Day 2 no close think I know what I did wrong

Yeah man the more you talk, the more you can fuck it up sometimes. 

You need to learn how to control the frame by controlling your state. By state I mean feelings.

If you talk a to girl, she feels what you feel. So if you’re feeling sexual, yet talk to her normally, she will find herself attracted to you because you’re just in a sexual state. If you say normal shit and are loose and carefree, then you can pretty much just set the tone of the interaction as sexual and not relationship. 

Here are are some keys:

1. Eye contact. Pretend you are fucking her the whole time as you speak to her. Hold that state inside of you and be kind of loose like you’re in bed letting go of yourself.

2. Lead the conversation. Make the topics simple, light hearted and make your eyes sparkle and your smile shine bright as you speak. Don’t be serious but don’t be a clown.

3. Physically touch as soon as possible. Hold her hands while talking to her and then let them go. Hold her by her waist. Take her hand and lead her. Do these things with authority and dont them not as tactics but as ways of expressing your masculinity in the presence of her femininity.

4. Be outcome detached the entire time. Act as if you can take it or leave it, yet you still like her. 

5. You should be making her want to kiss you the whole time. This happens by transmitting that sexual state I’m talking about. You gotta feel it and you gotta kind of look in her eyes and cover your own lips with the energy. Just look at her eyes while being totally mindful of your lips as you speak. They will become very magnetic to her. Once she looks at them, close in and just brush your lips against hers and say something in a low voice.  Don’t even kiss her yet. Back off and keep talking but think of her pussy getting wet. Feel it in your mind. Feel it in your hand. Totally abandon yourself to your imagination. Let the feelings you get bleed freely into your sub communications. She will follow suit. Practice this as much as you can. This is how you get girls to not resist. Desperation is not allowed. Only desire. Intense desire. A man who has such intense desire that’s showing, but is controlling it (just barely though) drives women up the wall. You showing your sexuality but not letting it cross over into desperation has the interesting effect of making your sexual state stronger and stronger and stronger. Let the energy out but not through anxiety or by trying to claw at her desperately. No. You let your body and voice and eyes express it. 

ALSO: VERY important. Assume you’re gonna fuck her from step 0. So what if dont. Just assume you will. 

Im not a master at any of this mind you, but I’m getting very good and it’s a totally different paradigm. Combined with what Manwhore teaches you, you will be one of the best on here. 

Edit

Also I almost forgot man, when girls ask you serious relationship style questions, you have to 

let it be known that you’re a “lover” and not a provider. The fact she even asked you this to begin with tells me you started the date as a “provider” so really what you gotta do is have that vibe I talk about in my first reply to you FROM THE START. It gives you an air of “danger” that the boyfriend types don’t give off.

Failing that, if she starts with the relationship style questions, answer them with a smile and and projecting funny feelings at her while getting closer to her. Look her in the eye and smirk. Totally dismiss her frame and act as if you’re the lover NOT the provider. That means don’t be serious.

Superb you're not on this guy's level. You're throwing him kindergarten shit 

Thanks for posting man, couple thoughts that stuck out to me: 

-I had a string of pulls where i could not close, all of which were related to the same lack of dominance each time. From what you posted it kind of seems like you are still in the mindset of “things cant get physical or i cant be dominant until i have her back home”. That is something that i am still working on myself, but its key that you break that. You wont come off as congruent and you could come off as sleazy 

-That last part about you just going and whipping it out... it seems like how you described it you used that as a last ditch effort or a kick save when you knew things were not going well and actually the vibe started cooling. I dont have nearly enough of a sample size to say this confidently one way or another, but i dont think trying it in that context is going to lend you much results. It shoudnt come from a shameful place of “well, Ive tried everything else, i hope this might work”... it should be a cresehendo when you hear trumpets sounding in the background when it goes down 

He should have been sexual and more physical from the start. You wouldn’t agree that mistakes are often made at the “kindergarten” level? 

Superb you're right in that we should be doing those things you listed. Eye contact , escelation assume the lay. The basics. But I feel what was going on here was a little deeper then that.

I thought I had this one in the bag to be honest and was surprised when at the end I couldn't get past her lmr. Ive done a lot less in terms of escelation and frame and leading and still have closed most girls.

It was like she had sex blocked out in her mind and that she was not going to let herself go there. It wasn't until I completely let go and started to act in my own intent that she started to get turned on to the point where sex might happen. But even then she wasn't acting with her intent. She still had the social conditioning filter of can't have sex on the first date.

Problem was I didn't pick up on this til it was too late.

Well, you have two more dates to decide if you want to keep her around. 

Its your escalation here man. I feel like you’re doing somethig scripted here as it worked for you in the past before i.e. kiss, then tits, then back to kissing then grind then back to kissing.

You’re not getting bottlenecked at the kiss are you? I’ve had girls kiss my cock before I kissed their lips.

It starts in the beginning, not when you get her home. Slick nailed it with this. Its all a part of the pie. Each slice is identical to the other and has the same necessary ingredients, there are just multiple pieces to it that you have to chow down on. 

Also the dick move was fucking funny lmao! But no buueno. “Well that didn’t work, might as well shove it in her face” LOL

You didn’t fuck her on the first date no problem. If at firsr you don’t succeed try try again

^ That's it.

Lazy physical escalation. Lazy lazy lazy. Always your problem. Read thru your phys esc training. You sound like an rsd punk. Also yes you've got to keep her from solidifying this relationship nonsense in her head. You assumed it was on and got lazy again. Sounds like she complimented you and you just started basking in your own glow and got distracted monkey.

Lazy physical escalation. Lazy lazy lazy. Always your problem. Read thru your phys esc training. You sound like an rsd punk. Also yes you've got to keep her from solidifying this relationship nonsense in her head. You assumed it was on and got lazy again. Sounds like she complimented you and you just started basking in your own glow and got distracted monkey.

Yup like I said honestly was shocked I didn't close n got that lmr. I just that it was a done deal. Slipped up here. But lesson learned.

Funny enough Aequitas had the same issue this week. Tell'em, homey 

Yep. Echoing Slick n Jihad mangs it's your escalation here. 

Unless I'm missing something, sounds like you didn't escalate much until the end. You shouldn't be barely escalating on a girl when you've pulled her lol. Where's the touch/physical escalation throughout leading up to the pull? Yin n yang? Two forms of escalation on this girl? Of course all of this enveloped in a playful fun assuming vibe that has a nice mix of push/pull verbals to round it out. How you begin this dictates how it ends. Be ruthless in your escalation, but mindful of where she's at the whole time. [ What you didn't do when you just took your dick out ] You cannot expect a girl to surrender to you when you haven't handled things properly earlier on. Give her a fucking experience she won't forget dude, you have the tools. Essentially, because the physical escalation was not on point, she never got on your track and thus the logical mind kicked in. 

Whipping it out has its place, but like ppl said -- it was a last ditch lazy effort. I don't think it came from the right place. It should be prized escalation / high value escalation, this is clearly not that. 

My physical escalation has been no bueno as of late so I'm writing this out just as much for myself. 

How do you offset that relationship frame? 

Oh FUCK. That's what you meant by saying she ran game on me. Why the FUCK did I not connect the dots there -- and there are way more insidious versions that this comes up in that I'm thinking of now. No fucking shit you were on my ass. But you don't answer these questions seriously aka use deliberate illogicality. 

So in OP's case, the vibe would be very cheeky, almost arrogant with a smirk. I'd probably just start fucking with her with some of these like telling her I believe in Scientology and how Tom Cruise and I got high as fuck at the club while baptizing chicks with Scientology holy water (read: Dom Perignon) lol. You can be low key too - that is so over the top lol, but the point is that you're deliberately illogical. 

Must have gotten every girl's number in the club
Response: Not to mention their SSN. You'd think ppl would hold that a little closer to their chest lol. This is how identity fraud occurs haha

Anyway -- blah blah blah blah. 

Me at the club the other day

G: Are you muslim?

M: Ya i support the ku klux klan

G: What

M: What

Me at the club the other day

G: Are you muslim?

M: Ya i support the ku klux klan

G: What

M: What

^ lulz

Relationship Status: DENIED 

Embarrassing them publicly works too. :D