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Disqualification over Text/Setting Daddy Frame Over Text-Any Advice?

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Joined: 02/20/2014

Hey Guys-One current sticking point I'm trying to work through right now is a sort of lack of ability to to set that whole 'have the girl chase you' type of vibe....I'm having success but come off a bit too needy at certain times....Recently a chic texted me to 'Come Over'......And like a guy without abundance/enough shit going on, I'm like 'Great/Where are you/coming now/coming now...ect'......MW told me a nice reply to chic telling you to come over might be 'Ok,,,What are you cooking for me?'.....Lol....Just wanted to see if you guys could possibly expand a bit more ang give a few more examples of setting this type of vibe up...Appreciate it....

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"Girls are screening for guys

"Girls are screening for guys who are screening." 

P-Carde the idea is that you want to preempt this. Sex is NOT a good enough reason to hang out with a girl. For multiple reasons on her side AND your side. You NEED to put this on display for her. This comes out in all kinds of different ways, the way you make her solidify plans, the way you hold her to them, making her bring something to the date so she's invested, how you carry yourself in general, whether in person or over text. Girls live this breathe this without thinking. You need to be doing the same. It's a way of being persistent while still maintaining your value. You HAVE to do this. If you too readily agree to anything a girl agrees to you're chumping yourself out. You're displaying to the girl you don't have a lot going on and are overly eager to hang out. She wants a boss. Someone who values his own time. 

"I should have said to the AA chic 'If you had your shit together, you would be here with me right now....'"

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