Developing a strong sense of entitlement
Lately I've had the pleasure of being able to get far more attractive chicks (in terms of appearance and character. Hell, they've even been taller than me, which I prefer, even though girls usually prefer guys taller than them) on dates - AND they've been ready to fuck me. I know cuz I've had pretty solid compliance. Well, the pleasure stops there. The thing is, at the moment of draggin her home, I've turned into a dickless faggot and not made the move while they run off into the horizon, never to be seen again. *Facepalm*. FFS, I thought I had this handled already.
There's this demon lurking somewhere in my mind that only comes out in this kinda situations. How do I exorcise this bitch for good and develop a solid, strong sense of entitlement? Any exercises or NLP shit you guys are sitting on, share that shit with me, please. I've got some more really attractive women lined up that I don't wanna miss dippin it in.
Gimme yer best constructive feedback so I can get rid of this shit for good. It's about Gawd damn time I get it handled. It's my biggest weakness I believe.
I've got this problem aswell although i've improved over the last couple of months, i used to be really bad! Basicly used to doubt in my abilities and smoothness but now it's like i don't take girls so seriously anymore and i'll just say "let's go to my place" or something. Sometimes it works. My problem is when i get tested then i don't have the skills to overcome it.
This just happens with tall chicks?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
It happens more with them, or the ones that I really, really like. It's fucking frustrating. I just came from a date with this tall, hot chick with an awesome personality - probly the hottest one so far. She was giving me lotsa physical compliance, touching me, asking me boat load of questions 'n shit. I'm pretty damn sure I'd be posting in the other balls deep thread about nut sack pain again if I'd JUST pulled the trigger. Gawd...This must stop. /Rant
Dude you're not making anything clear tho. And no it's not "entitlement" that's about 5 layers up. Everyone's always talking about entitlement.. it's just a term dating companies can use to market products to you. DURR
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Ok, let's see if I can be a bit more clear then. Whenever I'm on a date with a girl I really, really wanna bang/like and my gut feeling tells me it's time to pull the trigger and escalate (going home to fuck, the last two times, for example) I experience some kinda lethargia in my mind which stops/delays my escalation greatly. Logically I KNOW what to do, but that impulse from my gut gets overridden by something else. This also happens sometimes infield when I see a super hawt chick and approach her...and she makes some lame ass excuse to brush me off...and I allow myself to be rejected like a pussy, when in actuality I KNOW that I CAN stop her and make her listen to me by being more authoritative in the first place... The feeling manifests itself as some form of anxiety in my chest.
Those are all pretty simple dude. Review your training. You're sublimating the problem to an "abstract" idea when in actuality you're mostly just not executing the fundamentals. Looks like you're also letting some crap like "Aww waaa.. that girl brushed me off when I approached her! >:'( " to have some sort of effect on your dates. There's no cause/effect relationship there. You've simply regressed to a pre-training chode state ;)
What's the mentality of a boss? How does that effect his behavior? How does that effect the way he carries out a plan? You KNOW what to do, break it down into its steps and get it done.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Thanks a fuck-ton man!
Dude you're not making anything clear tho. And no it's not "entitlement" that's about 5 layers up. Everyone's always talking about entitlement.. it's just a term dating companies can use to market products to you. DURR
Entitlement is the biggest bullshit concept ever.
I think Alex said the same shit, entitlement is something you shouldn't be thinking about. Its a concept that doesn't help anyone and will only hinder you.
I didn't know that. Interesting
Manwhore wrote:
Dude you're not making anything clear tho. And no it's not "entitlement" that's about 5 layers up. Everyone's always talking about entitlement.. it's just a term dating companies can use to market products to you. DURREntitlement is the biggest bullshit concept ever.
I think Alex said the same shit, entitlement is something you shouldn't be thinking about. Its a concept that doesn't help anyone and will only hinder you.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Manwhore wrote:
Dude you're not making anything clear tho. And no it's not "entitlement" that's about 5 layers up. Everyone's always talking about entitlement.. it's just a term dating companies can use to market products to you. DURREntitlement is the biggest bullshit concept ever.
I think Alex said the same shit, entitlement is something you shouldn't be thinking about. Its a concept that doesn't help anyone and will only hinder you.
That's not totally true. He said you want to have a sense of entitlement/deservedness, but you shouldn't be actively judging whether your game is good enough or something like that cause it will give you an ego and create inconsistency in your game.