Creating a rediculous social circle and other nonsense

Alright folks,

So things post college are starting to come together the way they always do : )... it's taking some groundwork but the machine should be up and running again in no time.

For a relatively short period right before and right after I graduated there was this weird fear that I had somehow lost everything that I had created in college. By this, I mean a fucking awesome social circle, a straight up MACHINE, that being my fraternity which I pretty much helped build from the ground up with a bunch of other dudes etc.

Right after I graduated I knew the first thing I wanted to do was not go back to the job that I had. it was at a cool company and all but just not in an area that was using all of the fucking sick ass qualities that I have. I was on a fucking floor with a bunch of (literally) obese women and older (40s/50s) men sitting at a computer all day running reports... GAYYYYY

So I've been goign full fucking steam with that shit folks, and the interviews are starting to crop up and the machine is starting to run. It's like I took a pitstop, had to refuel the tires, get back on track with all my standard shit and get back in the fucking zone. I'm a monster when I'm in the zone. Straight up. No doubt about it.

Got my housing situation all sorted out. Got interviews rolling in and it's looking like I'm going to be making MORE money than I would have been AND working in an area that uses all of my great qualities AND has great synergy with pickup. So I'm pumped on all of this.

It's funny cause I can literally see my own development and maturity coming into play with my recent job search. Like I literally have told two different companies that I am straight up worth more than they offered me and in response, one of these companies said, "Peace, late" and the other offered me a 15% increase in starting base salary.. still not what I'm worth, so I'm still shopping but it's good to know that options are available. Like despite all the references I give them, they just don't understand what they get when they sign me on board. They get straight PASSION and one of the most intense dudes they have ever met.

It's just interesting because in the past, I never would have had the balls to do this, just because I wouldn't have been able to see my own worth and my own qualities are legitimately worth a lot of money in the business world.

Okay so enough with me pumping my state. Let's talk about the title.

Basically, one thing I realized is that, for me, having an awesome social circle in college was great because obviously I was hangin out with cool dudes who I didn't have to babysite constantly and could handle their own shit so that when we chilled it was just fun and there were lots of people bringing their own vibe to the table... this was great because I got laid a lot from my social circle... like not every night but a lot and additionally, it allowed me to have one of the coolest girls I've ever met in my life. She's still in my life and it's dope. We've been hooking up for basically a year now and there is absolutely no drama, no games, just straight awesomeness... and NO this is absolutely NOT a relationship and she is VERY aware of this. Like literally I've had 1 "fight" with this girl in the year we've been hooking up and it was resolved by her texting me saying we needed to talk, us talking and then ending the conversation by laughing and being cool again.

For me, this is so fucking huge. Cause I used to literally FUCK UP relationships, like I literally just couldn't mantain them but now it's like it just aint no thang. So that's really cool for me.

But the BIGGEST thing that having a great social circle did for me was that it just gave me the ability to go out and do my thing solo when I wanted, knowing that I didn't need anything from any of the people I was meeting. Like i have 4-5 really, really, really fuckin good friends who are like brothers to me and I don't need shit from any other dude. I have my brothers in arms. If other dudes wanna coem in, that's cool but I got nothin to worry about on that front.

Also- with regards to girls, it allowed me to have that mindset that I just don't give a fuck because it's like, I know that I can always just kick it with my boys and get laid the "normal" way.

But the fact is that I just flat out ENJOY cold approach, so that's sorta why I do it. Like I really fucking enjoy just goin out with a random wing or a buddy and just doin shit for a night and having a SOLID social circle allows me to have the abudence, both with dudes and girls to go out and enjoy myself....

So, on that note- One thing that I really want to focus on as I move forward in my life is always mantaining a fucking awesome social circle.

like the other day, I was at some random dudes house and I woke up at like 930 and decided I wanted a bbq, so I texted people super early and by 1 in the afternoon we had like 15-20 people chiln on the rooftop, makin burgers and drinkin brews. It's shit like this that just makes you be like, "Damn, life is good"

Then from that, having some random dude I met get me into lavo in sandles lmao (The bouncer rejected me at first, so I called up my bud and he brings the fucking OWNER out and he waves me in and the bouncer is all, 'nah, I already rejected him' and the owner literally looks at the bouncer with the most disgusted look and just shakes his head like almost in disbelief and just turns his back to him, opens the rope and lets me in)... What's funny is that sometimes I have this feelign like, "I don't even know what I'm doing. Like I just chill and all of a sudden all these people wanna kick it" and like I think THAT is a part of why people like being around me on some level, like I really just get genuinely interested in other people... but the whole time, absolutely recognizing my own value and what I bring to the table and that I'm a cool ass dude.

So anyway- social circle is HUGE.

And for me, I like to have my longterm shit on lock before I do shit like pickup. So while I'm getting back into it and going out again, I won't start going full steam ahead- every night, until my job is totally on lockdown... but as soon as that happens, I'm going to be killing it again. Zero question in my mind. This isn't procrastination... this is just me prioritizing my life so that I have a solid base.

Uhmm so yeah, long rant but basically I just wanted to stress the importance of a solid social circle and being on track and how it relates to just feelin like a boss and in turn, gettin pussay