Conversation
Me: Hi KDC. It's alsky00 (okc). Would you like to meet up sometime this week...
Girl - 1 min later: Sure. Maybe Tuesday early eve?
Me: Perfect
Me - 3 mins later: SF or your neighborhood?
Girl - 11 mins later: SF
Me - 5 mins later: Cool, let's meet up at rock bar on 29th/Mission.
Girl - 6 mins later: Ok
Girl - 23 hrs 58 mins later: I have to be somewhere at 8 :30 tomorrow so can we meet at happy hour ish?
Me - 3 hrs 46 mins later: Hey, are you definitelty down for tomorrow?
Girl: I'm down to meet up for happy hour tomorrow. If not then it will have to wait till Friday.
Girl: I have to be somewhere in the mission, so I can meet you at rock bar anytime after 6.
Me - 1 hr 39 mins later: OK, sounds good. Say, 6:30?
Girl: Sure
Me - 1 day later: Running about 15 mins late..
Girl - 7 mins later: Cool
Girl - 3 hrs 27 mins later: Thanks! When's a good night for you? I'm booked until Friday the rest of this week.
Me - 4 mins later: I can do sat night....
Girl - 5 mins later: K. Ttyl
Me - 2 days 14 hrs later: Hey, you def. on for tomorrow?....
Girl: No! I totally forgot that I have a party. Next week?
Me - 3 mins later: Glad I checked. I don't know, maybe....
This girl I met a few nights back. Kind of a unique situation in that she's moving out of town at the end of the month and made that clear in her 1st email response to me on OKC. I sent her my standard opener which consists of "Hey there. I'm curious enough to consider starting a conversation. What part of town do you call home?" Her reply:
Hi
I forgot about this thing! I sort of dont live in SF any more though I'm around the bay for another month. If you'd like to still meet up,'I'm down.
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Best
KDC
During the first date after creating some comfort, I brought up the topic of her leaving at the end of the month and that presumeably she's ok with something casual. She nodded in agreement. She had a concert that she was going to meet some of her friends at around 9:30. We met up around 7p for happy hour, then later went to eat. After eating, I kissed her on the sidewalk just outside the restaurant. She seemed cautiously into it, but warmed up quickly. I grabbed her hand told her we were going for a little walk. She was excited about that prospect, it seemed. I took her down a side street, then found the first recessed driveway (SF, big city) and dragged her behind me. I could tell she was excited by the prospect. Anyway, we had a nice little make out session. After which I walked her to the venue which was only a couple blocks away. It's Friday, and we were supposed to meet up tomorrow.
Answered in other thread.