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This was after she flaked a few days ago.

I wrote today: 

"Tomorrow. Fancy, romantic date. I'm cooking Campbell's"

(responds an hour 20 later) 

She wrote, "hahaha dates will not work for me (hands up emoticon)" 

how to respond? 

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For my text game in

For my text game in general:

(my name)

"Did you say you were from ____ or ____ (her name?" 

"(answer) (emoticon), what about you?"

"(answer), we should totally fly to ___ and (fun activity" 

"lool I've never (fun activity" 

"Me neither but I'm sure it'd be fun. We can race them Mario kart style"

"Haha I want to visit (answer)" 

"Yes the (blah blah) are amazing. We should hang out... when are you free?" 

"Any day after Saturday (emoticon)"

"How would (time and day) work for you?" 

"Yeah (emoticon)"

"Ok looking forward to it. I'll see you (day) (emoticon)"

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FLAKED 

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"we still good for tomorrow?"

"Hey was about to text you, I don't think I can make it tomorrow" 

"No prob what other day works for you"

"I really don't know I'm busy with my sister now maybe I'll text you later" 

(2 days later)

Me: "Tomorrow. Fancy, romantic date. I'm cooking Campbells"

​"Hahaha dates will not work for me (emoticon)"

How do I respond to this?

Thinking of posting :

"I actually pegged you as a princess-type so I'm surprised. We'll call it a fun adventure then. Dog not included."

(note: she has a dog) 

 

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Dafuq dude. You already HAD a

Dafuq dude. You already HAD a response to that first one. Fucking send it what's your problem

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Manwhore wrote:Dafuq dude.

Manwhore wrote:
Dafuq dude. You already HAD a response to that first one. Fucking send it what's your problem

I've miscalibrated before and gone for the date before and didn't get a response. 

Like yesterday, I sent that "Campbell's" line to a different girl, got a response saying she was busy, then asked about Thursday/Friday meet up and didn't get a response. Texted today and still didn't either.

I'll go for the day 2 .

Just Wrote: "I actually pegged you as a princess-type so I'm surprised. We'll call it a fun adventure then. Dog not included. How's (time and place)?"

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AppleBox wrote: Manwhore

AppleBox wrote:
Manwhore wrote:
Dafuq dude. You already HAD a response to that first one. Fucking send it what's your problem

I've miscalibrated before and gone for the date before and didn't get a response. 

Like yesterday, I sent that "Campbell's" line to a different girl, got a response saying she was busy, then asked about Thursday/Friday meet up and didn't get a response. Texted today and still didn't either.

I'll go for the day 2 .

Just Wrote: "I actually pegged you as a princess-type so I'm surprised. We'll call it a fun adventure then. Dog not included. How's (time and place)?"

You already listed your fucking response... http://manwhore.org/forum/content/how-approach-texting-girl-based-interaction#comment-94257

You forgot the reply already??

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Fuck!! Didn't realize you

Fuck!! Didn't realize you meant THAT reply in that thread. I thought you were responding to my post above saying I already "had a good response" and was over thinking it. I'm an idiot. 

This is a different girl from the previous thread. 

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*facepalm* So why don't you

*facepalm* So why don't you send the same fucking response. Dude I'm going to stop reading your shit, it's idiotic. 

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Manwhore wrote:*facepalm* So

Manwhore wrote:
*facepalm* So why don't you send the same fucking response. Dude I'm going to stop reading your shit, it's idiotic. 

I wasn't thinking. That's the best I can say. I thought based on what she texted back I might need a different response which is why I made a new thread.

I apologize for my idiocy. Clearly no matter what the response was, I should have posted, "Oh I wasn't inviting you"

Instead I probably ruined the interaction. Hope you will reconsider. 

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She wrote at like 4am this

She wrote at like 4am this morning, 

'"Hey sorry I can't tomorrow"

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Would it be worth it to push to see if she's free Friday/Saturday? (Have plans Sunday) or just wait a few more days again? 





A text like: Wow you are a real early bird. (emoticon) You have anything lined up this weekend?" (note: shes saudi arabian). 

or just texting, "

""Whoa you are quite the early bird (emoticon)" " 

or

"'But actually you are a vampire (emoticon) How about this weekend?"  

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Just mind yon't get too

Just mind yon't get too invested :) Why should you. Have you any other girls you're in touch with? Maybe text this one here and there, but try and get some other options if you don't have any - ones that don't mess you around so much as this one seems to be.

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rustling wrote: Just mind

rustling wrote:
Just mind yon't get too invested :) Why should you. Have you any other girls you're in touch with? Maybe text this one here and there, but try and get some other options if you don't have any - ones that don't mess you around so much as this one seems to be.

I've seen a different girl twice, and have a girl set up for Sunday (provided she doesn't flake)

but I do want see about this one.

Not sure if it's too desperate asking if she's free Friday/Saturday 

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Ah I get it, she's a

Ah I get it, she's a particularly nice one... I hope your weekend goes well

You ask her too much stuff though, that would be my 2 cents. But I'm still learning and not in an esteeemd place to judge. I tend to think of stuff I wanna do and get them to tag along

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rustling wrote: Ah I get it,

rustling wrote:
Ah I get it, she's a particularly nice one... I hope your weekend goes well

You ask her too much stuff though, that would be my 2 cents. But I'm still learning and not in an esteeemd place to judge. I tend to think of stuff I wanna do and get them to tag along

Yup, thanks.

 

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CONTINUED CONVO AND SHE

CONTINUED CONVO AND SHE STOPPED RESPONDING AGAIN:



Me: "Omg you're a Vampire. That (religious) life must be intense (emoticon"

Her: "Lool yes I am (2 emoticons"

Me: "Do you (religious) all the time? I saw someone on (TV) who was (religion)?"

Her: "Yes not all the tiem from sunrise to sunset 

Her: Which season of (TV show?" 2 texts in a row from her



Me: "Whooa that's super deep. (answer to TV show.) Do you watch it? It's my guilty pleasure"

Her: "ooh yeah I knew him he's from (blank) I think Yep I do (emoticon))"

Me: Dope! He's the man. (TV shows) are super addicting for me. You watching this season?" 





NO RESPONSE. Wtf.  Did I carry it on too long? 

Would appreciate analysis from Manwhore and others. 

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Just my two cents, and It's a

Just my two cents, and It's a bit hard to critique based on your short interaction .. but did you notice you asked 3 questions in a row? 

Mix it up next time, also your texts are too energetic. She's a lot more chilled out then you, and I can sense there is an obvious difference...try chilling out, writing shorter responses..get her to invest instead of  "Omg" "Whoaa", "Dope!"... etc

get my drift? ;) 

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CyberShot wrote:Just my two

CyberShot wrote:
Just my two cents, and It's a bit hard to critique based on your short interaction .. but did you notice you asked 3 questions in a row? 

Mix it up next time, also your texts are too energetic. She's a lot more chilled out then you, and I can sense there is an obvious difference...try chilling out, writing shorter responses..get her to invest instead of  "Omg" "Whoaa", "Dope!"... etc

get my drift? ;) 

Yeah. 

She wrote: "Not yet it is nice?"

I wrote: "More like chaotic and entertaining. Nice would be Spongebob. 

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She wrote: 27 min later:

She wrote:

27 min later: "Loool ok"

I wrote 55 minutes later: "You have plans this weekend? I'm (location)" 

No response for over 12 hours

Too much again? 

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i could be wrong but it seems

i could be wrong but it seems like you're trying too hard for rapport, staying on the same (boring) topic for too long. i would probably try inviting her out in a little less obvious fashion. get some roleplay going, and invite her out within some crazy story content. that worked for me in the past, and seemed useful for reinitation two days before the meetup to make sure she'll come. i used that "im divorcing you, and you'll take the kids" type of shit. but you need a reason for that text, sending it out of blue would be weird.

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Got this text after I sent a

Got this text after I sent a message saying, "i understand if u don't wanna talk. fun meeting u. gl finding a guy."

"Lool sorry for not replying back for your 1st message I think I read it while I was sleeping. I have a boyfriend so I already have a guy, thanks for the wish though"

Is there a way to respond to this?

She's been texting me 15x times already, we had a planned date, she flaked, then I asked her out twice more and she didn't write. This is the FIRST time she's mentioning she has a BF. 

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Might even watch to send a text asking for a time to call her:... is there a canned witty text that could get that accomplished too?