Cuddle bitch Or a fuck buddy
Mon, 12/17/2012 - 22:57
So here is this girl I met from social sircle. So we were texting and she said she is looking for a "cuddle buddy", I said she could come over one night for a movie, wine and cuddling with one rule, whoever falls in love first loses.
Now she is texting me first twice a day.
She is 20 and it seems like she have not had a lot of sexual partners, but she seems romanticaly invested when she writes me, offers a massage. She comes off as seeking validation from me.
I don't really like getting blue balls or hours long LMR and only want a fuck buddy out of her... Anyone had similar situations? Should I take my time to invite her over? For experience, or do you think I have a chance of fucking her based on the fact that she is chasing?
And what should I do to get good, should I take my time to meet girls who aren't easy (like going on 2-3 dates before sex) or should I just get more girls and keep the once I like (easier ones)?
Now she is texting me first twice a day.
She is 20 and it seems like she have not had a lot of sexual partners, but she seems romanticaly invested when she writes me, offers a massage. She comes off as seeking validation from me.
I don't really like getting blue balls or hours long LMR and only want a fuck buddy out of her... Anyone had similar situations? Should I take my time to invite her over? For experience, or do you think I have a chance of fucking her based on the fact that she is chasing?
And what should I do to get good, should I take my time to meet girls who aren't easy (like going on 2-3 dates before sex) or should I just get more girls and keep the once I like (easier ones)?
Mon, 12/17/2012 - 23:20
#1
Re: Cuddle bitch Or a fuck buddy
@Animal:
Yeah man, you got this. Have her to your place. When she comes over- give her a big ol' hug and a kiss on the cheek.
Grab that bottle of wine while you're chattin with her, pour both of yourselves a glass. Grab the bubbler and pack some weed and take a hit and then pass it to her and have her take a hit.
Grab a blanket and throw it at her and tell her to sit down. Bring over the wine and sit next to her. Throw on something funny and start talkin shit at the TV (I do this ALL the time- like I'll literally just yell at the tv and make fun of whoever is on it)
Yeah man, you got this. Have her to your place. When she comes over- give her a big ol' hug and a kiss on the cheek.
Grab that bottle of wine while you're chattin with her, pour both of yourselves a glass. Grab the bubbler and pack some weed and take a hit and then pass it to her and have her take a hit.
Grab a blanket and throw it at her and tell her to sit down. Bring over the wine and sit next to her. Throw on something funny and start talkin shit at the TV (I do this ALL the time- like I'll literally just yell at the tv and make fun of whoever is on it)
Tue, 12/18/2012 - 00:31
#2
Re: Cuddle bitch Or a fuck buddy
Kk I'll invite her over soon.
Tue, 12/18/2012 - 07:35
#3
Re: Cuddle bitch Or a fuck buddy
Don't get frustrated just run proper physical and sexual escalation. If she's stubbornly refusing you can call her out on it. But don't get mad, just stay cool.
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Wed, 12/19/2012 - 06:13
#4
Re: Cuddle bitch Or a fuck buddy
@Manwhore:
How about this one: "Yield to Overcome"
How about this one: "Yield to Overcome"
Thu, 12/27/2012 - 07:26
#5
Re: Cuddle bitch Or a fuck buddy
@Manwhore:
It actually really helped. When she pulled my hand off her pussy through jeans I just smiled, she asked is everything okay. I imitated her playfully "Is everything okay" like it was a dumb question, of course Im okay. She said my reaction was interesting, because most guys get mad when she refused something. And after this it was just baby cakes, came on her face (first facial, achievement unlocked) and another one inside her without a condom cuz she said she cant conceive.
Also when kissed her the first time she said she doesn't kiss on the first date, cuz she's not easy. I said "You dont have to be hard with me"
So yeah I have learned something! Thanks guys.
It actually really helped. When she pulled my hand off her pussy through jeans I just smiled, she asked is everything okay. I imitated her playfully "Is everything okay" like it was a dumb question, of course Im okay. She said my reaction was interesting, because most guys get mad when she refused something. And after this it was just baby cakes, came on her face (first facial, achievement unlocked) and another one inside her without a condom cuz she said she cant conceive.
Also when kissed her the first time she said she doesn't kiss on the first date, cuz she's not easy. I said "You dont have to be hard with me"
So yeah I have learned something! Thanks guys.
Thu, 12/27/2012 - 07:38
#6
Re: Cuddle bitch Or a fuck buddy
Like when I get this "I dont do this"/"Only after marriage" I can either make it 10 times worse by showing neediness or destroy it by showing some detachment I guess... Can't wait to check this stuff on other girl I went out with who refused to have sex.