Dealing With Trash Talkers
I've been on the search for an answer on a particular topic, but I always get ambiguous responses. How do you deal with people who trash talk you in person? Sometimes I like to banter back and forth for fun, but sometimes there are times when people will insult you in a way that has a lot of emotional force behind it and they masquerade it as a joke or you're left wondering if it actually was a joke. I don't mean just when you're gaming women, but even just when you're hanging out with friends, family members, co-workers, stranger, etc.
How do you deal with this?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I handle it before it even has a chance to start.
I am so obnoxiously in my own movie that it causes 2 things to happen:
1. People WANT to be around me- this means that because I'm literally so engrossed with my own shit that other peoople are like, "Oh shit that dudes havin fun" or "That dude is crazy... but I like it"
So that's one main thing- I just don't get amogged that much.... Like thinking about it- I VERY RARELY have to deal with another dude even trying to get into my set, unless I'm in a different part of the room and then I just come over and am loud and use my body to box him out and then physically take the girl and relocate her and then laugh and smile and use "positive dominance" to destroy the dude before he even gets going
BUT
There are times when people DO talk shit and when this happens I will do a couple things.
1. Laugh and then address the rest of the group and just ignore the dude who said something and add way more value than he was and then like 5 minutes later, I'll add in a jab to him that's disguised as a joke and basically flip the script entirely and it isn't reactive because it's delayed
2. Act really confused- this actually started off as something that I did naturally and then I realized it worked really well. Basically, I used to just not understand it when someone would make fun of me, so I'd be like, "Wait, what do you mean?" and then they have to explain themselves and sound retarded. And then I would purposely misinterpret what they said as something positive.
3. Get pissed off and punch them in the face.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
How about when you're dealing with women who are just always negative all the time? or maybe not even all the time, but just momentarily?
Sometimes I can't even tell if they're shit testing me or they're just straight up being a shitty human being.
There has been times where girls were just straight up insulting and I'd be like "What a cunt. Talk to me when you have something nice to say"
Last time I told a girl that, she was like "You're such a pussy" LOL
Anyway, can anyone address these distinctions?