Decreasing Flakes to 0! Ancient Secret Text Style REVEALED
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In MW's txt manual there are multiple 'styles' of txting. Each ones have their own merit and you as an individual will gravitate towards one more so than to another. My preferred style, which is also the one I 'naturally gravitate' towards, and what this post is going to be about is called "Silly & Sincere"
I'll be honest, before really hopping on board w/ MW's shit I 'naturally' did this style but had varying success with it. That's because it was totally random, not calibrated, and just supa wacky. After I read the "Silly & Sincere" chapter, something clicked in my subconscious. I was able to piece together my natural txt game and mold it into something more powerful and actually effective. REALLY FUCKING EFFECTIVE.
I've never gotten flaked on in the past 8+mo. of learning it....and I use online dating a lot (More on that later).
Before we get into some examples and content of "Silly & Sincere", I want to touch on your own natural txt game. Everyone has it. Your whole life you've developed a way to communicate that is unique to you. The beauty in the txt manual is that whatever natural style you have, it awakens that and creates a badass nuke.
And I of course don't use 1 text style exclusively, that would be ridiculous. I mix and match. The idea behind this post is one specific style that MUST be sprinkled into your txt game because this style reduces flakes and sets a nice precedent for your dates.
Ok so the style I've been alluding to is "Silly & Sincere". What is it? And why is it so gawddamnn powerful?
The premise behind this style is nonjudgmental fun and congruence. Now lemme rock your worlds, what gets girls to put out?
It's not your money, physique, or push-pull stuff...
Its 2 things:
1) When a girl feels non judged and can be emotionally free
AND
2) When she trusts your intentions
Now one last question, why do girls flake? Mhmmm, yup, uhhuh, ya.
# 1 & 2 – They aren’t emotionally stimulated enough through your bland txting, don’t trust you enough to meet up with you, and all that ties into feeling judged for even being with you. YIKES!
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OH SHIT. Did ya figure it out?? Silly & Sincere texting, conveys EXACTLY that. It’s the missing piece.
When your texts are fun, engaging, and all-over the place (within reason), girls feel free. They're enjoying all the emotions that come with it. Most guys can do this, it's a no brainer. It's not hard to make a girl laugh, then tease her and make her cry, and then make her happy again.
But what most guys can't do is the second part, sincerity AKA congruence.
Sincerity/Congruence is you putting your personality on the line for her to do what she will with it. It's the epitome of ego misidentification. When a girl sees this, she can TRUST you. You're not just some gamey dude who can push a couple buttons and get her pants off. You're the real deal. You're not just gonna add her to your lay count or build some identity of being a player out of her, you're gonna be that whole package for her.
That's the reason for so many LMRs or girls saying "I'm not that type of girl". They either 1) Don't have a high-enough buying temp AKA aren't emotionally aroused enough and therefore will feel judged or 2) They don't trust you cause you conveyed that you were too much of a player, or hiding behind this layer of game etc. etc.
The Silly & Sincere style of texting sets a precedent BEFORE you even meet-up that you are a nonjudgmental dude who’s full of fun and is ok with his sexuality. Moreover, you're not gonna chew her up and spit her out. THAT DECREASES FLAKES TO NIL BBY
Ex:
Me: This is your bomb ass partner in crime
Me: What're ya up too cause hunney i'm home
Her: Just got off work. And am exhausted. So i'm taking a nap
Me: Night sleepyhead txt me when ur up and don't dream about me 2much
*After she wakes up
Her: Omg your too much
Me: Lol when are you free this week let's grab froyo since you're super health conscious: P
Her: Haha okay i can wednesday
Me: Sweet i'll grab you around 2pm wed. jaebear
Her: Okie
^When she showed up to my door she was so ecstatic and giggly to see me but was reserved in expressing it because she wanted to see how I would react. Needless to say, I set the precedent and it was smooth sailing from there ;)
That’s all I got folks! If you want to know more, comment and def ask MW for info about this stuff cause believe me, I'm holding back on a lot of juicy stuff. It's geewwddd.
Awesome post.
When do you start transitioning into this style ? Was this a reengament text to solidify prior plans, or the first time inviting her out?
This is defintely softer and more mascuine flamboyant than the other convos you've posted when your opening on tinder etc. I believe this is exactly where I went wrong recently with one girl that appeared to be afraid/ashamed to meet up.
Awesome post.When do you start transitioning into this style ? Was this a reengament text to solidify prior plans, or the first time inviting her out?
This is defintely softer and more mascuine flamboyant than the other convos you've posted when your opening on tinder etc. I believe this is exactly where I went wrong recently with one girl that appeared to be afraid/ashamed to meet up.
Masculine flamboyant is a sweet way to put it actually. Hmm, gonna use that one more often. Would you believe that this is actually my naturaly style of texting? LOL. Most of my convos follow this style.
It's more of a vibe you feel out not a set point to move too. Does that make sense? The past two threads I posted I was dropping real high value game. The vibe was different because the girls were already very invested and interested. The example in this thread is the end of the convo with the girl. I pulled her # off of fb (its like a cold call in sales, whereas tinder would be a warm call), took it straight to txt and got her to meet up. LIke i said, never had a flake ;) This was a first time thing.
Silly & Sincere works well when girls aren't giving you much. You basically open up in order to open her up.
Meow if you ever read the Playboy model text convo and/or some of the other convos I've posted you'll see this style in-depth. Actually I've seen you write in this style extremely well.. a couple years ago. Lol