Don't know whether to cut this girl off
met her twice so far.
The first time she came to one of my brother's PR nights at a bar, while i was doing the photography. I had massive social proof in the venue, cause everyone was interacting with me. A lot of sexual tension between us, went to get chinese after - i had to talk her out of getting the cab home which she kept bringing up, eventually got her to my bus stop. She hugged me for a long time then started kissing me while i laid back...(maybe i should've went mac daddy and started sayin some dirty shit?) her bus came that second, and she ran off cause she said she had to get up early next morning.
texted for a long time after that; meet up again like 3 weeks later. she comes to mine on a late sunday night and i take it easy with the escalation while we watch Workaholics. Then i ramp it up and start making out with her; try to touch the V and she swipes my hand away. she's playing hard to get cause her friend fucked my friend first time they met up. Shout out to my boy A504!
anyway, my big fuck up was not whipping my dick out. i've realized if i ain't turning myself on with some dominant verbals then i'm less likely to take things the whole way and take the D out.
she leaves again cause she's gotta model shoot early in the morning. tried to get her to sleepover to no avail - i corrected my mistakes when i fucked two girls a couple weeks later back to back, i.e. friday then saturday, but i still want this girlie.
bish is always busy; working 12 hours a day or wateva...i'm gaming other girls but i still wanna close the deal before i move back out to my mum's at the end of this month.
thoughts? need text examples?
Yeah you didn't handle her aggressively enough mang. You had multiple chances with her and didn't play to win.
Not to say it won't happen, but you got to take out the brake blocks.
she should be coming on thursday to my bro's party he's hosting at a bar. she said only for one hour (she's super busy) but i can be persuasive.
what do?
i was thinkin bust out the sexual verbals, and try pull to a sex location after 20 mins or so...(it's 40 mins from my place)
"She hugged me for a long time then started kissing me while i laid back...(maybe i should've went mac daddy and started sayin some dirty shit?)"
You're way too in your ego these days dude. More interested in looking cool than getting laid or actually making a connection with a girl and just experiencing life.
shit. reality check moment.
i do think i build connections with girls, like I LOVE seeing their personalities unfold in front of me. when i was vibing with this girl it was really cool, and i was present to the moment. when i say i laid back, i didn't just stand there like a rock - she kissed me then we started making out.
but yeah maybe it's becoming a recurrent theme of me pushing this 'be the prize' thing - any advice on how to tone it down?
lol she flaked again last weekend.
she couldn't come thursday night to this party cause she was tired as fuck. excusable cause she worked the whole day.
next day she was supposed to meet up with me - then as soon as she texted saying her bestie had come over by surprise and was predrinking with her, i knew it was game over. messages between us was sporadic that night, and shit fucked up. oh well, i beasted a couple girls that night in lieu of this fuck up.
but yeah...i could either keep shooting, call it quits or do what my friend A504 advised and flake on her?