeah dude.
Speaking of that... I need some peeps to critique my text game actually, might post it up in a bit.
Wow I just had to comment one last time on this. Reading my posts it sounds like someone completelt not me.
Lol pretty sure I had oneitis for like a day. Now im back to being calm cool and relaxed.
Interesting how I woke up today and *poof* i was back to feeling like the BG I know. Calm cool and collected moving forward. Calm cool and collected
I dated a cuban girl like this. She would press hard for the meet up then flake. When id go cold she would go through great lengths to loop me back in. She would create all kinds of lies that were obviously bullshit. Turns out she had a bf whole time she was seeing me lol.
She probs has a bf/married but does like you, just not enough to ditch her man for you.
Lol that could be it.. she's got some bf that takes up too much of her time hehe.
Me: Grr who kept you out that late, imma have to have some stern words with them I think! .. lol
Girl - 3 mins later: It was a company celebration happy hour for our up fronts. Jaja
Girl: Guess what! I just got offered to work from school!!! So happy
Girl: Are u in DC?
Girl - 3 mins later: I did my client pitch presentation yesturday
Girl: For mattel. And it didn't start till 5:30
Girl: So it was late but it went perfect
Me - 29 mins later: Congrats beb! im in dc. Left this morning.
Me - 1 min later: Btw, I want to let you make it up to me but im in dc till tomorrow night
Girl - 6 hrs 1 min later: Hows DC? Its raining here
Girl: What do u fly in tomorrow
Me: Grr who kept you out that late, imma have to have some stern words with them I think! .. lol Girl - 3 mins later: It was a company celebration happy hour for our up fronts. Jaja Girl: Guess what! I just got offered to work from school!!! So happy �� Girl: Are u in DC? Girl - 3 mins later: I did my client pitch presentation yesturday Girl: For mattel. And it didn't start till 5:30 Girl: So it was late but it went perfect Me - 29 mins later: Congrats beb! im in dc. Left this morning. Me - 1 min later: Btw, I want to let you make it up to me but im in dc till tomorrow night Girl - 6 hrs 1 min later: Hows DC? Its raining here �� Girl: What do u fly in tomorrow
Nice, mind at rest now BG :-)
Bro she gaggin for it...
I mean, she's been like this the whole time. It's the meetup part where she flakes.
But yeah, I was done trippin as soon as I woke up.
Calm. Cool. Collected.
Faggoty.
yeah, I deserve that.
True. I phrased that rather with strong language. Meant it more as a possibility. Either way, she seems real keen. Side note: uga has some fucking fine ass white girls
Me: DC is awesome. Had to come down and show this lil city whose boss.. your next beb!
Me - 4 mins later: Watch out, im totally gonna beatcha up ; )
Girl - 5 hrs 13 mins later: What do u get in?
Girl - 22 mins later: Time*
Me - 1 hr 16 mins later: Had to handle an emergency out here. Ill be back in ny around midnight
Girl - 1 min later: No worries. You may be tired but if ur for it im going to marquee
Me - 28 mins later: Haha im way too exhausted to do marquee tonight!
Girl - 1 min later:
Me - 1 min later: I bet you look sexy tonight, too : (
Girl - 11 mins later: We can go out tomorrow ill dress sexy then also
Me - 41 mins later: As long as you send me a pic tonight of what im missing ; )
Girl - 1 hr 12 mins later: Whats a good spot to go to dinner at this time
Me - 13 mins later: Sakagura is awesome. Delicious tapas and sake
Me - 11 hrs 24 mins later: How was last night - I got back at 2am. I was so friggin tired
Girl - 1 hr 8 mins later: Hey!!! It was good I actually just got home jeje
Me - 1 min later: Lmao get some sleep! You wanna come meet me tonight?
Girl - 4 mins later: Yeah! What are ur plans?
Girl: Im so annoyed I didnt go to the Today Show cause i thought it was going to be canceled since it rained but it wasnt!
Me - 7 mins later: Haha I kind wanna surprise you. Just dress cute and ill let you know when/where... I hope your a lil adventurous!
Me - 4 mins later: You able to meet at 9?
Girl - 17 mins later: Yeah. Is it if i bring a friend? Shes visiting from DC
Me - 3 mins later: Yeah, was gonna ask you to bring another girl! Two of my buddies are gonna be with us, so if you wanna also bring your sister thatd be cool
Girl - 11 mins later: Both said yes so it will be great
Girl - 22 mins later: Were do u want to go. They were talking about marquee or purgatory
Me - 1 hr 8 mins later: Yeah meet us in meatpacking around 10
Girl: Ok.
Girl: Are u working today
Girl: O this is the pic I promised from last night
Me - 26 mins later: Yeah im working, but its Friday so im letting everyone drink while we work
You meeting this chick tonight?
make her call you papi and talk dirty in Spanish while you're getting it in.
Hawtest thing ever
Yeah, havin her bring her friend and sister and meet up with me and my buddies.
Shits gonna get weird
Yeah, havin her bring her friend and sister and meet up with me and my buddies.Shits gonna get weird
Rock it BG... rock it!
Also, love the hispanic girl "jaja"latin girls are sooo fucking sexy
I haven't noticed it's a latina thing. I should meet more Hispanic girls, seems like that's a cute added 'feature' haha. Actually, let me just hit one up that fell off the radar.
Some good stuff in here btw.