The Difference between guys who get "good" and those who become "great" at game
I've noticed this among guys in Toronto quite often. I'm nowhere near "good" or "great", but I'd say I"m intermediate level. I want to get to a very high level though. Lately me and my main wing have been hanging out with a guy with very legit game and been learning a lot from him and watching him in field.
There are a lot of guys who become "good" at game. They develop a style/niche that gets them cute girls and in good quanity as well.
A lot of my friends are like this. They're happy with what they get. White guys who get a ton Asian girls and the occasional cute black/white/latina/ girl and are efficient at doing so, or my buddy who dominates the shit out of one "style" of game that works in certain situations.
There's nothing wrong with this. But if you want to become elite you can't be happy with "good" game. You have to push beyond that and be willing to suck balls to get far better in the long term.
The guys who get great usually do this-
1) Constantly learning and trying new things out. They are open to learn from different teachers and are open minded to anything that helps them. They're serious about this skillset.
2) They go to all kind of venues with or without wings. You'll them do solo game in a high end nightclub or in the day, or you'll see them with wings at a shitty bar sometimes as well. They're not afraid of going to the high end clubs that are harder to get into, with the "douchey/snooty" types because that's where you develop a strong frame.
On a note, that's an extremely common thing I notice about guys who get "good" results with girls, especially fairly good looking guys. They absolutely hate those kind of higher end places because they get destroyed in those places. Ultimately though, that's where your frame and game will develop very fast, because you'll just be used to stepping to hotter girls with much stronger frames.
3) They don't get into exclusive monogamous relationships that often, or at all. A lot of community guys get their first cute girl they connect with and then they wifey her up. Then you see them a few months later and they have lost all their swag and are kind of boring to be around.
4# and probably the most important. GUYS WHO SUCK, SEE THAT YOU ARE DOING BETTER AND YET WON'T TAKE YOUR ADVICE ON ANYTHING, EVEN THO THEY ASKED AND THEN THEY GIVE YOU ADVICE ON STUFF THAT APPARENTLY ''ALWAYS WORKS'' BUT YOU HAVE NEVER SEEN THEM DO IT.
YES, ALL CAPS, BECAUSE IT MAKES ME THAT MAD.
Literally the most dumbest retardation you can be born with.
ALSO, MY PERSONAL FAVORITE.
We talk about pulling.
''Yeah man, i pull so much, it's crazy. That's why the other guys hate me, because i always pull so much''.
15 minutes later we talk about logistics.
''Yeah man, my logistics are so bad, that's why i can't pull''.
And also, they realize they suck, so they try to ruin my state and bring me down to their level by ''negging me''. Saying my outfit isn't on point or just ''man, your legs are so skinny'' WHILE I'M IN A FUCKING SET AND I'M JUST LIKE:
AND THEY JUST EMBARASS THEMSELF FURTHERMORE, LIKE WTF MAN.
COME THE FUCK ON! GET YO SHIT TOGETHER BRO
I ALWAYS TRY TO BE A GOOD WINGMAN, BUT ALL I GET IN RETURN IS BULLSHIT. FUCK IT
NOW I FINALLY GET IT WHY DAMON HATED EVERYONE, BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE STUPID.
Yep I would say that nails it pretty damn well. During my military days I'd drive an hour out to the clubs 4x a week and stay out till 1 or 2, come back and wake up at 5am for pt in the morning. Lol. Rough but fuck it what else did I have going on. But I would get SLAUGHTERED out there hahaha. There was at least one crew of girls I'd run into sometimes that would just go out of their way to tool me. And I was an officer. These bitches had NO idea about respect or anything, they didn't give a shit. So I simply had to learn how to dish it back out. Game on, bitches
Dude I waana hear a short story on how they would go out of their way to tool you.
Also what gave you the motivation to go up there 4x a week? We're you in the community at this point or just a guy who liked to get out there?
"Greatness isn’t handed to anyone; it requires a lot of hard work. Yet that isn’t enough, since many people work hard for decades without approaching greatness or even getting significantly better. What’s missing? The best people in any field are those who devote the most hours to what the researchers call “deliberate practice.” It’s activity that’s explicitly intended to improve performance, that reaches for objectives just beyond one’s level of competence, provides feedback on results and involves high levels of repetition."
Yeah I was in the community. Basically they'd just stand there and talk shit. Imagine ds's in girl's bodies being assholes in clubs.