Daypull

You're being incongruent in your texts, youre a baller in real life, confidently macking on the girls than you become validation seeking in your texts, simplify. Romantic date? Nervously twiddles thumbs? You finally look good enough for her? She should be looking sexy for YOU. Bro you're a baller don't even joke about that shit.,simplify, remember you're the man, its THEIR opportunity to be with you, nothing cutesy in texts, just figure out logistics, slyly and subtly suggest sexual intent but that's not even necessary , if you're hanging out w them.1 on 1 sex is always implied, especially if you've already kissed them.

"Come over and help me study for my test, bring wine for frequent breaks"

That's all that's necessary, if she denys then she wants to do something else, nothing personal that's all
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Adam

@Alex123:


Good point ahash31. That line works for Jeffy because jeffy is an asshole so when he does it is cute and actually playful because they know damn well he does not think it. When you say that they're like YUCK.

Fuck yes Alex123! lol Me and Buddah joked that you probably killed yourself after just vanishing after chilling with us in NYC for a night. This is good good stuff. Thats wassup. fuckin happy for you.

Good on the pull but WTF you shouldn't have sent that girl your HW - she doesnt deserve that shit because shes hot. You got to internalize that principle. It's personally taken me awhile to internalize it myself. After seeing you game, I can definitely let you know why she might be a bit flaky to meet up with you. NO NEGATIVE EMOTIONS FROM YOU.

It's like when we were talking to that Asian girl by the fountain the night you were in NYC. Yea I was out of state at the time but I kept on insulting her for a reason. Girls respond to a full range of emotions. positive and negative. While she talked to you to receive positive validation, if she had someone to choose to bang it would have been me over you ONLY because i gave her both positive and negative. You get what i'm saying. By just being all friendly, you were predictable like the husband who only does missionary sex w/his wife at the same time every time after watching the local news with his wife or something...

So yea worst case scenario you feel bad for her - if she wants the HW YOU DID have her COME OVER for it. Fuck that bitch. You are the prize. You are the chooser. You have the power to talk to any other girl because you are Alex123. It's a difficult concept to wrap your head around but you'll come to see - be a calibrated asshole!!!

P.S. I have painfully learned from many many failures not to send 4 texts in a row. Can't reward her for being a flaky dickhead. Send her a voicemail and start again. Good stuff though - you're making wicked progress!

5 girls numbers after the gym and then pulled a girl back to her room?! Ha! Sweet

@Alex123:

yh man, if you're gonna voluntarily GIVE something to a girl she better goddamn work for it - nobody deserves handouts, she won't respect you cuz of it.

It's funnier when she begs as well, you should've sent her fake HW in a word document with four words on it, "you. are. a. faggot"

but like other guise have said - be congruent, explore giving negative emotions, being cute is gay.

Hmm idk idk the "you are a faggot" could work ONLY if he was saying similar things in the initial meetup which I doubt. Thats a toughie to recover from via text/online/e-mail.

But try it if you like - that's the only way to improve your calibration. Also Alex123 is in college so it wouldn't be too smart to get THAT edgy as a rule of thumb. Unless he was all about being the guy that everyone loves to hate which can be fun but comes with it's definite consequences.

Anyways we should all Just fuckin push the envelope. if it doesnt work move on to the next ho. Keep doing your thing Alex and be a bigger asshole!

Just remember:

http://youtu.be/AI0gk2KJeho

Shes got a midterm man. Chill. Thats way more important than some random dude. Props on kicking it with her.

@Aequitas:

Thanks guys. I feel what you guys are saying about the incongruency of the jeffy texts.

And yeah years of social conditioning still make me feel "good" when i do nice things for girls,

but the problem is they dont appreciate it. I need to make them invest before i do things for them. Good stuff

im reading this book right now called "pimp" by iceburg slim. the amount of investment he makes them give him is like a mindfuck, and they love him for it. he totally owns them and thats how they like it

@Alex123:
Ya that's a very shocking book but an essential read.

@Manwhore:

Funny.

I think, for where I'm at... reading a book like, "Pimp" should be higher priority than reading a book like, "6 pillars of self esteem"

100%

@Manwhore:

Ok im gona leave her a voicemail.

Manwhore any advice on what to say? I feel like i gota say some slick shit or else this ones lost.

Cant/dont want to do anything high enrgy it wouldnt be congruent

Yes you do want to bring a little bit of playful exuberance, but make sure it has nothing to do with her. Do your drills, do a bunch, get yourself in a better headspace, do some shit talking.. then call and leave a voicemail. Don't ask for shit, don't ask her to call you back, just end it with something like "later babe."

@Manwhore:

Sent her some weak shit lol. My friend recommended before i saw your post

me: There's this really cute girl named Ali I was supposed to meet up with...but I think she got kidnapped. Thinking about sending a search party
*couple hrs
her: I didnt. Dont worry

Lmao please set me straight whats my next move for taking the reigns back in/getting her out. I got icecream /starbucks/sushi places close by my apartment

@Alex123: jeez that was cold on her part.

She's punishing you for being so approval-seeking in your last texts. Just the way they are. They're great at punishing are shit at giving you a clue how to do it right.

Mang, same issue over and over again. You came off like a boy wanting breast milk. Pimping is a lifestyle. You need to live it and breathe it for a bit. Become hard and cold, at least for a little while.

Tell me about how you hooked up with your coworker the other night. How did that go down.

@Manwhore:

Haha I know what shes doing. And I know I came off that way. I have a long road to becoming an icy pimp, im just taking stuff i know has worked for others and inserting it without enough reference experience to know exactly how it will come off in the given context. Im sure those Braddock/Jeffy lines would work in different scenarios, but yeah i gota come up with my own style which ive been working on. Was just trying to make my life a little easier by using whats been proven to work well for others

What i need is a smooth segway of my expected compliance in person into the second meetup.

I need to display the same not caring, assuming my own value qualities that i have in person

Im not good at doing this when asking for soemthing over text (i.e.) meetup. For instance there was a girl who's # i got while serving the other day who was gaga over me. They gave me a $20 tip on $35 order. I took her # but still havent met up with her because i feel my text/phone game is flawed

her convo:

(i sent from her phone) her: Omg ur so cute :-)
me: Oh please we just met ;)
1am her: Haha way to go on complimenting yourself on my phone then complimenting again on youre phone haha. To give you "kudos" you were cute and sorry my friend was over into talking about her work haha
next day
me: Lets grab drinks later
-no response
*call her leave voicemail
her: Hey sorry I just got off work. I had plans with my friends but we may go to the bars. Ill let you know in a bit
2 hrs later me: Sup punk
-no response

@Alex123:

But are you available for a session this week I could really use one.
Bout to hit up another gym/game session. praying to the pimp gods

@Alex123:

experiment with polarizing more

send her "shut up faggot" as a response.

I did this with one chick and she's hooked for life (haven't fucked her yet, she's on holiday). I did this to another, she got pissed, called her 3 weeks later and all is well. Like MW said, be the belligerent asshole for around 2 weeks, then come back with your findings.

@Gogo:

shut up faggot seems a little harsh, how about "Nobody likes you" or "Your such a fag"

if those arent mean enough let me know

@Alex123:
That girl you just mentioned, she was chasing you, then you started chasing her. Don't do that. Read my last text convo I posted how I went about handling it. Cake

This is pretty uber-frustrating I can't just call up on my own threads on this forum.

@Manwhore:

Could you post a link i dont see it

@Alex123:
I think it's this one.

http://manwhore.org/forum/content/new-text-convo-girl-i-banged-she-had-b...