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Okay so that girl I was talking about seeding the meet up.

Well ended up getting her out on the date. She looked good in her pictures, 

But in person, like hawt damn! 

Long slim legs, tight sexy waist and butt, little tits (i like um) and an absolutely amazing face. 

The type of girl that had I been sitting with her just a year ago, I would have been watering in my eyes, nervous as fuck, qualifying and sounding like a retard.

Anyways, I get to the bar, see her there and order us a couple drinks and move to the couch. During this time I joke around lightly and keep it relaxed.

Now for the next 2 hours or so, it was strong ass fucking conviction drill. Like at one point this girl tells me, "you're so freaking convincing it's scary," 

My eye contact, fucking powerful. She could barely handle it.

A few times she would look down towards my crotch, teased the fuck out of her, "woah, eyes up here, always about sex with you" 

I felt like I was on NZT, fucking conversational bad ass. Pulling out amazing topics and just crafting like competting positions and stances. 

I also knew that I needed to chill back. So for a while, I went into laconic mode. This resulted in her asking me questions. A clear sign of interest! 

I even did a lot of cold reading, told why she was a certain way. This girl is very sardonic, doesn't really compliment and so on.

She's also a psychology major. Funny enough, the Tolle stuff has given me an amazing ability to look and observe people from a birds eye view.

I go up to close the bill, tell her we're going to shoot pool at my place.

She says, we're going to your place.

I say, yes! 

She says, I'm not going to your place

I say, um okay. 

She's like yah, another time, I don't do that the first night.

I'm like okay.

She says, I'm going to go.

I say, hold up, let me do the bill and I'll walk out.

I pull her in close to me against the bar.

She comes right up to my, hands on my chest, very intmiate. 

I move close to her and kiss the side of her lips without hesitation . 

She moves in for it and we have a quick make out.

I say, bye and she leaves! 

FUCK! WOuld have been cool to make something happen that night.

I should have played it smoothy, walked out with her.

Offered her a ride and told her we're going to shoot some pool then I'll take her home right after. 

I had a lot of authority, I should have used that to my advantage. 

Anywas, I just texted her. 

me: Got home safe ;). Would have been fun to teach your butt some pool but it's alright, had fun anyways

me: Ps. Watch seven and american psycho like now (she asked me 5 of my favorite films, these were the two she hasn't seen) 

her: Ya next time! I had fun too. And yes they're on my list 

Now just have to get the second meet up without showing too much interest. I know this is the type of girl, where I need to be very aloof/standoffish. Soon as I show too much interest too soon, it's going to work against me. 

So I'll probably do light texting these next couple days and set up some pool and badminton next week. 

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It's pretty fucking crazy,

It's pretty fucking crazy, how present I"m able to become when I'm with chicks. 

Like there's no thinking going on whatsoever. Incredibly in the moment.

I have got this skill down to a tee. 

A year ago, I wouldn't go more than 15 second without thinking.

Now two hours will go by and literally was zoned in and present the entire time, dafuq 

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During the entire time she

During the entire time she was basically trying to figure me out and put me in a box lol. 

I was like that's crazy, adding labels is incredibly limiting. We have to attach words and meanings so we can understand something and feel comfortable with knowing.

But you can never know the true vastness of something or someone.

Then she's like well, surely you've put me in a box.

"Nope haha, I'm soaking you up, but as soon as I give you an idenitty or a label, I'm forcing you into a box which takes all the fun away.

I'd rather learn as I go than try to proejct some identity onto you.  

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Awesome. But remember the

Awesome. But remember the "moving" discussion? Sit at a bar with a girl for two hours, then go for the move home.. not going to happen. We are creatures of habit, you have to set the precedent. 

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Manwhore wrote: Awesome. But

Manwhore wrote:
Awesome. But remember the "moving" discussion? Sit at a bar with a girl for two hours, then go for the move home.. not going to happen. We are creatures of habit, you have to set the precedent. 

fuackkk! You're right. That was definitely where I screwed it up.

We basically had been chilling and talking for close to 2 hours and we had 2 drinks at that point. At this point I knew it was time to make something happen. I figured bringing her back would be best. But I probably should have led her around the bar, taken her outside to the patio, back inside. Made out with her in different spots. Even shot a game of pool and teased her hard.

Dammit Patrick. 

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Yeah. Really bad mistake. She

Yeah. Really bad mistake. She was probably your one true love but you'll never see her again now.

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Manwhore wrote: Yeah. Really

Manwhore wrote:
Yeah. Really bad mistake. She was probably your one true love but you'll never see her again now.

Ahhahaha

NOOOOOoooooo

My only shot at love :(

Idk. Maybe I see her, maybe I don't. We'll see! 

But if I see her, I'll be much more leading and authoratative  

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That said, You don't meet

That said,

You don't meet dudes like Bateman every fuckign weekend. At-least not dese 19 year old canadian college girls. 

Pretty sure her head is still spinning.

She's going to have to come back to papa or settle for second banana boys 

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Her summer cottage is also a

Her summer cottage is also a 5 min boat ride from me.

Obviously that doens't mean fuck all.

But if someting starts going on here, logistics are very favorable. 

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patrick.bateman wrote: Her

patrick.bateman wrote:
Her summer cottage is also a 5 min boat ride from me.

Lol.

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Yeah, right? Lol. I should

Yeah, right? Lol. I should have charged him more for the training. LOL!

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Manwhore wrote:Yeah, right?

Manwhore wrote:
Yeah, right? Lol. I should have charged him more for the training. LOL!

HAH! Well my parents don't throw money at me, they don't believe in that. Not that I need it, I make my own quand 

But I have full liberty to enjoy the summer house so I'll take it ;)

 

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K well if this doesn't go

K well if this doesn't go down I'm going to tinder her and take her to hemmingays