Dealing with tinder girls when they flake
So I got this one girls number off tinder, she happens to live an hour from me, same town as my cousin. I told her that I'd come down for thursday night and we'd do drinks at my cousins. She said okay. Then that day, she went MIA. Didn't text be back until 2am that night. I didn't hear from her all day so I obviously didn't go down.
her: I'm on rez lol
me: Hahaha oh are you actually
her: Yeppp I am
me: You in a single or have a roomatte
her: I have a single! I just share a bathroom with somone
me: That's pretty good! Well I'll probably come down around 8:30 tomorrow but we can pre at my cousins if Rez isn't legit
her: Ooh ok that's good! ANd yeah Rez probably wouldn't really be good to pre drink at aha
next day
me: Haha I didn't think so lol! What rez are you (no answer)
me: It's fine, I don't like your haircut anyway (7:21pm)
her: Did you come tn?(1:46am)
her: And nooo I didn't get a haircut!!!!!!!!
me: Bye Mackenzie
her: Did you come last night
me: You went off the map yesterday and I have neither the time nor inclination to deal with your games. Bye
her: Sorry
her: Were you even here last night??
me: Nope
her: Oh you didn't even come?
me: What are you talkking about
her: You didn't even come to Brock last ngiht?
me: Did you expect me to come? I didn't hear from you...
her: Idk I thought you were going to your cousins!
me: But I was really coming so I could see you. It's fine though, take care Mackenzie
her: Oh ok so you just don't ever wanna talk to me again then?
me: Nope sorry
her: Alright bye
Weirdly, after all this she started following me on IG so I hit her up
me: Look, I'm just not looking for a pen pal. If you're not down to hangout then let's not waste eachothers time
her: I know I understand that. I do would wanna hangout but it doesn't really seem like you do anymoer so idk but I aplogize about yesterday
me: That's not true
her: What's not true
me: I want to see you, but i'm not going to invest the time if you're uncertain
her: Okay that's fine! I wouldn't wanna waste your time
me: That's not true
her: Okay if you say so
me: I basically gave you a chance to say if you're serious about hanging out or not. But it's fine, I get the message
her: I told you I would wanna hangout!
me: Are you sure
her: Yeaah I am
me: Okay
her: Okaay :)
I like the stuff in the beginning how you just said goodbye you really nailed it. But then you lost track of the momentum and it ended up EXACTLY where it started you didn't do anything with it. She's just going to flake again.
Read this dude:
http://manwhore.org/forum/content/flipping-script-negativity-and-baiting...
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Okay very good to know!
So how would you have played it after saying - Bye.
And yeah, I get the feel that the same thing is probably going to happen.
Like should I have said
- You fucked up your chances with hanging out with me. We made plans and it would have been okay if you told me that you weren't up for it, but instead you went MIA. That's stupid behaviour and you should be better than that Mackenzie.
Read the article dude.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
For fucksake what is the NAME of the gawdamn article, Archdip.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Got it dude!
me: But you owe it to me big if we hangout now. You'll have to give me a 20 minute back rub to start
her: Ugh wow! Ok fine I guessss
her: But if that's just to start what would I have to do next???
me: After the back rub, well it depends.. If you do a good job then maybe I'll turn over ;)
her: Well I think I could do a pretty good job! But I guess you would have to be the judge of that ;)
her: So what do I do when you turn over then?
me: Then you slowly work your hands down from my chest and into my pants
me: And you can suck my cock and make it up to me with your mouth ;)
her: Hmm oh ok well I think that could be a possibility ;) so you would like that? And it would make it up to you?
me: Haha ;) well it wouldn't hurt! What are you doiing?
Realized I should have probably given her a little bit more validation in my last message. But everything else is on like donkey kong
Holy fucking shit. You did it
Ok yeah you were a bit too "nice" you kinda want to ride the tension to the meetup not release it like you did.
You can still recover.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Tell her to send you the sexiest picture in her phone.
And that archdip post wasn't to you.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
me: Send me the sexiest picture in your phone
her: Why would you want that??
her: I don't have sexy pictures in my phone (tongue out smiley) (this was sent 20 minutes later)
How woudl you play this. Would this be too strong
me: Yeah right.... That's crazy!!! If you're going to start making it up to me - then this is the first order of business. Now get that fine ASS of yours to work ;)
I'd just be like, "Hmm seems this isn't working out"
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Yah thats a lot better good thinking
Just remember the follow-up here will be important. You're pushing her away and of course you don't want to push her all the way away, but I suspect you have quite a lot of room to play with lol.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Holy fucking shit. You did it Ok yeah you were a bit too "nice" you kinda want to ride the tension to the meetup not release it like you did. You can still recover.
lmfao yeah he had me on the edge of my seat until right after "Then you slowly work your hands down from my chest"