Critique my text game / advice/help welcome.
I've been working on actually approach and face to face game ever since I started.. and haven't really payed attention to texts much.. hope I can get some advice/help
Girl hit me up on POF..
I'm really attracted to her.. In my eyes she's a solid 8-9
Chit chatted for a bit on pof, we related on the fact that we both go the gym.. then got her number...
I told her I was going to crash for the night, and that I'm not on pof often.. so shoot me a text (left my number)
Phone texts begin:
Her: Hey Americanzombie... it's Tiffany from pof (: (she left this text on my phone afer I told her I was going to crash, I was actually tired so I went to bed and didn't text her back)
Her: Hey do have instagram??
Me: good mornin:) my instagram is xxxxx
her: good morning! got to sleep in a little today, took the day off. Followed you on instagram. accept me
Me: Lucky you. Accepted you. I'm at work right now so if I don't get back right away. that's why. (It's actually really hard for me to text during work)
her: Okay no problem!
Me: Hey cutie
me: how was your day off? (probably shouldn't have asked such a logical question..)
her: Good got a lot of stuff done ! Now in bed gotta be up early for work tomorrow
me: Cool, I'll be right over
Me: Was going to be a gentleman n tuck you in and kiss you goodnight
her: You barley even know me! Lol you'd be a creeper coming to my house !
me: I'm teasing.. but hypothetically you'd be the creeper for letting a stranger into your house ;)
her:I wouldn't have even let you in! I'm the one calling you crazy & tell you you'd be a creeper so hypothetically you can't say that! Hah
me: If this scenario actually played out. you'd give in to me & wouldn't resist using me like your personal teddy bear to sleep with & i'd put up with it cuz ur cute
her:you just keep going don't you! Lol
me: ;) I'll let you get your beauty sleep. g'nght
I feel the interaction could've been a lot of better... part of me didn't even want to text her tonight.. since I know texting should be used as a means to an end...
but I probably won't be able to actually meet up with this girl for another week since im going to be pretty busy these next few days.. so I wanted to lock myself in her head at least..
Should I leave it at that till I can actually meet up with her?
Constructive Criticism is welcome... i'm sure I fucked up in some areas.... and newbies or those with no success.. please don't feel the need to add your 2 cents.
Telling a girl she would be a creeper for letting a stranger into her house is basically shooting yourself in the foot. Now she's going to hesitate before letting you in her house because YOU created that expectation. Durr
Watch what you say, don't trigger asd mang. That's bad news
As far as going forward, just hit her up in a couple days, maybe a day or so prior to a day you'd actually be able to meet up, and shoot her a random text and see what she's up to, then invite her out to something.
Thank you sir.
I guess I was trying to throw the "creeper tag" back at her instead of it staying with me or being super reactive to being called a creeper.
In retrospect I see what you're saying about triggering ASD (didn't even cross my mind)
I started reading a lot of your articles lately after discovering you from RSD..
Your text game is ridiculous... (in a bad ass way)
Trying to see the matrix as you see it. gnarly.
You never want to throw a creeper tag back at a girl, or other "insults". Instead blow it up, take it to ridiculous extremes. That's how you handle shit tests like that. "Yeah girl I like to heat up a tv dinner and sit outside your bedroom window while I eat it." That kind of thing
Damn, you're too good at this.
I was at work when I read that and almost spit my water out... Too funny!