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I think it was good overall and entertaining to read, too. But you had several little fuck ups, I'd say.
First of all there's too much texting in the first place for my taste. That used to be my biggest culprit and now I like to keep it short and sweet. I realize that this is not always possible. I think in this case the reason that escalation slowed down was this strange fuck up in the beginning that I not fully understand. Either there are texts missing or she got upset when you told her she sucked but that actually was a lil uncalibrated. You handled it alright but you got too pushy after that. Seemed pretty needy. I think this is the main reason it turned into a long chat but you were pretty playful and funny trough the rest of the convo.
You should've checked the schedule first and then went from there. That would've prevented that issue completely.
This time ask her for her schedule first. When you go for the meet up keep it playful and when possible multi thread so it doesn't put too much emphasis on the meetup.
I also like to maintain/introduce my frame at this point which is usually that I'm her boss daddy.
Example: Well if you want to make it in the haircutting buisness, I can show you how it's done when you here. My grandma has been known to have the dopest haircut around the block thanks to me.
Then ask her when she's free, set up a time and talk about some random shit.
You get the idea.
Good stuff, you came off as really fun and playful and she was into it
I think you gotta push to meet up again, I know she was making it difficult earlier, but push. If she flakes again, wait a few days. There is no reason why you shouldn't get the meet up eventually.
Thanks guys. I think just reading through some of these threads the gears are ticking again. Should have checked her schedule earlier on and
went from there!!
It doesn't look like this is going anywhere. She doesn't reengage, gives no indication of when she could be free, and doesn't seem to be invested at all. I also don't like that there are so many "haha"s from you.
I disagree, there is no reason why the meet up can't happen
gotta face it that most girls are boring over text, it is easy to tool with a guy without having to deal with their actual presence
you seem passive as shit in these texts.. too mans hahaha's, :p's, and ;)'s. Challege her. Dont be her gay little text buddy. Even when you asked for the meet it came off really weak like you wanted to keep the good emotions going...
Its whatever tho we all go through it. Challenge her, tell her to that you have to catch up on some things and that she should text you later, if she doenst then fuck her. Keep talking to girls while working on your dominance and assertiveness as a man and also work on making girls invest more.
Thanks guys that's some solid advice. I am a bit of a 'haha' guy I'll work on cutting them back and being more direct. Do you guys have any text examples you could pop up that demonstrate more assertiveness/dominance?!